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Nora's request - do women here prefer bi or straight?
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It’s not my request! 
I just know from past threads in the lounge that it’s always been only me and maybe one or two others who say straight. I never come in this forum. Seems very different in here to the lounge |
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"So far the straights are ahead in the polling, and just a couple with no preference either way
not many replies yet but
Pretty much as expected "
Couples with straight males would prefer a straight male.
Couples with a bi male would prefer a bi male.
This is not surprising as results go so far. |
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Most people won’t admit it, but at least from a couple perspective, if they won’t meet bi guys it’s because there is a definite element of homophobia there. I’m bi, but if I met with a straight couple, I’d have no issues playing “straight”. The same way I have no issues abiding by other boundaries that other people have got. There’s definitely an element of “what if he touches my cock” in play though. |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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If it's a 1 on 1 it doesn't make any difference to me, but if I was going to have a 3sum the it would be a (top & bottom) bi men.
I wish guys would say which one they are, it's so much easier on the F*bguys site. |
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"Most people won’t admit it, but at least from a couple perspective, if they won’t meet bi guys it’s because there is a definite element of homophobia there. I’m bi, but if I met with a straight couple, I’d have no issues playing “straight”. The same way I have no issues abiding by other boundaries that other people have got. There’s definitely an element of “what if he touches my cock” in play though. "
Surely you can actually understand the complete disgust a straight guy would feel having a bloke touch his cock especially without consent... I'm sure being sick mid play wouldn't be great for all party's involved pal  |
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"Most people won’t admit it, but at least from a couple perspective, if they won’t meet bi guys it’s because there is a definite element of homophobia there. I’m bi, but if I met with a straight couple, I’d have no issues playing “straight”. The same way I have no issues abiding by other boundaries that other people have got. There’s definitely an element of “what if he touches my cock” in play though. "
100% especially when they will meet bi women but not bi men
It makes no sense to me |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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"Most people won’t admit it, but at least from a couple perspective, if they won’t meet bi guys it’s because there is a definite element of homophobia there. I’m bi, but if I met with a straight couple, I’d have no issues playing “straight”. The same way I have no issues abiding by other boundaries that other people have got. There’s definitely an element of “what if he touches my cock” in play though.
Surely you can actually understand the complete disgust a straight guy would feel having a bloke touch his cock especially without consent... I'm sure being sick mid play wouldn't be great for all party's involved pal "
Would you be just as disgusted if a straight guy accidentally touched your cock? |
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"Most people won’t admit it, but at least from a couple perspective, if they won’t meet bi guys it’s because there is a definite element of homophobia there. I’m bi, but if I met with a straight couple, I’d have no issues playing “straight”. The same way I have no issues abiding by other boundaries that other people have got. There’s definitely an element of “what if he touches my cock” in play though.
Surely you can actually understand the complete disgust a straight guy would feel having a bloke touch his cock especially without consent... I'm sure being sick mid play wouldn't be great for all party's involved pal
Would you be just as disgusted if a straight guy accidentally touched your cock? "
Yes and that's based of the gender of said person touching my cock and not there sexuality there would be no reason for another male to touch my knob (Dr's aside) |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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I like a bi guy if the potential is there for people to join us, however if we are playing one on one the only thing that matters is if we are attracted to each other!! |
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"Most people won’t admit it, but at least from a couple perspective, if they won’t meet bi guys it’s because there is a definite element of homophobia there. I’m bi, but if I met with a straight couple, I’d have no issues playing “straight”. The same way I have no issues abiding by other boundaries that other people have got. There’s definitely an element of “what if he touches my cock” in play though.
Surely you can actually understand the complete disgust a straight guy would feel having a bloke touch his cock especially without consent... I'm sure being sick mid play wouldn't be great for all party's involved pal
Would you be just as disgusted if a straight guy accidentally touched your cock?
Yes and that's based of the gender of said person touching my cock and not there sexuality there would be no reason for another male to touch my knob (Dr's aside) "
to be fair accidental contact between guys does happen in 3sums and more sums. I've never known anyone do anything but laugh it off. X |
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"Most people won’t admit it, but at least from a couple perspective, if they won’t meet bi guys it’s because there is a definite element of homophobia there. I’m bi, but if I met with a straight couple, I’d have no issues playing “straight”. The same way I have no issues abiding by other boundaries that other people have got. There’s definitely an element of “what if he touches my cock” in play though.
