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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Ok so I had an interesting dream last night only a dream nothing to stress over but it got me thinking. The dream was mrs got pregnant but we always ware condoms not just with meets but on our own as well however everyone knows accidents happen. In a normall relationship it's not an issue you would accept it as an accident but how would it change in a swinging relationship? Would you question weather the baby was your even tho everything you done was fully consensual or would you accept you both took the risk and just accept it as your own. Abortion wouldn't be an option.

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By *plnorfolkCouple over a year ago

norwich

"Ok so I had an interesting dream last night only a dream nothing to stress over but it got me thinking. The dream was mrs got pregnant but we always ware condoms not just with meets but on our own as well however everyone knows accidents happen. In a normall relationship it's not an issue you would accept it as an accident but how would it change in a swinging relationship? Would you question weather the baby was your even tho everything you done was fully consensual or would you accept you both took the risk and just accept it as your own. Abortion wouldn't be an option. "

Double bag it or insist they cum outside

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By *issHottieBottieWoman over a year ago

Kent

That's actually a really interesting question. I imagine you'd prob be able to narrow it down who the possible father would be by the dates (assuming there wasn't a gang bang situation

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Would you contact the other guy? I have no idea what I'd do in that situation tbh x

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By *roovytwoCouple over a year ago

burnley

Condoms fine for protection against STD,s but not so good as a contraceptive.There are many forms of very efficient contraception now available and usually one to suit all requirements and medical history.

Think it could pose a problem both immediate and possibly later)if the situation arose that your partner was pregnant and you were not 100% sure who the father was?Best avoided if at all possible.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sounds like a job for jeremy kyle

Omg I think he would have a heart attack over it

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By *issHottieBottieWoman over a year ago

Kent

"Sounds like a job for jeremy kyle

Omg I think he would have a heart attack over it

Wouldn't he just?? I'd watch that programme.

Who's my baby daddy? My husband or one of twenty men from a gangbang but I don't know any of there makes etc'

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By *issHottieBottieWoman over a year ago

Kent

Makes?? I meant names x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sounds like a job for jeremy kyle

Omg I think he would have a heart attack over it

Wouldn't he just?? I'd watch that programme.

Who's my baby daddy? My husband or one of twenty men from a gangbang but I don't know any of there makes etc' "

If anyone has seen maury then they do have scenarios like that lol

'Chantelle is here for a 3rd time to find her babies daddy after 10 other guys prooved not to be!'

'Shola went to a party, which of the 5 guys is her babies daddy!'

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Makes?? I meant names x"
only jezza Kyle can sort this out

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Omg can you imagine

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sounds like a job for jeremy kyle

Omg I think he would have a heart attack over it

Wouldn't he just?? I'd watch that programme.

Who's my baby daddy? My husband or one of twenty men from a gangbang but I don't know any of there makes etc'

If anyone has seen maury then they do have scenarios like that lol

'Chantelle is here for a 3rd time to find her babies daddy after 10 other guys prooved not to be!'

'Shola went to a party, which of the 5 guys is her babies daddy!'"

Lol, Ive watched those!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The best response is to accept it as your own and move on. There are an alarming number of children born all the time to families and the husband isn't the father. Women have been covering up affairs for years.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just imagine Jeremy standing there with 24 results from the DNA test !!!!!

The whole stage is taken up by the potential fathers and the woman is sat there trying to defend herself lol !!!!!!

And her poor husband , just an average guy and he has just been told it isn't his !!!

And after all 24 are told it isn't theirs , Jeremy says she failed the lie detector test and that she had sex with someone else she didn't tell him about - priceless

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By *issHottieBottieWoman over a year ago

Kent

"Sounds like a job for jeremy kyle

Omg I think he would have a heart attack over it

Wouldn't he just?? I'd watch that programme.

Who's my baby daddy? My husband or one of twenty men from a gangbang but I don't know any of there makes etc'

If anyone has seen maury then they do have scenarios like that lol

'Chantelle is here for a 3rd time to find her babies daddy after 10 other guys prooved not to be!'

