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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I find it quite ironic when I see an 'Update' saying the person wants one thing (for example a sexy guy to come and play) and yet when I click on their profile their profile explicitly says they don't want that thing (in the case of the example above the profile said 'no single guys')
I've notified quite a few of theses contradictions over last few days. Another example was a couple whose profile started with the words: MUST be able to accommodate. Yet they had a meet listed for guys to come to them.
This really isn't a Rant, as it doesn't 'bother' me. I just found it ironic in light of the amount of times people complain about people not reading their profiles  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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A lot of people have no single guys on their profile cos they don't want to be inundated and like to go looking for themselves instead..
Those with must accomodate may say that as most people who can't is cos they are meeting behind a partners back so they are just trying to avoid those people best they can
Don't see the problem tbh |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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That may be the case. Although the couple who said Must be able to accommodate also say married guys welcome so in that particular case would not seem to be that explanation.
I wasn't saying it was a problem. Just commenting that it is ironic that some people complain about people not reading their profile properly when other people put things in their profile that contradict what they apparently want. Like most things on this site it isn't a problem unless you are someone who takes the whole thing too seriously, but that doesn't mean you can't find certain things amusing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If they have kids, then they probably can not accommondate most of the time, so have that listed. They might have a few days off (from the kids) and have decided to play at home, as they have the oppertunity....
I get that the contradictions can sometimes be  but life is never clean cut, so factor in the 'humans' behind the profile and relax a little  |
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"A lot of people have no single guys on their profile cos they don't want to be inundated and like to go looking for themselves instead..
Those with must accomodate may say that as most people who can't is cos they are meeting behind a partners back so they are just trying to avoid those people best they can
Don't see the problem tbh"
Hey therw its the last part of this comment that makes me smile. Just because we cant or wont accom does not mean we are cheating. Is the same said of women that cant accom? No! People will think its a safety or security issue. Just like the OP not a rant but we all know what it does to assume! |
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its one of two things..it'd either people managing their profile however they see fit or its a conspiracy designed to fuck with peoples heads....can you guess which one it is? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find it quite ironic when I see an 'Update' saying the person wants one thing (for example a sexy guy to come and play) and yet when I click on their profile their profile explicitly says they don't want that thing (in the case of the example above the profile said 'no single guys')
I've notified quite a few of theses contradictions over last few days. Another example was a couple whose profile started with the words: MUST be able to accommodate. Yet they had a meet listed for guys to come to them.
This really isn't a Rant, as it doesn't 'bother' me. I just found it ironic in light of the amount of times people complain about people not reading their profiles "
 whether it was a RANT or not its a good point you raised and one which we see here in forums very often
Sadly it just goes with the lifestyle/territory and nowt we can do about it..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find it quite ironic when I see an 'Update' saying the person wants one thing (for example a sexy guy to come and play) and yet when I click on their profile their profile explicitly says they don't want that thing (in the case of the example above the profile said 'no single guys')
I've notified quite a few of theses contradictions over last few days. Another example was a couple whose profile started with the words: MUST be able to accommodate. Yet they had a meet listed for guys to come to them.
This really isn't a Rant, as it doesn't 'bother' me. I just found it ironic in light of the amount of times people complain about people not reading their profiles
whether it was a RANT or not its a good point you raised and one which we see here in forums very often
Sadly it just goes with the lifestyle/territory and nowt we can do about it.. "
When our son lived at home our profile said cannot accommodate. When he went away anywhere we could accommodate so we'd put a meet up saying so. but we wouldn't change the 'cannot accommodate' on our profile.there's nothing either underhand or ironic about that. just the fact that we'd probably forget to change it back. funnily enough we never received a single mail that said 'hang on a minute your profile says you can't accommodate' maybe nobody noticed. maybe some chose not to notice if there was a chance of a shag |
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Our profile says will not meet smokers, but we do at clubs. Also we dont want single guys, but for sure at clubs the odd guy has been involved during group sessions.
We start off with the best high standards, then hello vino goggles on lol
Is that not the way it goes? |
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