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By *MCMan 41 weeks ago
London/EA |
"Come on, don’t shoot the poor lad down, we’re meant to be a forum that helps each other here..
Keep persisting op, you’ll get a response soon.
Huh?  "
If I have to explain it to you then its not worth wasting my time  |
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"What 2 seconds lol"
It’s longer than 2s seconds and you have to send a reply to over 1000 people - by the time you’ve finished replying even more periods have contacted you. You’d never actually get to use the site yourself |
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By *riel13Woman 41 weeks ago
Northampton |
"Come on, don’t shoot the poor lad down, we’re meant to be a forum that helps each other here..
Keep persisting op, you’ll get a response soon.
Huh?
If I have to explain it to you then its not worth wasting my time "
You just did explaining that ypu didn't want to explain why... Not sure you understood my confusion though... But nevermind  |
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By *TinRedCouple 41 weeks ago
Reading |
"I've been on 10 years now things have changed I always polite and doesn't cost anything to reply no thanks"
You'd be surprised the amount of times people get shitty, or just don't take no for an answer....
It's easier to just not reply if they're not our type. Not sure how many times it needs to be said... No reply is a reply!! |
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By *riel13Woman 41 weeks ago
Northampton |
"What 2 seconds to reply says she with no verifications"
Who has no verifications? Answering every person you aren't interested in, that messages with at least 2 seconds is a waste... And often gets shitty, so when there is a way of knowing who does n doesn't get shitty or try and change your mind... I will give it a miss... It really spoils the time I spend on here... But thanks... Oh yeah, it's not just you they don't reply to, don't worry |
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"What 2 seconds to reply says she with no verifications
Who has no verifications? Answering every person you aren't interested in, that messages with at least 2 seconds is a waste... And often gets shitty, so when there is a way of knowing who does n doesn't get shitty or try and change your mind... I will give it a miss... It really spoils the time I spend on here... But thanks... Oh yeah, it's not just you they don't reply to, don't worry "
I totally agree with this. |
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"I've been on 10 years now things have changed I always polite and doesn't cost anything to reply no thanks"
You've been on here ten years and you don't know that delete meaning no thank you is in the FAQ? |
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By *riel13Woman 41 weeks ago
Northampton |
"What 2 seconds to reply says she with no verifications
Do you mean me? I’ve got 11 verifications on here, the most recent on Saturday. "
I think he means me because I don't have a summary or display any... He is mistaken |
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"I've been on 10 years now things have changed I always polite and doesn't cost anything to reply no thanks
You'd be surprised the amount of times people get shitty, or just don't take no for an answer....
It's easier to just not reply if they're not our type. Not sure how many times it needs to be said... No reply is a reply!!"
Yeap, agree with this |
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"What 2 seconds to reply says she with no verifications
Do you mean me? I’ve got 11 verifications on here, the most recent on Saturday.
I think he means me because I don't have a summary or display any... He is mistaken "
Mistaken about so many things it seems |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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Was chatting to a couple had couple video chats discussions on scenarios got on really well day of the meet just thought I'd message them to say I'm on my way.... Blocked.. log on to another account the next day to see they meet with another guy who left verification for them, absolutely brutal, had a recent thing happen with another couple same sort of deal, but I guess keep trying |
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By *riel13Woman 41 weeks ago
Northampton |
"Manners cost nothing we always reply "
I actually tried once, when I was attracive... It was not possible to reply to everyone whether I was interested or not... My inbox is quieter these days but if you message me now I probably won't even read or see your message let alone reply... They clearly also have no manners so I ain’t cryin about it |
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By *riel13Woman 41 weeks ago
Northampton |
"Was chatting to a couple had couple video chats discussions on scenarios got on really well day of the meet just thought I'd message them to say I'm on my way.... Blocked.. log on to another account the next day to see they meet with another guy who left verification for them, absolutely brutal, had a recent thing happen with another couple same sort of deal, but I guess keep trying "
That is just shitty! |
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"Manners cost nothing we always reply
I actually tried once, when I was attracive... It was not possible to reply to everyone whether I was interested or not... My inbox is quieter these days but if you message me now I probably won't even read or see your message let alone reply... They clearly also have no manners so I ain’t cryin about it"
I tried replying to everyone when I first joined. Not a good time, do not recommend. |
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The reality is that this site is a vastly different experience for single women, couples and then single men. It's just the way it is and anyone that can't accept it shouldn't be on here. I have friends on here in the two former categories. I have sat with single females who are on here on a night out while we have been browsing using her profile and the number of messages single women get is bonkers. There is no way most could reply to them all. And even if they try they sometimes get abuse after a polite thanks but no thanks. It's just how it is. I've been on here years and never been offended by no reply. I'm secure enough and intelligent enough to get it. |
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By *riel13Woman 41 weeks ago
Northampton |
"Manners cost nothing we always reply
I actually tried once, when I was attracive... It was not possible to reply to everyone whether I was interested or not... My inbox is quieter these days but if you message me now I probably won't even read or see your message let alone reply... They clearly also have no manners so I ain’t cryin about it
I tried replying to everyone when I first joined. Not a good time, do not recommend."
I know right... I was unemployed at the time so I was up for way longer than I should have been, trying! |
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"Manners cost nothing we always reply
I actually tried once, when I was attracive... It was not possible to reply to everyone whether I was interested or not... My inbox is quieter these days but if you message me now I probably won't even read or see your message let alone reply... They clearly also have no manners so I ain’t cryin about it
I tried replying to everyone when I first joined. Not a good time, do not recommend.