'Shola went to a party, which of the 5 guys is her babies daddy!'"

Yes I've seen Maury! I think 18 was the record and they still didn't know!!

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By *unky monkeyMan over a year ago

in the night garden

If it is a bareback gangbang does the baby get made up of bits of different spunk?

One time on Nightmare on Elm Street they explained that Freddy Krueger's Mum was raped by escaped mental patients and that he was the bastard son of a thousand lunatics.

I have based most of my gynaecological knowledge on this.

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By *pecifically1Woman over a year ago

Hull

Perhaps best to rely on another form of contraceptive as well as condoms. I do....A pregnancy would be a complete nightmare for me health and mentally....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We always agreed that if Ann ever got pregnant it was our baby no Question. If you can not accept that concept you should not be taking that sort of risk with your relationship!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just imagine Jeremy standing there with 24 results from the DNA test !!!!!

The whole stage is taken up by the potential fathers and the woman is sat there trying to defend herself lol !!!!!!

And her poor husband , just an average guy and he has just been told it isn't his !!!

And after all 24 are told it isn't theirs , Jeremy says she failed the lie detector test and that she had sex with someone else she didn't tell him about - priceless

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I never relied on just condoms when swinging, I have now had the 'snip' (female version), but still use condoms.

I know a lady that got caught and couldnt face abortion, she gave the baby up for adoption sadly, but the father (potential fathers) have no idea

I guess its for each person to do what they think is right at the time.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple over a year ago

Herts

Difficult to say unless you're IN that situation to be honest... We take all the precautions necessary to make sure it DOESN'T happen, but if it did, Vince has always said we would deal with it together whether the other guy wanted to know or not. I know people change but I would like to think that I could trust him there.

Although for peace of mind, I think I would like paternity tests done (not through Jezza though, fuck explaining that situation to him!).

- Amy. x

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By *radleyandRavenCouple over a year ago

Herts

"We always agreed that if Ann ever got pregnant it was our baby no Question. If you can not accept that concept you should not be taking that sort of risk with your relationship!!!"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wow CSa would have a field day lol

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By *kmale421Man over a year ago

wirral

"The best response is to accept it as your own and move on. There are an alarming number of children born all the time to families and the husband isn't the father. Women have been covering up affairs for years."

This is true, a survey a few years ago estimated that in the UK about 2% of fathers are unknowingly raising children that aren't biologically theirs. I remember thinking at the time that is was amazing that nearly 1 in every 50 Dads were possibly in this position.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

At the moment mrs is going through lady problems wont go into detail trying all sorts of contraceptive options to resolve it. But we can't reli on it for the purpose of contraception so condoms is really our only barrier at present until the issue is resolved. But no form of contraception is really fail prove unless you go for something extreme.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i have thought i might be pregnant a couple of times a few years ago.

if i had of been i would have an abortion, my hubby would expect me to as well.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd say this. I would never rely just on condoms for contraception as I am little miss fertile. And although I don't allow cum in me even in a condom.

I do know a lady that this happened with. They haven't questioned it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok so I had an interesting dream last night only a dream nothing to stress over but it got me thinking. The dream was mrs got pregnant but we always ware condoms not just with meets but on our own as well however everyone knows accidents happen. In a normal relationship it's not an issue you would accept it as an accident but how would it change in a swinging relationship? Would you question weather the baby was your even tho everything you done was fully consensual or would you accept you both took the risk and just accept it as your own. Abortion wouldn't be an option. "

As I see it if you are going to swing and your wife is unprotected from pregnancy then that is a dangerous way to go. There are innumerable ways she could ger semen inside her in a group situation and not all are related to penetrative sex. I would seek contraception asap. But it is your life.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If it is a bareback gangbang does the baby get made up of bits of different spunk?

