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I have a preference for larger women but I dont understand why it gets so much judgement
Any advice on how to deal with unsolicited opinions/hate? I don't want to be judged on dating the people I want to date! |
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"A little bit of everywhere tbf - Could be friends, in public etc get better friends. "
This!
Also, figure out WHY it bothers you. Do you maybe feel a little bit ashamed, yourself? Because I couldn't give a toss what anyone said about a partner of mine - be they friend or stranger.  |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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We are attracted to whatever our preferences are which is no one's business but yours. If you're happy with a curvy lady, thats all that matters. Relatives and friends who make judgement need to be reminded its none of their business. |
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"I have a preference for larger women but I dont understand why it gets so much judgement
Any advice on how to deal with unsolicited opinions/hate? I don't want to be judged on dating the people I want to date!"
Anyone who passes judgement on you for your preferences for curvy women are obviously not even worth your time. Ignore them. If that’s what makes you happy then enjoy, its your life not theirs |
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"I love a curvy woman, but i also love women that define themselves as bbw... Is there a difference between a curvy woman and a bbw or is it just how the person defines themselves? "
cant speak for all, but to me bbw is a lady over a size 18 while curvy can be a smaller size as long as hips and boobs arent thin |
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Sadly there are some people that find larger/curvier women unattractive and feel the need to shame them, and people that admire them. It would seem they haven't grown out of their high school bully phase. |
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I guess choosing who we prefer can be seen as judgement because there will be an element of rejection on the other side of it, but its a not a personal slur on our parts. We just like bigger playmates.
If somebody says Im not for them coz I am too big I don't worry about it. But I understand there will be those who are in that situation who will be upset if told no thankyou.
we are all different. No need to get nasty. |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"A little bit of everywhere tbf - Could be friends, in public etc get better friends. "
This - people can’t overstep your boundaries if they’re not allowed past the gate. Anyone who judges people for anything other than their character I have no time for.
Plus characters can change so I also have no time for people who don’t give benefit of the doubt too. Life is too short for people who put people down for preferences and wtf the only person who should care about the fat on their body is the person who lives in it |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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People will overstep boundaries and make judgements regardless of your preference. The best advice I can give is to just not let it get to you. Stand up for what you believe in and defend your girl IF APPROPRIATE. Aside from that just enjoy your beautiful woman!
-from a BBW  |
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"I have a preference for larger women but I dont understand why it gets so much judgement
Any advice on how to deal with unsolicited opinions/hate? I don't want to be judged on dating the people I want to date!"
Wow, you’re asking us to help you live with the stigma of dating bigger women? This is epic negging! |
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