Surely you can actually understand the complete disgust a straight guy would feel having a bloke touch his cock especially without consent... I'm sure being sick mid play wouldn't be great for all party's involved pal
Would you be just as disgusted if a straight guy accidentally touched your cock?
Yes and that's based of the gender of said person touching my cock and not there sexuality there would be no reason for another male to touch my knob (Dr's aside) to be fair accidental contact between guys does happen in 3sums and more sums. I've never known anyone do anything but laugh it off. X"
Fairs, an acidental brush and touching are completely different things however |
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By *bi HaiveMan 47 weeks ago
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"Most people won’t admit it, but at least from a couple perspective, if they won’t meet bi guys it’s because there is a definite element of homophobia there. I’m bi, but if I met with a straight couple, I’d have no issues playing “straight”. The same way I have no issues abiding by other boundaries that other people have got. There’s definitely an element of “what if he touches my cock” in play though.
Surely you can actually understand the complete disgust a straight guy would feel having a bloke touch his cock especially without consent... I'm sure being sick mid play wouldn't be great for all party's involved pal
Would you be just as disgusted if a straight guy accidentally touched your cock?
Yes and that's based of the gender of said person touching my cock and not there sexuality there would be no reason for another male to touch my knob (Dr's aside) to be fair accidental contact between guys does happen in 3sums and more sums. I've never known anyone do anything but laugh it off. X
Fairs, an acidental brush and touching are completely different things however "
Why would a bi/curious guy have any interest in touching a straight guys cock though?
It no different to a straight guy trying to stick his dick in a womans arse when she's already told him she doesn't enjoy anal.
Sexuality doesn't determine whether someone will respect preferences and boundaries. Being a decent human being does.
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"Most people won’t admit it, but at least from a couple perspective, if they won’t meet bi guys it’s because there is a definite element of homophobia there. I’m bi, but if I met with a straight couple, I’d have no issues playing “straight”. The same way I have no issues abiding by other boundaries that other people have got. There’s definitely an element of “what if he touches my cock” in play though.
Surely you can actually understand the complete disgust a straight guy would feel having a bloke touch his cock especially without consent... I'm sure being sick mid play wouldn't be great for all party's involved pal
Would you be just as disgusted if a straight guy accidentally touched your cock?
Yes and that's based of the gender of said person touching my cock and not there sexuality there would be no reason for another male to touch my knob (Dr's aside) to be fair accidental contact between guys does happen in 3sums and more sums. I've never known anyone do anything but laugh it off. X
Fairs, an acidental brush and touching are completely different things however
Why would a bi/curious guy have any interest in touching a straight guys cock though?
It no different to a straight guy trying to stick his dick in a womans arse when she's already told him she doesn't enjoy anal.
Sexuality doesn't determine whether someone will respect preferences and boundaries. Being a decent human being does.
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You'd have to ask a bi or curious guy that yourself chap I did mention consent these words can twist however wanted I stand with my original statement |
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"Most people won’t admit it, but at least from a couple perspective, if they won’t meet bi guys it’s because there is a definite element of homophobia there. "
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Nothing to do with Homophobia.
My wife has no problem with Gay/Bi guys, just doesnt find actually watching them having sex a turn on, infact the exact opposite. So two guys having sex infront of her is not a preference, however they want to do it with out her watching she has no problem.
So no phobias just preferences. |
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By *bi HaiveMan 47 weeks ago
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"Most people won’t admit it, but at least from a couple perspective, if they won’t meet bi guys it’s because there is a definite element of homophobia there. I’m bi, but if I met with a straight couple, I’d have no issues playing “straight”. The same way I have no issues abiding by other boundaries that other people have got. There’s definitely an element of “what if he touches my cock” in play though.
Surely you can actually understand the complete disgust a straight guy would feel having a bloke touch his cock especially without consent... I'm sure being sick mid play wouldn't be great for all party's involved pal
Would you be just as disgusted if a straight guy accidentally touched your cock?
Yes and that's based of the gender of said person touching my cock and not there sexuality there would be no reason for another male to touch my knob (Dr's aside) to be fair accidental contact between guys does happen in 3sums and more sums. I've never known anyone do anything but laugh it off. X
Fairs, an acidental brush and touching are completely different things however
Why would a bi/curious guy have any interest in touching a straight guys cock though?
It no different to a straight guy trying to stick his dick in a womans arse when she's already told him she doesn't enjoy anal.
Sexuality doesn't determine whether someone will respect preferences and boundaries. Being a decent human being does.
