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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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"At what point does a guy become BI ? After
1 a hand job with a guy.
2 a bj with a guy
3 full anal with a guy
All 3 can be giving or receiving. "
Any of the above I’d say |
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By *luefire2Couple 43 weeks ago
just somewhere around here |
Just by doing a sexual act with the same sex doesn't automatically make you bi. It is when you get pleasure from it and enjoy being with the same sex that counts. Any guy can suck a cock, they may only do it in the moment and not really enjoy it.
So for us, bi is when you enjoy and seek sexual activity with the same sex.
Mrs R |
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"Just by doing a sexual act with the same sex doesn't automatically make you bi. It is when you get pleasure from it and enjoy being with the same sex that counts. Any guy can suck a cock, they may only do it in the moment and not really enjoy it.
So for us, bi is when you enjoy and seek sexual activity with the same sex.
Mrs R"
100% this  |
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"At what point does a guy become BI ? After
1 a hand job with a guy.
2 a bj with a guy
3 full anal with a guy
All 3 can be giving or receiving. "
A guy is bisexual when he finds both men and women sexually attractive. |
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Someone put it this way to us which we liked.
Bisexual..romantically attracted to the same sex.
Biplayful..Happy to play with the opposite sex (in any dynamic IE: receive BJ) but would not be in a relationship of any sort with the same sex. |
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I have been bi for many years, so hard to say. But I would say that it is if you decide you like sex with people the same gender as you. If you fantasise about it but never actually do it, then I don't think you are bi. And if you try it once but decide you don't want to do it again, you are not bi. |
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"Someone put it this way to us which we liked.
Bisexual..romantically attracted to the same sex.
Biplayful..Happy to play with the opposite sex (in any dynamic IE: receive BJ) but would not be in a relationship of any sort with the same sex. "
By that logic... someone is asexual if they choose not to be in a relationship with anyone. |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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"At what point does a guy become BI ? After
1 a hand job with a guy.
2 a bj with a guy
3 full anal with a guy
All 3 can be giving or receiving. "
I have an odd take on this one. So for me solo guy on guy did nothing for me at all. However when doing it at the request of a woman for her enjoyment or helping it absolutely loved it, I have however only had one of each experience so definitely need to try again. |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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"OP here .
I guess I will have to wait to find out how I feel as I was let down by the potential meet guess we have all been there but thanks for most of the answers x."
Unfortunate mate, all the best to you good sir. X |
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I went on a bit of a journey, from fantasising having a guy, to wanking on cam with guys, to meeting and finally to realising I enjoyed guys sexually. It’s been quite an experience and has both shocked and delighted me….still can’t quite believe it but I’d say I am now bisexual, and enjoying every moment of it too!  |
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"I went on a bit of a journey, from fantasising having a guy, to wanking on cam with guys, to meeting and finally to realising I enjoyed guys sexually. It’s been quite an experience and has both shocked and delighted me….still can’t quite believe it but I’d say I am now bisexual, and enjoying every moment of it too! "
Love this post very hot and sexy |
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"I went on a bit of a journey, from fantasising having a guy, to wanking on cam with guys, to meeting and finally to realising I enjoyed guys sexually. It’s been quite an experience and has both shocked and delighted me….still can’t quite believe it but I’d say I am now bisexual, and enjoying every moment of it too! "
Very much how my story goes, my only regret is not trying earlier. |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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I dont feel bi but when iv had group meets while I'm playing with the ladies iv had men wanking and blowing me which I sometimes enjoyed
Hence why I put bicurious on my account |
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"Someone put it this way to us which we liked.
Bisexual..romantically attracted to the same sex.
Biplayful..Happy to play with the opposite sex (in any dynamic IE: receive BJ) but would not be in a relationship of any sort with the same sex. "
Great comment ???? |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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"At what point does a guy become BI ? After
1 a hand job with a guy.
2 a bj with a guy
3 full anal with a guy
All 3 can be giving or receiving. "
When you pursue both genders  |
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I've always thought it comes down to what you wank about when you're alone. If there's boys in there, you're bi, even if you've never done anything for real. I mean, virgins aren't asexual until they lose it are they? |
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"When you start craving cock and you just want more. That's a pretty good indication "
I agree with this. When you involuntarily desire or think about men sexually, alongside or independently of the desire for women. |
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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"None of the above, trying something doesn't make you bisexual."
As much as I don’t really care how accurate the answer is, I always imagine myself joining in with these conversations makes me bi-curious…
*woody watches all the straight very straight men leave the chat. 
What is true to me? Let’s just say I’m in the middle of some sexy sex in a group, and things just happen to pop into my hand or mouth… am I automatically gay/bi …. No, I would curious. Curious, whether I liked it curious what it made me feel like curious to whether I do it again. Etc.
What I’d label myself bi- curious or bi-sexual. No. Probably not. Until I made my own mind up.
