The title is a little vague so I'll try and explain. On one of my first meets, when I was on another site (nearly 20 years ago now  ), we were getting busy in the back of my car, and she tried to get on top and slip me inside her unprotected. When I stopped her and said we should use protection, she said something along the lines of "well done, you passed the test", before we rubbered up and continued.
I never knew if she planned to "test" me like that, or if she just came up with that excuse when I resisted going in raw. Have you ever done anything like that on a meet, or had it done to you? |
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No I'd never do it
My ex claimed he was 'testing' me to see if he could trust me. He was the one lying
It's usually an excuse to pass blame for bad behaviour on to the person you're behaving badly towards. Or a sign of mistrust |
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"No I'd never do it
My ex claimed he was 'testing' me to see if he could trust me. He was the one lying
It's usually an excuse to pass blame for bad behaviour on to the person you're behaving badly towards. Or a sign of mistrust "
Yeah I've always thought she was probably lying... |
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"The title is a little vague so I'll try and explain. On one of my first meets, when I was on another site (nearly 20 years ago now ), we were getting busy in the back of my car, and she tried to get on top and slip me inside her unprotected. When I stopped her and said we should use protection, she said something along the lines of "well done, you passed the test", before we rubbered up and continued.
I never knew if she planned to "test" me like that, or if she just came up with that excuse when I resisted going in raw. Have you ever done anything like that on a meet, or had it done to you?"
No not something I would do Surely that part would be agreed before sex anyway
If someone was trying to test me. The only thing they would be testing is exiting the door within minutes |
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By *iasubTV/TS 49 weeks ago
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"The title is a little vague so I'll try and explain. On one of my first meets, when I was on another site (nearly 20 years ago now ), we were getting busy in the back of my car, and she tried to get on top and slip me inside her unprotected. When I stopped her and said we should use protection, she said something along the lines of "well done, you passed the test", before we rubbered up and continued.
I never knew if she planned to "test" me like that, or if she just came up with that excuse when I resisted going in raw. Have you ever done anything like that on a meet, or had it done to you?
No not something I would do Surely that part would be agreed before sex anyway
If someone was trying to test me. The only thing they would be testing is exiting the door within minutes "
Exactly same for me too |
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"Does sound a bit like "I dont trust you so I will see if I am right "sort of thing."
It's either that or ' you've discovered something I've done wrong so I'm going to make it seem that I needed to test your loyalty to me because otherwise I'll be exposed ' |
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I (still) believe in good communication. I do not like to be tested, it tells me someone was not sincere with me, still doesn't trust me, and it makes my guard go up. Not a good prognosticator of a repeat meet. |
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"No, I haven't ever wanted or needed to.
I think by the sounds she was embarrassed when you caught her out and tried to make out it was a test op. "
I think that's exactly what happened. It would be out of order to lay traps for someone, especially when you had reached the intimate stage. |
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