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Women of fab. Do you cum during a meet?
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By (user no longer on site) OP 47 weeks ago
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"With a meet probably not unless the Mr does it.
Doesn't mean I enjoy the sex any less though.
Mrs "
That’s fair and I get it. Not easy with someone new |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 47 weeks ago
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"Not so far.
I need to know someone really well and be very relaxed. That's unlikely to happen with casual partners "
I’m sorry to hear that.
That makes sense but it’s a shame though. Have you ever had any meets where the guy was nervous and doesn’t finish?
Also I wanna say thank you. You replied to my other forum question and your answers are always the best  |
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"Not so far.
I need to know someone really well and be very relaxed. That's unlikely to happen with casual partners
I’m sorry to hear that.
That makes sense but it’s a shame though. Have you ever had any meets where the guy was nervous and doesn’t finish?
Also I wanna say thank you. You replied to my other forum question and your answers are always the best "
Don't be sorry, I'm not  .
Yes we've met guys who've been nervous and struggled in various ways either can't get an erection or struggle to achieve an orgasm. We honestly don't mind, it's about the whole experience for us, the erotic encounter and if we all have fun and go home happy it doesn't matter to either of us how that's achieved (legally and consensually of course).
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By *enatton2Couple 47 weeks ago
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90% of the times I have. I think the other 10% was when I didn’t really feel a physical connection with them. They were polite, looked nice but just didn’t get my juices flowing, so to speak.
I still enjoyed the meet, just didn’t cum |
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So good to see its not just me...thought I was the only person! 25% success rate at the moment but its early days, and I'm very hopeful. Also thoroughly enjoyed the sex anyway...
It's about enjoying the person for me... 
Mrs |
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Out of the meets I’ve had, in a club or otherwise, I’ve orgasmed with precisely 3 of those, and with another I actually squirted for the first time but I didn’t orgasm. The rest unfortunately not. I’ve still enjoyed all but one of the meets I’ve had, but I’ve found personally that sometimes the guy hasn’t put the effort in to really help. Penetration alone doesn’t bring me to climax (oh how I wish it did!)…I think I need to pick future meets a little more carefully |
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"I literally would die of embarrassment if they didn’t and be hugely dissatisfied disappointed and other adjectives for me it’s all about making someone cum "
It’s a huge turn off when guys have this kind of attitude.
It’s not a competition you can win. |
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"I literally would die of embarrassment if they didn’t and be hugely dissatisfied disappointed and other adjectives for me it’s all about making someone cum "
That would really put me off.
I dry up when the guys main focus is to try to make me cum. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 47 weeks ago
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"I literally would die of embarrassment if they didn’t and be hugely dissatisfied disappointed and other adjectives for me it’s all about making someone cum
That would really put me off.
I dry up when the guys main focus is to try to make me cum."
That’s why some women fake it. You can’t force it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 47 weeks ago
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"Always.
But the orgasm gap is very much a thing that exists."
It’s shame tbh.
Men just think that dick size is everything but I read that barely any women cum from that alone. |
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My meets always orgasm... some more than others, others a LOT more.
But then there is a lot of build up and pre meet tasks involved so it's not really a 'standard' meet.
The orgasm gap does exist, but this one is heavily skewed to the ladies benefit. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 47 weeks ago
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"Not so far.
I need to know someone really well and be very relaxed. That's unlikely to happen with casual partners
I’m sorry to hear that.
That makes sense but it’s a shame though. Have you ever had any meets where the guy was nervous and doesn’t finish?
Also I wanna say thank you. You replied to my other forum question and your answers are always the best
Don't be sorry, I'm not .
Yes we've met guys who've been nervous and struggled in various ways either can't get an erection or struggle to achieve an orgasm. We honestly don't mind, it's about the whole experience for us, the erotic encounter and if we all have fun and go home happy it doesn't matter to either of us how that's achieved (legally and consensually of course).
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I’m glad you have such a positive outlook. There’s such a pressure to perform and orgasm but it’s not always the case. That’s very true. You guys are really awesome |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 47 weeks ago
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"My meets always orgasm... some more than others, others a LOT more.
But then there is a lot of build up and pre meet tasks involved so it's not really a 'standard' meet.
The orgasm gap does exist, but this one is heavily skewed to the ladies benefit."
Like what kind of thing pre meet tasks? |
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"I'm here waiting for the generic belter that comes on and says I can make any woman Cum / Squirt / gush (delete as applicable)
Generic belter "
I'm sure as a couple / woman you've come across them. The types who start with fancy a shag or similar. And a willy pic |
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"I'm here waiting for the generic belter that comes on and says I can make any woman Cum / Squirt / gush (delete as applicable)
Generic belter
I'm sure as a couple / woman you've come across them. The types who start with fancy a shag or similar. And a willy pic "
You are spot on, there are plenty of them and they are guaranteed to disappoint  |
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"My meets always orgasm... some more than others, others a LOT more.
