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"Sooo, many male threads stating ladies don't meet?... Yet, without fail Fab fails to deliver often when as a woman I agree to...so come on gents get your act together instead of bitching maybe?  "
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By *ythenMan 42 weeks ago
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"Sooo, many male threads stating ladies don't meet?... Yet, without fail Fab fails to deliver often when as a woman I agree to...so come on gents get your act together instead of bitching maybe? "
Are you saying that you have been let down by guys … no shows to agreed meets ? |
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"Sooo, many male threads stating ladies don't meet?... Yet, without fail Fab fails to deliver often when as a woman I agree to...so come on gents get your act together instead of bitching maybe?
Are you saying that you have been let down by guys … no shows to agreed meets ? "
To be honest it's the full spectrum, from failed meets, to engaging with someone whose actually married (shocker), to stating you're only seeking fun, to then get grief. I think it's the other side of the grass isn't always greener when men moan  |
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By *ickD80Man 42 weeks ago
Wolverhampton |
"Sooo, many male threads stating ladies don't meet?... Yet, without fail Fab fails to deliver often when as a woman I agree to...so come on gents get your act together instead of bitching maybe? "
It’s embarrassing when men post about not getting any meets or replies and asking for advice on how to get some, it makes them look really desperate and pathetic. I don’t know what they’re hoping to achieve by starting a thread about it, do they think that it’ll increase their chances of getting a meet or do they actually expect someone to give them a tip or some advice that will make them irresistible to women? The only thing it does is make them even less attractive to women and decreases their chances of anyone wanting to meet them. |
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"Sooo, many male threads stating ladies don't meet?... Yet, without fail Fab fails to deliver often when as a woman I agree to...so come on gents get your act together instead of bitching maybe?
Are you saying that you have been let down by guys … no shows to agreed meets ?
To be honest it's the full spectrum, from failed meets, to engaging with someone whose actually married (shocker), to stating you're only seeking fun, to then get grief. I think it's the other side of the grass isn't always greener when men moan "
Maybe you could had what you don't like or like in your profile. |
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By *ickD80Man 42 weeks ago
Wolverhampton |
"Sooo, many male threads stating ladies don't meet?... Yet, without fail Fab fails to deliver often when as a woman I agree to...so come on gents get your act together instead of bitching maybe?
Are you saying that you have been let down by guys … no shows to agreed meets ?
To be honest it's the full spectrum, from failed meets, to engaging with someone whose actually married (shocker), to stating you're only seeking fun, to then get grief. I think it's the other side of the grass isn't always greener when men moan "
Do you mean that you state that you’re only seeking fun or are you complaining about men who state they’re only seeking fun? |
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By *ickD80Man 42 weeks ago
Wolverhampton |
"Sooo, many male threads stating ladies don't meet?... Yet, without fail Fab fails to deliver often when as a woman I agree to...so come on gents get your act together instead of bitching maybe?
Are you saying that you have been let down by guys … no shows to agreed meets ?
To be honest it's the full spectrum, from failed meets, to engaging with someone who’s actually married (shocker), to stating you're only seeking fun, to then get grief. I think it's the other side of the grass isn't always greener when men moan "
You state in your profile that you don’t meet at your house which means when you arrange to meet someone it will either be at the other person’s house or at a hotel so you could ask him to either send you his address or pay for a hotel room to show that he’s serious about meeting you because a time waster wouldn’t do either of those things. Worst case scenario is they give you a false address but I’m sure you could get proof that they live there before arranging anything, they’ll have plenty of documents with their address on.
There are married men looking to have sex behind their wife’s back on every dating/chat site, so that’s nothing unique to Fab.
If you’re complaining that men are only looking for fun then i don’t think you’re on the right site, that’s all most of the men on here want, at least they’re being honest with you rather than pretending to be looking for something serious just so that you’ll sleep with them. If you’re looking for something serious then you should state that on your profile because it’s assumed that people here aren’t looking for that.
If you are getting grief from anyone then that’s wrong and it shouldn’t happen anywhere. Some people really don’t like to be rejected but that’s because they don’t have any self confidence and need the acceptance of other to feel like they’re worth anything.
You’ve had 5 meets in 5 months so obviously Fab doesn’t fail to deliver all the time, if a man started a thread complaining about not getting any meets after meeting 5 women in 5 months he’d get laughed out of the room |
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"Sooo, many male threads stating ladies don't meet?... Yet, without fail Fab fails to deliver often when as a woman I agree to...so come on gents get your act together instead of bitching maybe?
Are you saying that you have been let down by guys … no shows to agreed meets ?
To be honest it's the full spectrum, from failed meets, to engaging with someone who’s actually married (shocker), to stating you're only seeking fun, to then get grief. I think it's the other side of the grass isn't always greener when men moan
You state in your profile that you don’t meet at your house which means when you arrange to meet someone it will either be at the other person’s house or at a hotel so you could ask him to either send you his address or pay for a hotel room to show that he’s serious about meeting you because a time waster wouldn’t do either of those things. Worst case scenario is they give you a false address but I’m sure you could get proof that they live there before arranging anything, they’ll have plenty of documents with their address on.