I know right... I was unemployed at the time so I was up for way longer than I should have been, trying! "
I landed in hospital three days after joining (had an accident) and got plenty of abuse for saying "I can't meet any time soon, I'll be out of action for awhile". (Note - I wasn't using it as a sob story, I wasn't even saying no, I was just saying not yet!) |
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By *riel13Woman 41 weeks ago
Northampton |
"I've met some lovely people in my time at clubs and private parties but had some jokers as well lead me on till day of meet "
There is definitely no need for that shit! And there are some really great people on here |
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By *riel13Woman 41 weeks ago
Northampton |
"Manners cost nothing we always reply
I actually tried once, when I was attracive... It was not possible to reply to everyone whether I was interested or not... My inbox is quieter these days but if you message me now I probably won't even read or see your message let alone reply... They clearly also have no manners so I ain’t cryin about it
I tried replying to everyone when I first joined. Not a good time, do not recommend.
I know right... I was unemployed at the time so I was up for way longer than I should have been, trying!
I landed in hospital three days after joining (had an accident) and got plenty of abuse for saying "I can't meet any time soon, I'll be out of action for awhile". (Note - I wasn't using it as a sob story, I wasn't even saying no, I was just saying not yet!)"
Aahh how dare you have a foof and not share it! |
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"I've been on 10 years now things have changed I always polite and doesn't cost anything to reply no thanks"
A no thanks to you may only be 30 to 40 seconds of effort, but some women get 500+ messages a day. That's 5 hours telling people no. |
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"Manners cost nothing we always reply
I actually tried once, when I was attracive... It was not possible to reply to everyone whether I was interested or not... My inbox is quieter these days but if you message me now I probably won't even read or see your message let alone reply... They clearly also have no manners so I ain’t cryin about it
I tried replying to everyone when I first joined. Not a good time, do not recommend.
I know right... I was unemployed at the time so I was up for way longer than I should have been, trying!
I landed in hospital three days after joining (had an accident) and got plenty of abuse for saying "I can't meet any time soon, I'll be out of action for awhile". (Note - I wasn't using it as a sob story, I wasn't even saying no, I was just saying not yet!)
Aahh how dare you have a foof and not share it! "
some even suggested coming in while the nurses weren't looking, and when I said no, they told me I didn't understand their pain  (I had an unstable fracture and was being given painkillers pretty regularly. I'm pretty sure not being laid might have been less painful) |
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By *oxy jWoman 41 weeks ago
taunton somerset |
no thank = awww why not
no thanks = oh go on youll enjoy it
no thanks = would not shag you anyway you ugly cow
nope i reply to whom i want to reply too i owe nobody anything let alone a reply but if they all read my profile 95% of them would see im not interested in them but they dont read the profile so theirs zero chance ill reply and thank goodness for the block button .... |
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By *riel13Woman 41 weeks ago
Northampton |
"Manners cost nothing we always reply
I actually tried once, when I was attracive... It was not possible to reply to everyone whether I was interested or not... My inbox is quieter these days but if you message me now I probably won't even read or see your message let alone reply... They clearly also have no manners so I ain’t cryin about it
I tried replying to everyone when I first joined. Not a good time, do not recommend.
I know right... I was unemployed at the time so I was up for way longer than I should have been, trying!
I landed in hospital three days after joining (had an accident) and got plenty of abuse for saying "I can't meet any time soon, I'll be out of action for awhile". (Note - I wasn't using it as a sob story, I wasn't even saying no, I was just saying not yet!)
Aahh how dare you have a foof and not share it!
some even suggested coming in while the nurses weren't looking, and when I said no, they told me I didn't understand their pain (I had an unstable fracture and was being given painkillers pretty regularly. I'm pretty sure not being laid might have been less painful)"
Mental! Hope all is well now?! |
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"Manners cost nothing we always reply
I actually tried once, when I was attracive... It was not possible to reply to everyone whether I was interested or not... My inbox is quieter these days but if you message me now I probably won't even read or see your message let alone reply... They clearly also have no manners so I ain’t cryin about it
I tried replying to everyone when I first joined. Not a good time, do not recommend.
I know right... I was unemployed at the time so I was up for way longer than I should have been, trying!
I landed in hospital three days after joining (had an accident) and got plenty of abuse for saying "I can't meet any time soon, I'll be out of action for awhile". (Note - I wasn't using it as a sob story, I wasn't even saying no, I was just saying not yet!)
Aahh how dare you have a foof and not share it!
some even suggested coming in while the nurses weren't looking, and when I said no, they told me I didn't understand their pain (I had an unstable fracture and was being given painkillers pretty regularly. I'm pretty sure not being laid might have been less painful)
Mental! Hope all is well now?! "
Oh yes, all fine now. Just a bit of twinge in the old injury when a thunderstorm is coming  |
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We don’t reply to anyone we’re not interested in, it’s that simple. As has been said above it’s a time issue and an abuse issue. Could not care less to be honest if people (mostly men) get frustrated with it, our inbox at times is mental. Just not doing it. People also don’t reply to us, quite regularly and they have their reasons, perfectly acceptable to us. |
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"I've been on 10 years now things have changed I always polite and doesn't cost anything to reply no thanks"
My experience is different, reply no thanks and you get why not, I would show you a great time etc etc so I don’t reply. I don’t block either unless they get annoying with repeat messages all saying the exact same thing. |
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