But then there is a lot of build up and pre meet tasks involved so it's not really a 'standard' meet.
The orgasm gap does exist, but this one is heavily skewed to the ladies benefit.
Like what kind of thing pre meet tasks? "
I am a full control Dom. So there will be a list of pre agreed tasks that could include dressing a particular way, contact tasks, edging or play... it depends a lot on the talk we have and what gets her in the right frame of mind. |
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Most times yes.
They sort it orally before penetration.
But I cum fairly easily on top from penetration alone. That’s my go to.
Only a handful got me there through them being in control of pace during penetration. But a Clit rub normally sorts it!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 47 weeks ago
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"I don't always cum at a meet. Bit always enjoy my meets."
I did mention guys too in a reply. That’s my worry not finishing but that’s okay. Not your fault. Nerves and new people. Not easy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 47 weeks ago
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"I don't think I've ever had a meet where I haven't cum... guess I've been lucky"
Wow really? I guess you are really lucky compared to the replies I’ve gotten here. Congratulations |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 47 weeks ago
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"Most times yes.
They sort it orally before penetration.
But I cum fairly easily on top from penetration alone. That’s my go to.
Only a handful got me there through them being in control of pace during penetration. But a Clit rub normally sorts it! "
That’s good to hear. I heard it’s rare for women to cum from penetration alone. You’re one for the lucky few who can
At least you know what works for you. |
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By *CLM87Woman 47 weeks ago
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"I don't think I've ever had a meet where I haven't cum... guess I've been lucky
Wow really? I guess you are really lucky compared to the replies I’ve gotten here. Congratulations "
Yep... definitely lucky |
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some of the fabbers we have met have brought me to orgasm, sometimes, yes. not all by penetrative sex, maybe with fingers, tongue or toys... but it has happened, for sure.
If a meet doesn't result in me cumming, it's not to say it's been a bad meet. We don't measure pleasure that way, theres more to a meet than what we get out of it. |
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"Most times yes.
They sort it orally before penetration.
But I cum fairly easily on top from penetration alone. That’s my go to.
Only a handful got me there through them being in control of pace during penetration. But a Clit rub normally sorts it!
That’s good to hear. I heard it’s rare for women to cum from penetration alone. You’re one for the lucky few who can
At least you know what works for you. "
The first time it happened I was pretty mind blown.
It’s normally when foreplay has me so wound up everywhere is more than ready x |
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I am lucky, I can cum quite easily and usually get 10+ orgasms on a meet. I am currently only meeting people who know me well and know how to press my buttons though, not interested in meeting anyone new unless in a club, by chance. |
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I don’t always cum during a meet. Sometimes that’s by choice. If I’m getting close but I’m enjoying what I’m doing at the time I’ll change the pace so I can keep going, unfortunately though sometimes when I do that it kind of stops me getting there again. |
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"With a meet probably not unless the Mr does it.
Doesn't mean I enjoy the sex any less though.
Mrs "
probably the same for me but not always. Had a meet with a few .. one a lovely couple and omg.. yes lots.
However I've found playing with Mr watching me or watching Mr make another lady cum.... oh yes..that makes me
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"Mrs doesn’t orgasm on meets or with others in clubs. It’s a deliberate choice for her. "
I don't choose not to. Its just for me the situation arising that I can do so is very unlikely. However I certainly wouldn't stop myself if it were going to happen. But we all like different things |
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Mrs is quite difficult to send over the edge, even for me sometimes.
Rarely from penetration, and usually with oral and toys, and even then it sometimes just cannot happen. She enjoys meets anyway, and gets pleasure from the play.
Often, if we are meeting we have to politely let people know it might not happen, or I will need to take over in the end and put her in the best position/use a specific technique to try and do it.
I know it frustrates her sometimes, but if she's struggling and starting to cramp up from tensing etc the last thing we want is someone persisting because of their ego... |
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Honestly, no...I regret to say that I have faked it in the past with meets but I think I just can't relax enough and they don't quite know which buttons to push with me.
I have promised myself I am going to stop faking it and just be honest. It doesn't mean I enjoy the sex any less but Hubby is the only one who can actually make me cum. |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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"I rarely cum with penetration, oral not a problem.
BUT, one of my fwb , never an issue.
I think, actually I know , it's because he's so fucking hot.
I get wet just thinking about it "
same for me thought I was alone although not many men seem interested in playing this way |
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