You'd have to ask a bi or curious guy that yourself chap I did mention consent these words can twist however wanted I stand with my original statement "
I am one. And I did spot your consent reference.
My question stands though. Why would a bi or curious guy have any interest in touching a straight guy if he knows the guy is straight, and the result won't be positive? By definition, they're just as interested in women as a straight guy and are perfectly capable of focusing on them in a threesome/group situation.
There often seems to be an assumption that bi or curious guys are incapable of respecting other men's sexuality and preferences.
People either do or don't respect the choices of others. Straight or bi. Male, female or NB.
Sexuality doesn't determine whether someone respects consent. |
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"Most people won’t admit it, but at least from a couple perspective, if they won’t meet bi guys it’s because there is a definite element of homophobia there. I’m bi, but if I met with a straight couple, I’d have no issues playing “straight”. The same way I have no issues abiding by other boundaries that other people have got. There’s definitely an element of “what if he touches my cock” in play though.
Surely you can actually understand the complete disgust a straight guy would feel having a bloke touch his cock especially without consent... I'm sure being sick mid play wouldn't be great for all party's involved pal "
Here’s the thing…… if I met a couple where the guy was straight, I wouldn’t touch his cock. Or have any interest in it. The same way if I met a bi couple where there was a no anal rule, I wouldn’t fuck either of them in the arse. Because I know that boundaries are boundaries. It has absolutely fuck all to do with my sexuality. |
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"Most people won’t admit it, but at least from a couple perspective, if they won’t meet bi guys it’s because there is a definite element of homophobia there. I’m bi, but if I met with a straight couple, I’d have no issues playing “straight”. The same way I have no issues abiding by other boundaries that other people have got. There’s definitely an element of “what if he touches my cock” in play though.
Surely you can actually understand the complete disgust a straight guy would feel having a bloke touch his cock especially without consent... I'm sure being sick mid play wouldn't be great for all party's involved pal
Here’s the thing…… if I met a couple where the guy was straight, I wouldn’t touch his cock. Or have any interest in it. The same way if I met a bi couple where there was a no anal rule, I wouldn’t fuck either of them in the arse. Because I know that boundaries are boundaries. It has absolutely fuck all to do with my sexuality. "
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"Most people won’t admit it, but at least from a couple perspective, if they won’t meet bi guys it’s because there is a definite element of homophobia there. I’m bi, but if I met with a straight couple, I’d have no issues playing “straight”. The same way I have no issues abiding by other boundaries that other people have got. There’s definitely an element of “what if he touches my cock” in play though.
Surely you can actually understand the complete disgust a straight guy would feel having a bloke touch his cock especially without consent... I'm sure being sick mid play wouldn't be great for all party's involved pal
Would you be just as disgusted if a straight guy accidentally touched your cock?
Yes and that's based of the gender of said person touching my cock and not there sexuality there would be no reason for another male to touch my knob (Dr's aside) "
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By *mmaleiaWoman 47 weeks ago
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Bi men have their place & 1 on1 that’s fine, I’m personally looking for a FWB that’ll be up for having a MFM, so in that scenario I’d like the guys to be straight so I get allllllll the attention obvs! |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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Am I stupid thinking when a guy meets a woman and has sex, it’s straight sex? 
And if he meets a guy it’s gay sex?
And the way he would describe this is that he’s bi-sexual?
Maybe I’m wrong, but that’s how I always saw it, and I’m alright with all of it.
I’ve been in a couple of threesomes, and one time, the guy was bisexual/curious and it made no difference to the time where the guy was straight. Each time was damn hot and sexy.
I mean, if he’s with a woman, it’s not like he’s going to suck her dick or anything.  |
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"Nora suggested a poll so let's find out if more fabswingers women prefer the guys that join them to be Bi or Straight? "
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By *bi HaiveMan 47 weeks ago
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"Nora suggested a poll so let's find out if more fabswingers women prefer the guys that join them to be Bi or Straight?
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Big shout out to all the guys on this thread answering for the women."
Well.....I mean I've met more than my fair share of couples over the last 16 years so feel reasonably qualified to provide input.
We can all speak from experience. I speak from mine and everyone I've ever met hasn't had an issue and no straight guys in the couples were bothered either.
Nobody answers a question on behalf of anyone else. How could they? The women of Fab aren't a hive mind and they'll each give their own view.
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Surely if you only meet straight guys or only meet bi guys then that’s who will come knocking on your door.