One time on Nightmare on Elm Street they explained that Freddy Krueger's Mum was raped by escaped mental patients and that he was the bastard son of a thousand lunatics.

I have based most of my gynaecological knowledge on this.

Oh yes, I'd forgotten about that. And The Elephant Man was conceived after his mother was raped by an elephant, according to the film I watched, oh wait, was that a porn film??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If it is a bareback gangbang does the baby get made up of bits of different spunk?

One time on Nightmare on Elm Street they explained that Freddy Krueger's Mum was raped by escaped mental patients and that he was the bastard son of a thousand lunatics.

I have based most of my gynaecological knowledge on this.

Oh yes, I'd forgotten about that. And The Elephant Man was conceived after his mother was raped by an elephant, according to the film I watched, oh wait, was that a porn film??"

one sperm one fetus. It will be the best bull of the night at least.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

once a sperm cell gets into the egg that's it its fertilized. it is not possible to have more than one biological father. one sperm one egg bang done cook for 9 months and you have a baby.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Double wrapping it is worse than single wrapping. makes them less effective you should be using more than one type of contraceptive to prevent getting pregnant

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"once a sperm cell gets into the egg that's it its fertilized. it is not possible to have more than one biological father. one sperm one egg bang done cook for 9 months and you have a baby. "

Unless there are two eggs. Then both could have different dads.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

as the op said,this was a dream nothin more and didnt happen so i can officially say i did laugh at half of these comments,eg jezza ones and the csa

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"once a sperm cell gets into the egg that's it its fertilized. it is not possible to have more than one biological father. one sperm one egg bang done cook for 9 months and you have a baby. "
clearly you have not seen the film 'twins' or nightmare on elm street' both factual! you've no need to lecture on how babies are made

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If an abortion isn't an option that's a question to men really as if the baby was being kept the women would have to accept it and bring it up regardless of what the man decided wouldn't she?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nightmare on elm street is actually based on a medical condition that causes nightmares to end in death. the whole freddy thing became an urban legend then the film. so there not fact now im going to research twins and find out the facts there. but let me tell you my sister is a midwife and my mother is a dr iv asked both of them if a baby can have more than one biological father and it is not possible. a woman can give 2 eggs that can be fertilized by different men but one child cannot have 2 biological fathers. and by the way was only telling the person with the earlier nightmare on elm street comment that he was misguided

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nightmare on elm street is actually based on a medical condition that causes nightmares to end in death. the whole freddy thing became an urban legend then the film. so there not fact now im going to research twins and find out the facts there. but let me tell you my sister is a midwife and my mother is a dr iv asked both of them if a baby can have more than one biological father and it is not possible. a woman can give 2 eggs that can be fertilized by different men but one child cannot have 2 biological fathers. and by the way was only telling the person with the earlier nightmare on elm street comment that he was misguided"
Sarcasm is the lowest form of wit and it goes straight over the head of the half witted

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By *ouple_SpondonCouple over a year ago

Spondon

"We always agreed that if Ann ever got pregnant it was our baby no Question. If you can not accept that concept you should not be taking that sort of risk with your relationship!!!"

personally speaking, despite the proximity of conception to swinging we believe the child would be withour question ours. The other party would not expect to go to someones house for a quickie and come out a father. We wouldn't even tell them.

Perhaps the double-edged question is would you tell the child when the come of age?

We wouldn't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Just to clarify we are not unprotected we always use condoms and are trial other methods of contraception. Whilst trying to solve mrs lady issues. But that was not the point of the thread didn't expect a sex ed lesson lol. Most forms of contraception have a risk of failing fact. So the point of the thread was what would you do in that situation.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nightmare on elm street is actually based on a medical condition that causes nightmares to end in death. the whole freddy thing became an urban legend then the film. so there not fact now im going to research twins and find out the facts there. but let me tell you my sister is a midwife and my mother is a dr iv asked both of them if a baby can have more than one biological father and it is not possible. a woman can give 2 eggs that can be fertilized by different men but one child cannot have 2 biological fathers. and by the way was only telling the person with the earlier nightmare on elm street comment that he was misguided Sarcasm is the lowest form of wit and it goes straight over the head of the half witted"

im actually gob smacked he took that post serious

*walks away shaking head*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We always agreed that if Ann ever got pregnant it was our baby no Question. If you can not accept that concept you should not be taking that sort of risk with your relationship!!!