OP, you can be one thing, and others can think of something else, it doesn’t matter. *Just my opinion.  |
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"I ask myself , these pillow talk 3sums TLC and I have , leading to me using her favorite dildo named doc fucking her while I’m sucking and licking her pussy …. Would that be bi. ????"
No. It is not bi to use a sex toy on a woman. |
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"I’m my mind , giving her even more pleasure by licking and sucking her clit , is maybe bi curious, take that pussy out the mix -I’m gone too lol. But the pleasure my wife gets is worth the play. "
If you are only interacting with, and fantasizing about, women then you are as straight as a Roman road. |
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By *ikilovesCCouple 42 weeks ago
village life, closest main town inverness |
"At what point does a guy become BI ? After
1 a hand job with a guy.
2 a bj with a guy
3 full anal with a guy
All 3 can be giving or receiving. "
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If he's thinking about trying it, he's bi curious,
if he's done it, liked it, wants to do it again he's bi sexual lol
If he would go as far as see himself in a relationship then he is bi romantic too.
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How does that sound for a Fab explanation 
There's also the "bi playful" guys but they can explain that lol |
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"At what point does a guy become BI ? After
1 a hand job with a guy.
2 a bj with a guy
3 full anal with a guy
All 3 can be giving or receiving. "
If you tried any of the above and liked it and seek or willing to do it again then you are bisexual. |
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If he's thinking about trying it, he's bi curious,
if he's done it, liked it, wants to do it again he's bi sexual lol
If he would go as far as see himself in a relationship then he is bi romantic too.
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How does that sound for a Fab explanation
There's also the "bi playful" guys but they can explain that lol "
Looking forward to seeing people identify as hetero-curious, and hetero-romantic (and homo-curious and homo-romantic). |
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By *ikilovesCCouple 42 weeks ago
village life, closest main town inverness |
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If he's thinking about trying it, he's bi curious,
if he's done it, liked it, wants to do it again he's bi sexual lol
If he would go as far as see himself in a relationship then he is bi romantic too.
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How does that sound for a Fab explanation
There's also the "bi playful" guys but they can explain that lol
Looking forward to seeing people identify as hetero-curious, and hetero-romantic (and homo-curious and homo-romantic)."
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I confess to getting confused with all the new identity labels etc lol, just call me homo erectus |
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For some people it's a long journey with many hop on hop off stops. Some just get a day pass, others a seasonal ticket and some a life time subscription. Enjoy life, there desn't need to be a deep philosophical debate and a filling system for everything. |
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"For some people it's a long journey with many hop on hop off stops. Some just get a day pass, others a seasonal ticket and some a life time subscription. Enjoy life, there desn't need to be a deep philosophical debate and a filling system for everything. "
This 100%
Don't allow other people's need to slap a label on you push you into feeling like you need to comform to some bi labelling system.
Just explore, enjoy and when and if you're ready list yourself however you want |
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"Someone put it this way to us which we liked.
Bisexual..romantically attracted to the same sex.
Biplayful..Happy to play with the opposite sex (in any dynamic IE: receive BJ) but would not be in a relationship of any sort with the same sex. "
I'm this (Biplayful). Never fancied a guy but I do like cocks and I don't think 'biplayful' is an option on here. |
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"Someone put it this way to us which we liked.
Bisexual..romantically attracted to the same sex.
Biplayful..Happy to play with the opposite sex (in any dynamic IE: receive BJ) but would not be in a relationship of any sort with the same sex. "
I like that pretty much describes me |
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By *ocktower OP Man 42 weeks ago
north Wales and Bulgaria. |
"At what point does a guy become BI ? After
1 a hand job with a guy.
2 a bj with a guy
3 full anal with a guy
All 3 can be giving or receiving.
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If he's thinking about trying it, he's bi curious,
if he's done it, liked it, wants to do it again he's bi sexual lol
If he would go as far as see himself in a relationship then he is bi romantic too.
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How does that sound for a Fab explanation
There's also the "bi playful" guys but they can explain that lol "
Or 4 bi playful I never thought of that 1 lol. |
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I think I became fully bi last Thursday when I invited a younger femboy to mine for stepdad stepson roleplay, his tasty wet ass tasted amazing,he kissed so sexually and came down my throat and up my ass! Best Guy meet I've ever had by miles x |
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I was always intrigued by men and was always sneaky checking them out in the toilet when I was in my teens. I never had the opportunity to do anything about it, that was until I was in dating my lovely Karen. We were chatting away about life’s disappointments and things we wanted out of life. I asked her what it felt like to suck a man’s cock. As the conversation progressed, it turns out that watching two guys play would be a huge turn on for her. So that’s how we are, where we are today. We’ve had one hell of a trip so far. Sex with whom ever it is, it should be fun. I’d definitely say I’m bisexual and I love it. |
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