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Kissing during meets Yes or No?
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I always find kissing such a turn on. Kissing a trail up a ladies neck, nibbling and sucking her earlobes, a passionate hot and steamy kiss that just seems to go on forever.
So the question is, a big yes to kissing on your Fabs meet or no thanks let’s just play? |
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By *rpeggioCouple 49 weeks ago
Baughurst |
Yes. Kissing for us is erotic and arousing, and a key party of play. For us play is not just about genitals. We respect couples and singles that want to save kissing for themselves, but it doesn't work for us with couples that have a no-kissing boundary. |
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If we can’t kiss I don’t want it |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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Definitely.. That first kiss is so electric! You can tell so much from a kiss. |
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"Yes if there’s chemistry"
Totally agree, my days are past of just being a fuck toy |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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Yes unless specifically asked not to. |
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Yes kissing is a must for me, it's the best build up.
Mrs |
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Not on the mouth for us. Elsewhere is fine though.
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Yes. Just mechanical otherwise  |
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I wouldn't meet if kissing was off the table. |
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Hell yes I love the intimacy of it  |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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"Has to be kissing for us.
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Us too  |
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"Has to be kissing for us.
Us too "
Exactly that x |
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By *igBen9Man 49 weeks ago
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Definitely has to be kissing, it’s a big turn on |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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Oh yes I love kissing, so sensual x |
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Absolutely yes, I'm not interested if there's no kissing. |
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I used to be a bit against kissing, kinda reserved it for husband, but now I'm easy. If so_eone doesn't seem interested in a kiss, I don't press the issue. If so_eone wants to, they let you know pretty soon, especially if you're like me, in to spontaneous meets in clubs. |
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Didn't kiss at first but now got more used to having meets kissing is a must for me |
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A big yes to kissing. It’s so hot watching your partner snog another  |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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"A big yes to kissing. It’s so hot watching your partner snog another "
I enjoy it turns me on |
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We are a big yes. It’s the start of all things sexy.
When I was single I met a couple who didn’t allow kissing. It was very strange but she was a gorgeous, tall blonde who stepped out of a rain coat wearing nothing but heels. Plus it was an outdoor meet with an audience of about six to eight guys watching. Her man shook my hand, handed me a condom and said help yourself. I did. She was very sexy and I took her everywhere I could then she demanded I finished by cumming over her face and tits. It was still very strange without kissing though. |
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With ladies of course with other men not for me (well not on the mouth)
Bx |
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Absolutely, it would be a problem for us if there were no kissing |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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Kissing is all part of the fun |
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Kissing is a must for me, it all adds to the fun. |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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Kissing definitely |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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During group play it's not an issue, with a straight couple swap it's a must. |
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By *oppet22TV/TS 49 weeks ago
huddersfield |
Yes if all is comfortable with it |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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It has to be a yes from me as it’s my biggest turn on |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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It's a deal breaker for us ....it's a must we can't have sex without it |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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Yes... |
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Yeah definitely kissing on a meet can't have sex without it xx |
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By *r_reusMan 49 weeks ago
Coventry |
Kissing is essential, and fortunately I'm amazing at it |
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Def love kissing on a meet especially when hubby watches me kissing another girl |
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By *archelCouple 49 weeks ago
A field somewhere |
Yes kissing is a must for us. We won't play with couples who don't. It's too mechanical without
Mrs |
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Mrs Kissing no tounges
Mr love seeing Mrs kissing other guys wouldn't mind if tounges were used |
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Kissing is essential for me. Helps build the passion, and adds so much to the sex after. |
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By *enatton2Couple 49 weeks ago
West Midlands |
Didn’t when we were new to meeting but we’ve grown into it |
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Kissing is a great build up especially if they're a good kisser |
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Always, wouldn't arrange a meet if they said kissing was off the menu |
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"Yes please, passionate ones "
Yes please, indeed |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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Yes |
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The body has so many erogeonous zones, the lips are the pefect tool to address them with. From feather light kisses tingling up the spine to nibbles on earlobes to full on heavy suction on nipples. Kiss is a must, a staple of foreplay. |
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We enjoy kissing and definitely get turned on with a good kiss....but We totally get its intimate and not for everyone so we are happy to go with the flow of the other couple. |
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Kissing and cuddling is all part the sex act,so that would be a definate yes. |
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Kissing is a definite yes for us need kissing to get the engine started! |
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I would only kiss and fuck,lick and suck if they were a LTR FLR.