Perhaps the double-edged question is would you tell the child when the come of age?

We wouldn't."

This would be my view too. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We always agreed that if Ann ever got pregnant it was our baby no Question. If you can not accept that concept you should not be taking that sort of risk with your relationship!!!

Perhaps the double-edged question is would you tell the child when the come of age?

We wouldn't."

hes another edge on the situation

what if your a white couple and it was a black guy who got you pregnant?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe any couples that are worried about the possibility of the wife conceiving during playing should only play with men like myself who have had a vasectomy

No chance of me accidentally getting anybody pregnant!

Of course there would still be a trust issue as the man would have to have some proof that he had had a vasectomy which would mean revealing his real name and proving that through photo id. But at least no one would have to worry about the patter of little feet lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

what if your a white couple and it was a black guy who got you pregnant?"

seriously? doesnt necessarily mean the baby will come out black,depends who has the stronger genes. same with coloured girls and white men,you can end up with a white baby.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe some could list all the potential fathers in which case it could be the only birth certificate only available on CD-ROM

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

you call me a half wit for not understanding sarcasm when written. but you wouldn't believe how many people believe things like that and having grown up knowing the facts i find it hard not to lecture.

anyway the point of the forum was what would you do? i would want to have that child whether mine or not. my biological father has never had anything to do with me. my dad on the other hand raised me as his own. i would tell the other people involved if the child was likely to be theirs cause that would be the decent thing to do

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

No that's wasn't a response to this one lol just some of the other post

telling us to go to the docs and sort contraception if we want to keep swinging

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"We always agreed that if Ann ever got pregnant it was our baby no Question. If you can not accept that concept you should not be taking that sort of risk with your relationship!!!

Perhaps the double-edged question is would you tell the child when the come of age?

We wouldn't.

hes another edge on the situation

what if your a white couple and it was a black guy who got you pregnant?"

Forgot to quote it lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just to clarify we are not unprotected we always use condoms and are trial other methods of contraception. Whilst trying to solve mrs lady issues. But that was not the point of the thread didn't expect a sex ed lesson lol. Most forms of contraception have a risk of failing fact. So the point of the thread was what would you do in that situation. "

Take the morning after pill after every session.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Trust me when I say its mental torture when you are told by a past meet that she is pregnant and then she disappears

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Take the morning after pill after every session.

Not actually possible. Can only have it a few times a year.

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By *veragecpleCouple over a year ago

belfast

"Sounds like a job for jeremy kyle

Omg I think he would have a heart attack over it

Wouldn't he just?? I'd watch that programme.

Who's my baby daddy? My husband or one of twenty men from a gangbang but I don't know any of there makes etc'

If anyone has seen maury then they do have scenarios like that lol

'Chantelle is here for a 3rd time to find her babies daddy after 10 other guys prooved not to be!'

'Shola went to a party, which of the 5 guys is her babies daddy!'

Yes I've seen Maury! I think 18 was the record and they still didn't know!! "

Whats this maury yous talk about ?

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By *riendly foeWoman over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Whats this maury yous talk about ?"

Very much the same as Jeremy Kyle only nicer....

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By *riendly foeWoman over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

I think it would cast a lot of doubts and put a strain on the relationship...

You just know in the future it will be bought up and thrown into arguments....

Dont just rely on condoms.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Take the morning after pill after every session.