The problem is men or women will be either depending on your preference, if they want to play with you, your problem then is deciphering who’s being honest.
We don’t meet single guys, but presumably it’s easier for a bi guy to play straighf than a straight guy to play bi, but then there’s “FAB straight” all a tad confusing. |
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"Nora suggested a poll so let's find out if more fabswingers women prefer the guys that join them to be Bi or Straight?
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Big shout out to all the guys on this thread answering for the women.
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so feel reasonably qualified to provide input.
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So not qualified, reasonably or not.
OP clearly says "Women" and not reasonably qualified men.
Thanks anyway for your tuppence worth. |
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By *bi HaiveMan 47 weeks ago
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"Nora suggested a poll so let's find out if more fabswingers women prefer the guys that join them to be Bi or Straight?
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Big shout out to all the guys on this thread answering for the women.
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so feel reasonably qualified to provide input.
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So not qualified, reasonably or not.
OP clearly says "Women" and not reasonably qualified men.
Thanks anyway for your tuppence worth."
Nora has already stated she didn't request the poll, so I've skipped that part of the OP.
But...."let's find out if more fabswingers women prefer the guys that join them to be Bi or Straight?" isn’t a question that can be answered solely by women. Anyone that's met either single women or couples can give valid input, having been present at a meet, surely? After all, they were chosen as someone suitable to meet 
A wider variety of responses will give a broader outlook. |
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So it's a no no then. So what about spontaneity. I've often read on here where a straight guy of a couple has in the moment of play sucked the other guys cock and enjoyed it. So how does consent work there . |
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"Nora suggested a poll so let's find out if more fabswingers women prefer the guys that join them to be Bi or Straight? "
We don’t care but as we are both straight, it helps if the other couple are also straight |
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By *astpoetMan 47 weeks ago
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"If it's a 1 on 1 it doesn't make any difference to me, but if I was going to have a 3sum the it would be a (top & bottom) bi men.
I wish guys would say which one they are, it's so much easier on the F*bguys site. "
One of the things i don't understand is why this place doesn't have more options.
You should be able to add top, bottom or switch to a profile.
Likewise sub, dom/domme or switch.
It would save on a lot of wasted message i'd guess and help people find what they want more easily. |
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"Most people won’t admit it, but at least from a couple perspective, if they won’t meet bi guys it’s because there is a definite element of homophobia there. I’m bi, but if I met with a straight couple, I’d have no issues playing “straight”. The same way I have no issues abiding by other boundaries that other people have got. There’s definitely an element of “what if he touches my cock” in play though.
Surely you can actually understand the complete disgust a straight guy would feel having a bloke touch his cock especially without consent... I'm sure being sick mid play wouldn't be great for all party's involved pal
Would you be just as disgusted if a straight guy accidentally touched your cock?
Yes and that's based of the gender of said person touching my cock and not there sexuality there would be no reason for another male to touch my knob (Dr's aside) to be fair accidental contact between guys does happen in 3sums and more sums. I've never known anyone do anything but laugh it off. X
Fairs, an acidental brush and touching are completely different things however
Why would a bi/curious guy have any interest in touching a straight guys cock though?
It no different to a straight guy trying to stick his dick in a womans arse when she's already told him she doesn't enjoy anal.
Sexuality doesn't determine whether someone will respect preferences and boundaries. Being a decent human being does.
You'd have to ask a bi or curious guy that yourself chap I did mention consent these words can twist however wanted I stand with my original statement
I am one. And I did spot your consent reference.
My question stands though. Why would a bi or curious guy have any interest in touching a straight guy if he knows the guy is straight, and the result won't be positive? By definition, they're just as interested in women as a straight guy and are perfectly capable of focusing on them in a threesome/group situation.
There often seems to be an assumption that bi or curious guys are incapable of respecting other men's sexuality and preferences.
People either do or don't respect the choices of others. Straight or bi. Male, female or NB.
Sexuality doesn't determine whether someone respects consent. "
I do agree with this,
Some men and women seem to have issues in respecting others boundaries.
I've seen straight ladies who have posted that they've made it clear they are straight, yet a Bi ladies have still tried it on with them.
It's the person, not the sexuality.
Sorry going away from the original question, I'm straight and I don't mind if a man is bi or straight. |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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"Nora suggested a poll so let's find out if more fabswingers women prefer the guys that join them to be Bi or Straight?
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Big shout out to all the guys on this thread answering for the women."
Soz. ….
But guys very rarely have posts asking for our oppinions…..
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