I play BDSM style with anyone else Ive connected with.
Kissing is the most intimate thing so_eone can do. |
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Kissing is so good and as Ingrid Bergman said “A kiss is a lovely trick designed by nature to stop speech when words become superfluous." |
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By *avexxMan 49 weeks ago
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i wouldnt be able to control my lips  |
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By *talionladMan 49 weeks ago
surrey and east Yorkshire |
Kissing is always good . Can be a good ice breaker and more of a turn on to |
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"Yes if there’s chemistry"
If there isnt enough chemistry to kiss.. there isnt enough chemistry to do more.
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By *enatton2Couple 49 weeks ago
West Midlands |
Enjoy it until you get that one guy that had a smoke before the meet and their breath stinks, definite moment killer |
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By *irthandgirthMan 49 weeks ago
Camberley occasionally doncaster |
I get that some couples may keep kissing as something precious for them alone. As a single guy, I'm putting my mouth on damn near every inch of her, and probably havr that reciprocated. Why would I not want to kiss her? |
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"Pucker up guys,
Mrs x"
I'd love too |
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"It’s a yes from us xx"
I'd love to join you |
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I enjoy it just as much as the sex |
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I love to kiss...anyone fancu a snog with me |
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Not a deal breaker but kissing always enhances the overall experience. |
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No debate .. always kissing see if there is chemistry and knock up the sexual tension a notch x |
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If they don't kiss we don't meet. |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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Yesssss kissing is one of the things that gets me going most, no kissing no meet for me! |
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Kissing is such a turn on for us |
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By *urenutsMan 49 weeks ago
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"Kissing is such a turn on for us "
Yes |
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By *luefire2Couple 49 weeks ago
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I don't get the no kissing rule? Kissing is sensual and part of it. I mean.....you are having sex with people you don't really know.......all that body fluid but you won't kiss???? |
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"I don't get the no kissing rule? Kissing is sensual and part of it. I mean.....you are having sex with people you don't really know.......all that body fluid but you won't kiss????"
Yeah I agree with you, I don't get it either! |
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We had a rule at the start of no kissing but then I realised that kissing really tuens me on and makes me rock hard, so we changed our rules, we love kissing |
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"We had a rule at the start of no kissing but then I realised that kissing really tuens me on and makes me rock hard, so we changed our rules, we love kissing "
This!! |
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"No debate .. always kissing see if there is chemistry and knock up the sexual tension a notch x"
Most definitely I've had sex without it and it felt clinical and not sexual, but with the kissing it's so much better, and the fact that I haven't got sensation down there and don't cum, the touch and feeling of kissing is so important for me |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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Couldn't imagine any sex without kissing. Little too disconnected for me.  |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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absolutely yes  Px  |
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Needs to be kissing there for me |
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By *oss25Man 49 weeks ago
Flitwick and Fakenham |
Hell yes, kissing is 100% essential: before, during and after!
Sxxx |
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"I don't get the no kissing rule? Kissing is sensual and part of it. I mean.....you are having sex with people you don't really know.......all that body fluid but you won't kiss????"
Do you need to 'get it' though? |
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By *luefire2Couple 49 weeks ago
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"I don't get the no kissing rule? Kissing is sensual and part of it. I mean.....you are having sex with people you don't really know.......all that body fluid but you won't kiss????
Do you need to 'get it' though? "
Excuse me? Just expressing an opinion, that is what the forums are for. If you "get it" then fine, but I don't x
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I am a fan of kissing. I find it is a good start to playing with people... gets a certain excitement started which things which may be more sexual don't. |
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"I don't get the no kissing rule? Kissing is sensual and part of it. I mean.....you are having sex with people you don't really know.......all that body fluid but you won't kiss????
Do you need to 'get it' though?