Not actually possible. Can only have it a few times a year."

you can buy them now over the counter so even tho its still not recommended to use regular who can police that you don't?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This has made think what would happen if a woman got pregnant by some one from here and she had contraception plus used condoms but it didnt work. She hadnt had sex with her husband for over ten years, am thinking she would have to have sex with him then tell him she was pregnant. Yes could be a fear of mine

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

meant to put made me think

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By *ady4ladyWoman over a year ago

liverpool

My worries are with the baby, who grows up to be an adult .......

IF I went ahead with the pregnancy I would have to have a DNA test done after the baby was born, just so that in the future I would be ready with information in case there was any heredetory illness etc.

So many issues could arise, and then the biggest issue..... would I tell the child? Yes I would, but wouldnt tell the true circumstances, i would say i had a brief affair.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Very interesting thread!

Think all parties should be informed in the event of a pregnancy. The real question is what do you say to the child if you decide to do so or not.

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By *ady4ladyWoman over a year ago

liverpool

"Very interesting thread!

Think all parties should be informed in the event of a pregnancy. The real question is what do you say to the child if you decide to do so or not."

Totally agree,

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By *radleyandRavenCouple over a year ago

Herts

"Very interesting thread!

Think all parties should be informed in the event of a pregnancy. The real question is what do you say to the child if you decide to do so or not."

Agreed. It may make life difficult but I feel that if the child turns out to be the other person's, they have a right to know.

Whether they choose to be involved or not then is their decision. x

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By *unky monkeyMan over a year ago

in the night garden

"Nightmare on elm street is actually based on a medical condition that causes nightmares to end in death. the whole freddy thing became an urban legend then the film. so there not fact now im going to research twins and find out the facts there. but let me tell you my sister is a midwife and my mother is a dr iv asked both of them if a baby can have more than one biological father and it is not possible. a woman can give 2 eggs that can be fertilized by different men but one child cannot have 2 biological fathers. and by the way was only telling the person with the earlier nightmare on elm street comment that he was misguided Sarcasm is the lowest form of wit and it goes straight over the head of the half witted

im actually gob smacked he took that post serious

*walks away shaking head*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm amazed the figure is that low to be honest! 1 in 25 I could believe...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP - on a 'well-known porn video sharing site' (yGerbil, or summat! Lol!) there is a video called 'One of these 29 guys got my wife pregnant' which shows a women being gangbanged by - surprise, surprise - 29 guys and has a pic at the end of her pregnant some months after. So your dream may not be as far fetched as you might think....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Very interesting thread!

Think all parties should be informed in the event of a pregnancy. The real question is what do you say to the child if you decide to do so or not.

Agreed. It may make life difficult but I feel that if the child turns out to be the other person's, they have a right to know. Whether they choose to be involved or not then is their decision. x"

It is a truly scary thought that ANY woman would be so irresponsible as to play with the life of another human being (her child)!

If a woman can conceive, and she goes swinging, she should hang up a notice saying "Men who fuck me may make me pregnant. I will ascertain which of you it was an come and tell you and then seek maintenance support". They should sign an acceptance form before dumping their man juice inside her.

In 2013 women have innumerable ways not to get pregnant from casual sex. Men engaging in casual sex with a virtually unknown woman in a club do not expect their 10 mins of fucking to turn into a lifetime commitment. I know this started as a "dream" or "fantasy" but some comments have been really quite concerning.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It has long been an extreme cuck dream as I understand.

There was a story about a white woman in the USA who went to night clubs frequented by black guys to get pregnant from gang bangs. How she explains to mum, dad, granny, granddad and her friends why her kid is part black when she has a white husband is not covered.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've saw a profile last week of a single woman who stated she intended to have unprotected sex with as many men as possible over the next few weeks as she had a 'pregnancy fantasy'!

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By *radleyandRavenCouple over a year ago

Herts

"It is a truly scary thought that ANY woman would be so irresponsible as to play with the life of another human being (her child)!

In 2013 women have innumerable ways not to get pregnant from casual sex. Men engaging in casual sex with a virtually unknown woman in a club do not expect their 10 mins of fucking to turn into a lifetime commitment. I know this started as a. "dream" or "fantasy" but some comments have beenreally quite concerning. "

Concerning in what way?

