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Hi sorry I didn't know how to word the title but basically my wife wants me to watch her get used by 2 plus men but my question is how safe is it to contact men on here as I know there's alot of undesirables on here with no respect |
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It's as safe as any other online messaging. There are good people, bad people, and psychopaths, but they're not right in front of you.
You'll get exactly nowhere without her being involved in the profile, though. As you have a single male profile, people will doubt if your wife exists or knows what you're up to. |
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Are people anywhere safe to meet? We take due diligence and mitigate the risks. You'll realize that lots of people have group meets, so you'll need to work out how you can make them happen as well as limiting risks.
Clubs are one of the easiest, as there's security. Users are known too.
Supervising sex helps to control sex too, such as for behavior and condoms.
It's great to have social meets beforehand too. You check compatibility and reliability.
Biggest problem for gangbangs is that 80% don't turn up. |
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"Are people anywhere safe to meet? We take due diligence and mitigate the risks. You'll realize that lots of people have group meets, so you'll need to work out how you can make them happen as well as limiting risks.
Clubs are one of the easiest, as there's security. Users are known too.
Supervising sex helps to control sex too, such as for behavior and condoms.
It's great to have social meets beforehand too. You check compatibility and reliability.
Biggest problem for gangbangs is that 80% don't turn up. "
Yup. Invite ten if you want two. |
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I've organised a few over the last year or so for couples and singles to varying success. I just use guys I've met at clubs and now consider friends.
From my experience biggest problem is getting people to show up, hence why I work with a small group of trusted guys now. Also having linked up with other groups I saw no safety issues whatsoever. The female and her partner were respected at all times. We even had single women and no problems.
Again, main issue is the no shows and cancellations. I suggest you focus on those well verified and been comfortable within group setting. Better yet, find an established group. Good luck. |
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No safer or worse than any other site I guess.
HOWEVER.....
I wouldn't do it. I'd use a decent club.
My reasons are:
1) Been invited 2 a couple of gangbangs through Fab (not my wife's thing..she's all about the women) and I was the only guy to show. Not trying to tar all single people with the same brush but as someone who has hosted social events and partys over the years, singles (both genders) tend to be the least likely to show. Never an issue at clubs.
2) On the right nights, you can invite whichever fellas catch your other half's eye. Maybe have some social time before hand and chat.
3) Most importantly, good clubs look after their members and the members play nicely/follow the rules. I know our local club is top.notch in this. Both the staff and the regular patrons (Club F if anyone is wondering).
It's your call but for anything that requires lots of people....clubs the way to go (at least if you're sociable).
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"No safer or worse than any other site I guess.
HOWEVER.....
I wouldn't do it. I'd use a decent club.
My reasons are:
1) Been invited 2 a couple of gangbangs through Fab (not my wife's thing..she's all about the women) and I was the only guy to show. Not trying to tar all single people with the same brush but as someone who has hosted social events and partys over the years, singles (both genders) tend to be the least likely to show. Never an issue at clubs.
2) On the right nights, you can invite whichever fellas catch your other half's eye. Maybe have some social time before hand and chat.
3) Most importantly, good clubs look after their members and the members play nicely/follow the rules. I know our local club is top.notch in this. Both the staff and the regular patrons (Club F if anyone is wondering).
It's your call but for anything that requires lots of people....clubs the way to go (at least if you're sociable).
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This is absolutely the way. I have heard of clubs helping with these things as well. Tokens were given out by the woman and a time arranged. Then at the arranged time a room was kept free and only people with tokens were allowed to go in. |
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"Hi sorry I didn't know how to word the title but basically my wife wants me to watch her get used by 2 plus men but my question is how safe is it to contact men on here as I know there's alot of undesirables on here with no respect "
How has your wife got on with her meets on here so far ? |
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"Hi sorry I didn't know how to word the title but basically my wife wants me to watch her get used by 2 plus men but my question is how safe is it to contact men on here as I know there's alot of undesirables on here with no respect "
Single male profile
Yawn |
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By *ornycougaWoman 40 weeks ago
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There are a number of profiles on here that regularly organise gangbangs with a large stable of stallions  They are well verified, reliable and as they often know one another, the vibe is great too. That would be my first port of call tho you may need to join a queue! |
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We have had several big gangbangs with guys from here and other sites. Very safe but if unsure, go to a swingers club and our the staff know that she is a greedy girl. Most can then allow in more single guys |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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"Hi sorry I didn't know how to word the title but basically my wife wants me to watch her get used by 2 plus men but my question is how safe is it to contact men on here as I know there's alot of undesirables on here with no respect "
Why the eff is it ALWAYS single M profiles that start with this BS?
"My wife (I really mean me) as a desire (mine again) to get ploughed by 200 cocks. Please message me and tell me what you'd like to do to her (so I can have a quick tug of my cashew sized willy).
Just watch a bongo movie mate! There's loads on t'internet. |
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By *lthomasMan 40 weeks ago
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A couples profile & then post a meet if what you’re looking for.
That’s your starting point, and you can wiggle the contenders down from there, by looking at how long they’ve been on any verifications they have, and then messaging them and seeing if they can hold a conversation |
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By *oxy jWoman 40 weeks ago
taunton somerset |
the problem with gangbang are unless you organise them yourself you end up allowing those you would normally not go for touch you and thats a total turn off .. go to club and tell me that you fancy all the guys ?? its rare i fancy one or two let along the whole club ..
ive had quite a few over the years and whiles they are a pain to organise its the only way ill let a group of guys near me ie knowing i at least fancy then i guess with knowing so many guys cause of how long on the scene getting guys is easy ish timimg is the biggest issue but once sorted its great ..
id never let a guy organise a gangbang for me i need trust and you dont get that with people you dont know..
safety well thats 100% down to you you discuss the rules you apply them and be firm about it you need your partner to be your eyes as some guys will take the piss ....
as with everything swinging consent is everything make sure they all know that no matter where or how you gang bang ..
im lucky hubs is always my eyes and stands for no shit so for some of use its easier just because of how long we have been on this scene ... get it right and you'll have a blast |
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"Hi sorry I didn't know how to word the title but basically my wife wants me to watch her get used by 2 plus men but my question is how safe is it to contact men on here as I know there's alot of undesirables on here with no respect
Why the eff is it ALWAYS single M profiles that start with this BS?
"My wife (I really mean me) as a desire (mine again) to get ploughed by 200 cocks. Please message me and tell me what you'd like to do to her (so I can have a quick tug of my cashew sized willy).
Just watch a bongo movie mate! There's loads on t'internet. "
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"the problem with gangbang are unless you organise them yourself you end up allowing those you would normally not go for touch you and thats a total turn off .. go to club and tell me that you fancy all the guys ?? its rare i fancy one or two let along the whole club ..
ive had quite a few over the years and whiles they are a pain to organise its the only way ill let a group of guys near me ie knowing i at least fancy then i guess with knowing so many guys cause of how long on the scene getting guys is easy ish timimg is the biggest issue but once sorted its great ..
id never let a guy organise a gangbang for me i need trust and you dont get that with people you dont know..
safety well thats 100% down to you you discuss the rules you apply them and be firm about it you need your partner to be your eyes as some guys will take the piss ....
as with everything swinging consent is everything make sure they all know that no matter where or how you gang bang ..
im lucky hubs is always my eyes and stands for no shit so for some of use its easier just because of how long we have been on this scene ... get it right and you'll have a blast"
As a cuck who has organised a few multiple cock meets for my wife I’d say your observations and comments are ‘spot on’ ! |
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