Excuse me? Just expressing an opinion, that is what the forums are for. If you "get it" then fine, but I don't x
Mrs R"
You're entitled to express an opinion and you're right that's what the forum is for. I was asking a question based on your opinion, if you feel I was challenging you that wasn't my intention |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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Yes. |
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Kissing is key for me. Love a good make out! |
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Deffo yes for me, as it gets me hard and relaxes me |
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not really bothered either way with kissing to be honest .. cool if it happens cool if it doesn't I dont require kissing to get sexual with so_eone |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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To be honest it would be a deal breaker for me…kissing is imperative |
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"To be honest it would be a deal breaker for me…kissing is imperative"
I'd very much like to kiss you |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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I bet  |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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"Not on the mouth for us. Elsewhere is fine though.
This will be one of maybe three posts answering in the negative "
we don't kiss on the mouths, thats something that is kept just for us too. mouths can go anywhere else except ass! |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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"I don't get the no kissing rule? Kissing is sensual and part of it. I mean.....you are having sex with people you don't really know.......all that body fluid but you won't kiss????"
i think you answered it for yourself, "sensual", ie an emotion, do you want emotion complicating matters, people falling for others when its meant to be just enjoyable fun.
no kissing doesnt have to be "mechanical" as some describe it, you have fun with vanilla friends without kissing, and thats what its meant to be, fun |
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Of course. Kissing is a must for us x |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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Definitely all part of a meet for us |
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Kissing definitely for both of us... |
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Massive yes, no kissing, no playing for us! |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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Yep |
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By *LiamMan 49 weeks ago
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Yes, sex without kissing isn't my thing |
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"I don't get the no kissing rule? Kissing is sensual and part of it. I mean.....you are having sex with people you don't really know.......all that body fluid but you won't kiss????
Do you need to 'get it' though? "
This. There is nothing to get.. it's a preference same as those that prefer to give oral over getting etc.
I rarely kissed when I was on a singles profile. I didn't want to x
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Definitely want there to be chemistry, which for us includes kissing! |
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In my experience men just can't do it as good as girls
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As the song goes, it started with a kiss. |
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It’s a must for me. Kissing and passion |
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By *ickD80Man 49 weeks ago
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When my ex was with another man the thing I found most difficult to watch was her kissing him passionately, I don’t know why. It wasn’t bad enough for me to need to ask her not to do it but I did tell her that it was difficult for me to watch, so after I told her this she would vary how much and how passionately she kissed the other man depending on whether she was annoyed with me or happy with me. On one of my birthdays she spent the whole day with another man but she didn’t kiss him once and said that not having to watch her kiss him was her birthday present to me. |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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Love a good kissing session lol |
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"Not on the mouth for us. Elsewhere is fine though.
This will be one of maybe three posts answering in the negative "
You'd be disappointed if I didn't pitch in in agreement with you on this subject
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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100%
Wouldn't feel right without it |
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I kissed a girl and I liked it |
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"Not on the mouth for us. Elsewhere is fine though.
This will be one of maybe three posts answering in the negative
You'd be disappointed if I didn't pitch in in agreement with you on this subject
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I would. |
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By *ickD80Man 49 weeks ago
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I love kissing before after and during sex with anyone |
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Kissing is a massive part of how the session goes. It’s so underrated. If it’s done right with the right person it can send you crazy |
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"Not on the mouth for us. Elsewhere is fine though.
This will be one of maybe three posts answering in the negative
You'd be disappointed if I didn't pitch in in agreement with you on this subject
I would. "
We always meet on these threads lol xx
Although I love watching Mr kiss other ladies x x |
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"Not on the mouth for us. Elsewhere is fine though.
This will be one of maybe three posts answering in the negative
You'd be disappointed if I didn't pitch in in agreement with you on this subject
I would.
We always meet on these threads lol xx
Although I love watching Mr kiss other ladies x x "
hence my comment that mine would probably be one of three posts. Turned out to be one of four as there's another couple higher up .