There are married men looking to have sex behind their wife’s back on every dating/chat site, so that’s nothing unique to Fab.
If you’re complaining that men are only looking for fun then i don’t think you’re on the right site, that’s all most of the men on here want, at least they’re being honest with you rather than pretending to be looking for something serious just so that you’ll sleep with them. If you’re looking for something serious then you should state that on your profile because it’s assumed that people here aren’t looking for that.
If you are getting grief from anyone then that’s wrong and it shouldn’t happen anywhere. Some people really don’t like to be rejected but that’s because they don’t have any self confidence and need the acceptance of other to feel like they’re worth anything.
You’ve had 5 meets in 5 months so obviously Fab doesn’t fail to deliver all the time, if a man started a thread complaining about not getting any meets after meeting 5 women in 5 months he’d get laughed out of the room "
I think you failed to miss my point on every area to be fair?
I wouldn't expect anyone to pay for a hotel, as I state on my profile I'm happy to spilt costs.
I'm not arguing the toss if someone's married or not? I'm 44, not 15, I know my way around dating/hook up sites 
I'm in no way seeking a relationship, I'd be on a different site if I was. I'm quite happily single seeking light hearted fun...
My issue is... So many guys state they want the above. And fail to deliver? Hence my post? Although I really enjoyed your mansplaing it was actually a me problem, not theirs |
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By *ickD80Man 42 weeks ago
Wolverhampton |
"Sooo, many male threads stating ladies don't meet?... Yet, without fail Fab fails to deliver often when as a woman I agree to...so come on gents get your act together instead of bitching maybe?
Are you saying that you have been let down by guys … no shows to agreed meets ?
To be honest it's the full spectrum, from failed meets, to engaging with someone who’s actually married (shocker), to stating you're only seeking fun, to then get grief. I think it's the other side of the grass isn't always greener when men moan
You state in your profile that you don’t meet at your house which means when you arrange to meet someone it will either be at the other person’s house or at a hotel so you could ask him to either send you his address or pay for a hotel room to show that he’s serious about meeting you because a time waster wouldn’t do either of those things. Worst case scenario is they give you a false address but I’m sure you could get proof that they live there before arranging anything, they’ll have plenty of documents with their address on.
There are married men looking to have sex behind their wife’s back on every dating/chat site, so that’s nothing unique to Fab.
If you’re complaining that men are only looking for fun then i don’t think you’re on the right site, that’s all most of the men on here want, at least they’re being honest with you rather than pretending to be looking for something serious just so that you’ll sleep with them. If you’re looking for something serious then you should state that on your profile because it’s assumed that people here aren’t looking for that.
If you are getting grief from anyone then that’s wrong and it shouldn’t happen anywhere. Some people really don’t like to be rejected but that’s because they don’t have any self confidence and need the acceptance of other to feel like they’re worth anything.
You’ve had 5 meets in 5 months so obviously Fab doesn’t fail to deliver all the time, if a man started a thread complaining about not getting any meets after meeting 5 women in 5 months he’d get laughed out of the room
I think you failed to miss my point on every area to be fair?
I wouldn't expect anyone to pay for a hotel, as I state on my profile I'm happy to spilt costs.
I'm not arguing the toss if someone's married or not? I'm 44, not 15, I know my way around dating/hook up sites
I'm in no way seeking a relationship, I'd be on a different site if I was. I'm quite happily single seeking light hearted fun...
My issue is... So many guys state they want the above. And fail to deliver? Hence my post? Although I really enjoyed your mansplaing it was actually a me problem, not theirs "
I know you offer to pay half the cost of the hotel room but you can’t pay half each at the time of booking, one person will have to book it and pay the hotel and then the other gives that person half the money. So if a man books a hotel room and pays for it and you arrange to give him half the cost when you meet then it’s a strong indication that he’s serious.
I don’t understand what you’re saying regarding men here being married, if you don’t care whether or not they’re married then why are you complaining about it and saying that it’s a reason why Fab fails?
So you’re saying that men don’t want to meet you when you tell them you aren’t looking for anything serious and just want no strings sex? Are you saying that most of the men on this site are looking for a serious relationship? I’m surprised if that is actually what you’ve experienced here to be honest as I’ve very much got the impression that most men are here for nothing more than sex.
Call it mansplaining if you want, it’s no different to all the women telling a man to sort out his profile, make more of an effort with his messages, go to a club etc when he complains about not getting any meets, are they not telling the men that it’s their problem and not the women’s?
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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I would get my act together, and I actually do.
I’m not afraid to ask someone to meet if I know I have a date free. And that’s pretty much the only obstacle that stops me if I like someone. all other difficulties can be overcome.
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