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single bi fems - another take
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i am one of the above and im aware that folk well couples complain about us and say that we never want to meet them and are we real and all that and want to bring male fbs with us (lol, as if). but lately couples are getting on my nerves cos a lot will have on their profiles that they want to meet as a 3sum or for just girl on girl. but if you chat to them with a view to having just some ff fun they get all nagging about oh please he really wants to be involved, and dont want to meet after all when i hardline that i only want to meet fems only. why put it on your profile if youve no intention of meeting women alone? this is a bit of a rant lol i dont usually do rants but oh well, just thought put the boot on the other foot for a change on the forum  |
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You are a gay female though....
That is slightly different...
As couples do tend to play together, why would you entertain them as a gay female?
Would a gay female be happy with the husband watching?
Curious... |
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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago
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"If it doesnt state on their profile that SHE is looking to meet women alone....
Just ignore and move on...."
the annoying part for the OP is when fem half of cpl 1st makes out,in messages, to be all up for a meet alone but when it comes to the actual planning a meet wants to involve male after all.
i'm very clear when we arrange girls only meets or i attend girls only partys that NO men are allowed,the moment i figure bloke 'stays in different room'.....needs to be there cause of healthissues etc....the deal is off.
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well thought we would have our two sence worth 
we look for single females but just for my better half to play with i have no intrest in getting involved i just like watching and want her to have fun. i like to watch and she likes the feeling of security when i am there. were swinging not dating why should it matter? |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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"well thought we would have our two sence worth
we look for single females but just for my better half to play with i have no intrest in getting involved i just like watching and want her to have fun. i like to watch and she likes the feeling of security when i am there. were swinging not dating why should it matter? "
May not matter to you, but what about what the other female wants? Specially as she states on her profile women only.. |
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"well thought we would have our two sence worth
we look for single females but just for my better half to play with i have no intrest in getting involved i just like watching and want her to have fun. i like to watch and she likes the feeling of security when i am there. were swinging not dating why should it matter?
May not matter to you, but what about what the other female wants? Specially as she states on her profile women only.."
well if it states woman only we dont contact them. the whole point in being with someone is to share experiances imo. why would you expect female part of the couple to play alone?? most dont do it for men so why would the for a woman.
tick to your guns. If you want girl girl . Go for it and your ideal couple will come along eventually . Not sure what the blokes gonna do . Sit and watch I suppose . Could be a good show x hopefully there all great shows but for me its more about seeing how mcuh fun my lil minx has |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im with op in this.
I have not blocked couples even if im gay.
Some couples play seperatly so i have met wives on their own. I have let a few men watch years ago but to be frank... Put me right off and felt the meet was more for the husband.
Someone said swinging isnt dating so what does it matter? ...
I ask you.. would you meet someone you didnt want too?
Would you just go along with something as your on a swingers site why should it matter?
Would you heckers like!!!
Why should she have the man there????
Stupid silly thing to say if you ask me!
Op... Stick to your guns and do what YOU makes you feel good xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"well thought we would have our two sence worth
we look for single females but just for my better half to play with i have no intrest in getting involved i just like watching and want her to have fun. i like to watch and she likes the feeling of security when i am there. were swinging not dating why should it matter?
May not matter to you, but what about what the other female wants? Specially as she states on her profile women only.."
I don't think u understand the OP point she has made. She is gay and has that on her profile so when she has her prefences stated of ff play only they shouldn't try and coherse into anything else!
As for gays being on here.. There is an option to put urself as gay.. So of course they can be on here! I think it was kinda rude to suggest they can't by saying there is a gay fab site |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"well thought we would have our two sence worth
we look for single females but just for my better half to play with i have no intrest in getting involved i just like watching and want her to have fun. i like to watch and she likes the feeling of security when i am there. were swinging not dating why should it matter?
May not matter to you, but what about what the other female wants? Specially as she states on her profile women only..
I don't think u understand the OP point she has made. She is gay and has that on her profile so when she has her prefences stated of ff play only they shouldn't try and coherse into anything else!
As for gays being on here.. There is an option to put urself as gay.. So of course they can be on here! I think it was kinda rude to suggest they can't by saying there is a gay fab site"
i think it makes some men annoyed that there mite be a girl on here not interested in them! Ive had messages like cmon you need a bit of cock sometime girl... Hmm. It does matter if the guy is there watching as its a totally different dynamic to the sex. Plus i hav met the odd couple and allowed this and often the man tries to change the rules when you get there. Just too complicated, thats why i stick to ff now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know exactly where you are coming from really annoys me also...you can talk for a while and then they bring it in even tho they have said they just want to meet solo.
And then you are the fake if you refuse 
The solo guy one does me...speak to a couple and i have no intention of meeting just the male half but the amount of times im asked. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would love some f on f action, I do enjoy mff so am happy to meet couples but ideally i would like some (erm lots lol) of f on f meets. Love concentrating on a woman with no distractions
It's difficult tho. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is excatley why I gave up on couples. Im a person not a fantasy.
I have couple friends and have played with some cracking couples in the past but on here it just doesnt work for me.
It starts with ff only but then;
he wants to watch,
oh and would you mind if he played with [his own] partner a little,
then well if he is joining in, can he play with you?
The ff it was supposed to be turned into a mff
The amount of single women on here, who 'produce' a partner just before the meet is shocking
The amount of couples that complain single women profiles are not single women is high and yet, if they play alone then they have a single womans profile.
Then the single men get fed up of finding a single womans profile, that is actually a couple's.
Everyone then becomes a 'time waster' because it cant simply be, 'it didnt pan out'.
Or the single woman is a 'fake' or a 'desperate single bloke pretending'
Thankfully, there are some incredible single men, single women and couples on this site, but you need to dig for them  |
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Or she prefers to put on a 'hot-show'for her partner
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