Is it even public knowledge what the ratio is on here?
Been a member a long time and I feel like 7 or so years ago it felt a lot more evenly spread.
These days I reckon 90/100 messages go unread. A fab friend showed me her inbox and he was getting 100’s of messages a day.
Is it still appealing for people with all that mail? |
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No as most is thoughtless , the occasional Mail is meaningful . I also appreciate why you wouldn’t want to take time to write out a well thought message when half do get ignored. |
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"Is it even public knowledge what the ratio is on here?
Been a member a long time and I feel like 7 or so years ago it felt a lot more evenly spread.
These days I reckon 90/100 messages go unread. A fab friend showed me her inbox and he was getting 100’s of messages a day.
Is it still appealing for people with all that mail?"
I’d say 10/1 EASILY more. |
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"No as most is thoughtless , the occasional Mail is meaningful . I also appreciate why you wouldn’t want to take time to write out a well thought message when half do get ignored. "
I used to do this but it is indeed a lot of time and effort to get left on unread.
I’m not complaining as I definitely get for some it can be a full time job replying.
Must take some of the shine off it |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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"I suspect I bring down everyone’s averages.
I get a small handful of new messages every day and I reply to almost all of them if they aren’t abusive."
When I was a single female in here, abo ur 5 years ago, when fab was … well, fab. I used to have 1500 plus messages at any given time. Of late fab is no longer fabulous . Also, I’d say you are most unusual, a rarity to reply to all. as a woman myself iv seen some of the vulgarity we are exposed to nonchalantly. There are also some really great people here whom I now call friends having once simply opened a message x |
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"I suspect I bring down everyone’s averages.
I get a small handful of new messages every day and I reply to almost all of them if they aren’t abusive."
You sent me a very polite reply a few months back which was very refreshing |
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"I suspect I bring down everyone’s averages.
I get a small handful of new messages every day and I reply to almost all of them if they aren’t abusive.
You sent me a very polite reply a few months back which was very refreshing "
I may have my faith restored in fab after all Xx |
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"I suspect I bring down everyone’s averages.
I get a small handful of new messages every day and I reply to almost all of them if they aren’t abusive.
When I was a single female in here, abo ur 5 years ago, when fab was … well, fab. I used to have 1500 plus messages at any given time. Of late fab is no longer fabulous . Also, I’d say you are most unusual, a rarity to reply to all. as a woman myself iv seen some of the vulgarity we are exposed to nonchalantly. There are also some really great people here whom I now call friends having once simply opened a message x "
I’ve been on and off fabs for the last fifteen years or so and I’ve never experienced quantities like that (and never used filters). |
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"I suspect I bring down everyone’s averages.
I get a small handful of new messages every day and I reply to almost all of them if they aren’t abusive.
When I was a single female in here, abo ur 5 years ago, when fab was … well, fab. I used to have 1500 plus messages at any given time. Of late fab is no longer fabulous . Also, I’d say you are most unusual, a rarity to reply to all. as a woman myself iv seen some of the vulgarity we are exposed to nonchalantly. There are also some really great people here whom I now call friends having once simply opened a message x
I’ve been on and off fabs for the last fifteen years or so and I’ve never experienced quantities like that (and never used filters)."
I rarely used filters |
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never expect any replies which tbf can be a relief as I struggle with the chat side online. All interaction has been real life meeting at clubs although did have a couple of very nice meets in the past away from clubs. The meets & events section is useful to see who is looking. Got friends who are fun to fab their sexy pics too  |
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