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By *ady4ladyWoman over a year ago

liverpool

"It is a truly scary thought that ANY woman would be so irresponsible as to play with the life of another human being (her child)!

Totally agree and also include ANY man too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

It is a truly scary thought that ANY woman would be so irresponsible as to play with the life of another human being (her child)!

This is the sort of stupid comments I am talking about any type of contraception can fail unless you have em tied up. I don't think you realise how many women on here that insults. Just because someone is on a pill doesn't mean they can not "accidentally" this was the point of the thread get pregnant.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple over a year ago

Herts

"This is the sort of stupid comment I am talking about any type of contraception can fail unless you have em tied up. I don't think you realise how many women on here that insults. Just because someone is on a pill doesn't mean they can not "accidentally" this was the point of the thread get pregnant."

That was what I thought. Plus the whole point of the thread was just a "what if...?", not reality.

It's no different from a bunch of lads down the pub saying something like "What would you do right now if Kelly Brook walked in and told you to shag her, but she has a cock?", ect (sorry, couldn't think of anything else, lol). x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It is a truly scary thought that ANY woman would be so irresponsible as to play with the life of another human being (her child)!

I accept your point that no contraceptive is 100% effective so only those physically incapable of conception are truly safe.

I did however mean no offence to anyone as I was hypothesising a situation where NO contraception was used. (Perhaps not making that clear)

Those that use the best available form of contraception such as the pill, IUD, BC Shot, patch and ring. Are doing all they reasonably can to avoid pregnancy. If it happens than it is a reasonable risk and not reckless.

Do you believe that the man who fathered a child in a gang bang situation should be held responsible?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Do you believe that the man who fathered a child in a gang bang situation should be held responsible?

I don't not at all I personal think you have to take it on as your own. But the what question was how do you handle the situation. I personally would like to know just so the question is answered. Wether we would contact the father is another question. But would a female partner see at as an offence for her partner to even question it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Just for the record this is the first time I have given my opinion love the way how people jp to conclusions

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do you believe that the man who fathered a child in a gang bang situation should be held responsible?

For my part I would not wish to be contacted if I had made a woman pregnant in a club. I am not sure many men would.

I am not sure however where the other part of your question is going.

If it is "Does the pregnant woman tell her husband that she conceived in a club during a gang-bang and it is not his" Then, that is a difficult question.

Whilst the concept of watching his wife "being used" may be a sexual turn on, the idea of raising, for the next 20 years, someone else's child may not be.

Perhaps it is a relevant question a man and woman should discuss before they do it? One thing is for sure, if he was a willing participant in her activities, he cannot possibly criticise her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

It's more would the female take offence if the male questioned it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Oh and for the record the point is not to critisize. It is just how do you deal as a couple.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Saw the title of the post and the op and heart jumped into mouth lol!!!

Good thread though and some interesting responses. I guess if we got the call that Silk had got another girl pregnant through swinging, We would respect the other couples decision. If they wanted us involved or not but it would be a massive shock and hard to explain how this happened to the wider family without them thinking that Silk had cheated on me.

MissD

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By *radleyandRavenCouple over a year ago

Herts

"Do you believe that the man who fathered a child in a gang bang situation should be held responsible?

I don't think they should be held responsible but I do believe they have a right to know. As I said, whether they choose to be involved or not after being informed is up to them, but it comes in handy if the biological father can provide a medical history if (God forbid) the child has any problems in future.