There's room for everyone |
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It still amazes me that people can't be open minded about it... most people don't even notice when I avoid snogging other men xx
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"It still amazes me that people can't be open minded about it... most people don't even notice when I avoid snogging other men xx
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You think we'd be used to it by now |
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By *ickD80Man 49 weeks ago
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"It still amazes me that people can't be open minded about it... most people don't even notice when I avoid snogging other men xx
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Surely if they don’t notice then they’re being open minded about it? |
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Yes, love snogging some guy in front of his wife. Even better when I top him, she really gets excited then |
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By *udy3Man 49 weeks ago
Corby |
Deal breaker for me. Has to . It’s hot |
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"It still amazes me that people can't be open minded about it... most people don't even notice when I avoid snogging other men xx
Surely if they don’t notice then they’re being open minded about it? "
what I mean is people make out its a deal breaker but then don't notice when it doesn't happen.. you get people claiming they don't get it or how cold it is etc.
Or it's transactional... yet I've had people find that I can do it quite well without...although I do kiss If I feel like it x
Cali |
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By *ickD80Man 49 weeks ago
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"It still amazes me that people can't be open minded about it... most people don't even notice when I avoid snogging other men xx
Surely if they don’t notice then they’re being open minded about it? what I mean is people make out its a deal breaker but then don't notice when it doesn't happen.. you get people claiming they don't get it or how cold it is etc.
Or it's transactional... yet I've had people find that I can do it quite well without...although I do kiss If I feel like it x
Cali "
Do you tell people before hand that you won’t kiss them? |
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By *jekimMan 49 weeks ago
Wigan |
I'm one for a good kiss don't feel the same without |
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"It still amazes me that people can't be open minded about it... most people don't even notice when I avoid snogging other men xx
Surely if they don’t notice then they’re being open minded about it? what I mean is people make out its a deal breaker but then don't notice when it doesn't happen.. you get people claiming they don't get it or how cold it is etc.
Or it's transactional... yet I've had people find that I can do it quite well without...although I do kiss If I feel like it x
Cali
Do you tell people before hand that you won’t kiss them? "
nope as I don't and never have arranged meets. Just spontaneous at clubs... so nothing is discussed before hand.
When I've met as a single ... it was gb stuff only, so can't really kiss etc when you have a cock in your mouth
Cali |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"It still amazes me that people can't be open minded about it... most people don't even notice when I avoid snogging other men xx
Surely if they don’t notice then they’re being open minded about it? what I mean is people make out its a deal breaker but then don't notice when it doesn't happen.. you get people claiming they don't get it or how cold it is etc.
Or it's transactional... yet I've had people find that I can do it quite well without...although I do kiss If I feel like it x
Cali "
alot of blokes will say its a deal breaker, like they won't meet smokers, however alot (not all), as long as their getting the end goal still go with it! |
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It all starts with a kiss...
F x |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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Love a good, passionate kiss |
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Generally speaking for me it’s yes with women and no with men, mainly because most of the men I’ve kissed have tried to eat my face and shove their tongue down my throat straight away.
There are exceptions to this though, and it also depends on whether the person I’m meeting wants to kiss as well. |
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Thanks everyone. What a great response to my chat topic.
I’ve always loved kissing. It’s the perfect start to a meet and always a huge turn on. Start slowly and build up to a deep passionate kiss whilst your hands wander, stroke and caress all those wonderful sensual spots.
Have fun people and happy fabbing. |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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No with guys, yes with girls |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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Nooo. I reserve that for relationships |
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Kissing plays such a huge part for me, I don't understand why people are against it but can respect that those that are. To each their own  |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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Kissing is important, anyone who sees this as a boundary isn't for me. If you're offended by one set of lips, why would you want to go to the other set? Bizarre. |
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I just don’t find kissing arousing outside of a relationship.
I’ll kiss so_eone if it is required to make them feel good but i will never lead with it |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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My answer still stands….YES! |
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No kissing means no meet for me |
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If they ain't worth kissing they ain't worth fucking xx |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"Kissing plays such a huge part for me, I don't understand why people are against it but can respect that those that are. To each their own "
It messes up my make up! |
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100% yes kissing is a must for me |
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Love kissing. Only time we don’t is because they have bad hygiene. Kissing kinda sets the meet for us (especially the Mrs) |
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