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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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You've had partners before your relationship now.
We've only been with each other and are finding it hard to take plunge, worrying about whether it will ruin us.
We're very turned on about thought and fantasise about it often. |
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"You've had partners before your relationship now.
We've only been with each other and are finding it hard to take plunge, worrying about whether it will ruin us.
We're very turned on about thought and fantasise about it often. "
Can't possibly say if its easier to swing if you've had partners other than the one you're with. I would say that if you're concerned that it will ruin you you haven't talked it through enough. If you are both clear about initial boundaries (these will change with time)you are both going into it free of coercion from the other and you have absolute trust in each other then it is unlikely to ruin you regardless of how many previous partners you've had.
Talk some more, discus how you think it might ruin you and take it slowly.
Good luck and whatever you decide, enjoy! |
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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago
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Hubby + i have been together for 24 years before we took the plunge.
If you have worries than you may be not ready yet.Keep talking about all your worries.
May be just go to a Club and watch others before you have your own fun in a locked room.
Take it easy and only if you BOTH ready start involving others.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had never swung before meeting 2wheels. Although I had engaged in NSA as a single bi fem, I had never been one half of a couple.
The reason I was so comfortable doing this is firstly, I'm a kinky pervert and secondly, I was so secure in the knowledge he loved me and that we were doing this for us and not just for him. I also knew (and still do now) I could say stop or no more at any point and it would all end.
If it wasn't for the time he spent nurturing us as a couple, it would never have worked.
Hope it all works out for the best for you guys.
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