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"I removed that last post by accident. All I said was no I don’t Find cheats hot. I find it more sexier when the man has permission from his wife and she gets turned on by it too"
We are the other way around, where being a cuck she has ‘free rein’ to enjoy herself anytime she wants but I guess the mental turn on is still the same ! |
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"I removed that last post by accident. All I said was no I don’t Find cheats hot. I find it more sexier when the man has permission from his wife and she gets turned on by it too
We are the other way around, where being a cuck she has ‘free rein’ to enjoy herself anytime she wants but I guess the mental turn on is still the same !"
I think the main point is both parties are getting something out of it, both are enjoying the experience |
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By (user no longer on site) 46 weeks ago
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It's a total turn off for me....& Would never ever be attracted to a cheater no matter how hot they were....but I am aware some women love the buzz of seeing cheating men....& I know some who would like to break up a home too & intentionally try to do so.... |
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Seems to be a new forum post a week asking about cheats this, cheats that.
If you're not comfortable with it, then just don't talk to or meet the person. If you find it hot and horny, crack on.
Plenty of people get on their high horses about it. End of the day, if person A is cheating on their partner, really who is anyone else to judge? It's person A's life, person a's problem. |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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We will say this. There are some people really into it, but that information should be given right at the start so people can make informed decisions.
Several times we have gotten to the point of arranging a meet to then be told they are playing away which wastes all of our time as we do not assist with cheating. |
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It will always be a turn on for many but for those that have been on the receiving end it’s anything but! Hurts like hell and makes you fell completely unwanted and worthless knowing the person who supposedly loved you would seek their thrills elsewhere |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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"It will always be a turn on for many but for those that have been on the receiving end it’s anything but! Hurts like hell and makes you fell completely unwanted and worthless knowing the person who supposedly loved you would seek their thrills elsewhere "
This! |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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"Actually the opposite, it’s a major turn off for us  Same for me, I won't have anything to do with a cheat"
Same as....I won't have anything to do with a cheat either....they're deceitful & sneaky & they'll be sneaky with me too....I experienced it..
I was totally unaware he was married..he led me to believe he was exclusive to me ..but he was Fking left, right & centre & often going bareback.. Yup
Wasn't I lucky I didn't get an sti from him.
Someone tipped me off about his sexual behaviour |
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"Only if their wife knows about it, otherwise turn off.
Surely if their wife knows about it they’re not cheating though?"
Ha ha I think I was replying more about the wedding ring thing, but fair point  |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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Bizarrely. One of the most empowering things about swinging for me is that learning to enjoy and accept that your partner can find joy in others company without affecting all the things you have together that are truly special and unbreakable.... And therefore making it impossible for them to cheat on you.....
Takes a away a huge worry. It's like the ideal relationship status..... |
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"Bizarrely. One of the most empowering things about swinging for me is that learning to enjoy and accept that your partner can find joy in others company without affecting all the things you have together that are truly special and unbreakable.... And therefore making it impossible for them to cheat on you.....
Takes a away a huge worry. It's like the ideal relationship status..... "
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Had a few exs cheat on me and when iv found out iv not been able to stop fucking them. Then when they confess while fucking it is a powerful orgasm. On a few dating sites and try and guess who looks the unfaithful type for a right swipe |
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By *hoirCouple 45 weeks ago
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"I'm not but partial to a woman who does
. What women and guy who are willing to admit the wedding band makes them horny "
Do I like to cheat? No.
Do I like when others do? That depends on a case by case basis.
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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"I removed that last post by accident. All I said was no I don’t Find cheats hot. I find it more sexier when the man has permission from his wife and she gets turned on by it too"
I have the same attitude, hence my preference for hotwifes. |
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I want nothing to do with cheats and I wouldn't knowingly meet a woman cheating on her partner. Never have in 28 years AFAIK.
Here's the thing. Aside from the fact I don't want to be on someone's divorce papers, that's a betrayal I wish on no one.
I'm married myself and my wife and I have been swinging together 28 years. We play seperatly (me mostly because she likes me with other women) and as a couple, again usually with women and other couples. I've never once met anyone she's not known about and I've never had anything to worry about.
However.....
I will admit, I do enjoy meeting hotwives and cuckold couples. I loke taking her for the night to a hotel, treating like a date / illicit affair and then sending her home the following morning for us both to be "reclaimed" by our partners. It feeds into what my wife gets a thrill from but I genuinly love doing it.
So no, I don't like cheating but kinda like the indirect role play that in someway we are when i meet someone on their own who has a partner....if that makes any sense.
Amd if you are wondering how I know they are not cheating....most me.meeta are from social events and / or clubs. I talk with the husband once I know everyone is on the same page. |
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In part because I'm poly I hate the thought of cheating transparency is really important to me.
However on the flip side I have more than my fair share of cheating fantasies.
Relationship wise I'd only consider being in a long term relationship with a woman who literally needs multiple partners. There'd be no need to hide that from me though as we'd both be free to have our cake and eat it. |
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I, David, have full permission to play away.
Women can confirm with a phone call with Anne beforehand and even do WhatsApp with Anne during a meet. It’s a major turn on for us
I also love meeting hotwives and cuck couples
David |
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