Do many couples play separately/alone?
“She” is extremely bi-curious and wants to experience playing with other women but is also initially quite shy (until she’s in the moment - then it’s very different!) so doesn’t want to play alone, despite her having permission to.
It’s her birthday very soon, so we’re looking to book a hotel overnight and invite a bisexual/bi-curious female to join us to play with her.
It appears that bisexual unicorns are few & far between - so as an alternative, she said that she would like to try to find a female half of a couple to join us and play with her one evening (she doesn’t feel comfortable having another guy there just yet but we both want to work up to that shortly).
Most couples that we’ve come across who claim to play alone, it’s always the male who has “permission” 
Is this normally the case and should be just give up on trying to explore that as an option? |
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My wife and I play together as a couple and also solo. This is my solo profile. It works for us. We do so in each others full knowledge. And we always make sure we have time for each other, we are married after all.  |
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I have played separately in the past for a scenario but not something I would do again as I've fulfilled that fantasy (fuck buddy fantasy).
Looking at your verifications, you've been lucky enough to play with a single female - so obviously doing something right.
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By *oxy jWoman 42 weeks ago
taunton somerset |
yes me and hubs alway have mixed it up play together and play alone everything is consented and we tell each other everything but its not for everyone even with quite a few swingers its a step too far it has to be what you both want at all times otherrwise it will just breed a whole host of relationship problems for sure |
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By *ickD80Man 42 weeks ago
Wolverhampton |
There’s one option you haven’t mentioned OP and that’s looking for a gay female for you partner to meet alone. I know you said that she doesn’t want to play alone as she’s shy at first but you also said that it’s a different matter ones she’s in the moment, so why don’t you consider meeting as a 3 for a few drinks first and then when (or if) your partner feels comfortable they can go and play alone. I agree with what was said earlier that you being there might put most women off so this is a solution that would suit everyone. Obviously it means that you won’t be involved in the playing but you didn’t say that was a necessary requirement, you only said you’d be there as your partner was shy at first.
As a side note, you’re obviously not looking for mf couples and you’re only looking to meet females as part of a mff but your profile doesn’t reflect this at all so that can be a bit misleading. For someone to meet you they have to trust you so when you start telling them things that contradict what your profile says then it will be hard for them to trust you. |
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