We're all big enough and ugly enough to know the potential consequences of sex, especially unprotected. Pregnancy is one of them. And any man who can't accept that shouldn't be having sex, to be honest...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

hey miss d

no don't worry silk didn't get her pregnant

hope you guys are ok and come back soon.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sounds like a job for jeremy kyle

Omg I think he would have a heart attack over it

From what I hear, Jeremy Kyle has put it about a bit.... So he has probably done loads of gang bangs.... Infact - next time you do a G.B. check ID as he might be one of them. Ha ha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sounds like a job for jeremy kyle

Omg I think he would have a heart attack over it

From what I hear, Jeremy Kyle has put it about a bit.... So he has probably done loads of gang bangs.... Infact - next time you do a G.B. check ID as he might be one of them. Ha ha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"hey miss d

no don't worry silk didn't get her pregnant

hope you guys are ok and come back soon."

Lol i know i know!!!

Yes of course we will be seeing you soon. Shame your away next weekend but yes soon.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"hey miss d

no don't worry silk didn't get her pregnant

hope you guys are ok and come back soon.

Lol i know i know!!!

Yes of course we will be seeing you soon. Shame your away next weekend but yes soon.

you should come round for a girly with jess if silk wont mind doesn't have to be to play. could have a sprinkles and pole night oh and vodka lol

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By *phroditeWoman over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

The minute people engage in an activity called sex they run several risks including that of the female getting pregnant. That risk becoming reality should be considered before having sex.

If I am not happy with the concept of becoming prgnant/ making somebody pregnant then I have to consider whether I stop having sex or face the consequences.

To me there is a responsibility towards the unborn... and it is down to those who made it happen. There is no way getting round this issue in my opinion.

If both are able to live with the concept of abortion - fine. If not... well, there is only one other way, whcih is to raise this child.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you believe that the man who fathered a child in a gang bang situation should be held responsible?

I understand your point although I still don't think a man involved in casual sex with a stranger wants to be informed she is pregnant.

There is however the matter of practicality. How would a gangbang pregnancy be traced back to the correct father? Would you seek DNA samples from all the men there? After some months and possibly more sex sessions that could be very difficult.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple over a year ago

Herts

"I understand your point although I still don't think a man involved in casual sex with a stranger wants to be informed she is pregnant.

See, that one I can't answer, lol. I don't do large gangbangs so am unable to imagine that situation.

In an ideal world, you would be able to contact all men involved but I think in cases like one-off gangbangs in a club, it's fair to say it would probably be a write-off. x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sarcasm is the lowest form of wit and it goes straight over the head of the half witted"

And you obviously don't understand what sarcasm is, as your reply is not sarcastic. It's tongue-in-cheek. Sarcasm is saying one thing and meaning the direct opposite, and relies heavily on tone of voice. But then you already know all this because you're reeeeaaally clever....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There's no need to tell the father, he'll never know. I 'm 100% positive that it was me that conceived my boys Winston, Hiroyuki and Manu

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Makes?? I meant names x"

Either works

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By *irty RascalMan over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

Had the snip, definitely not mine

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By *harliebbwWoman over a year ago

Birmingham

If ur dreaming about it then maybe it's on ur mind more then you think.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But let's say you slept with a couple and they informed you that you could potentially be the father and wanted to the DNA test. After doing the DNA test, it was proven that the father of the child is you. Would you want to raise the child as your own if the couple were ready to give you full parental rights after the child is born?

The only reason I ask this is to see how many guys are willing to go down this route.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why's everyone pointing the finger at me ! What makes you all think am the farther ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"But let's say you slept with a couple and they informed you that you could potentially be the father and wanted to the DNA test. After doing the DNA test, it was proven that the father of the child is you. Would you want to raise the child as your own if the couple were ready to give you full parental rights after the child is born?

The only reason I ask this is to see how many guys are willing to go down this route."

Proper sperm donors are covered (perhaps protected) by the law in respect of children produced by their sperm although this varies from jurisdiction to jurisdiction.

I doubt very much if a gang-banger in a club would have the same protection so is likely to be on the hook if the woman found him.

In the case described above with a threesome he is even more at risk as he is far more identifiable.

So it would appear that if a woman gets pregnant from a meet, and she can identify the father, he may be made responsible for maintenance, but will also have visitation rights.

Gentlemen, be careful where you leave you man juice!

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