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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I was just wondered if anyone else on here seems to be having the same problem as us?
We clearly state in our profile that we only meet bi males, females, couples but will meet straight guys in clubs (who doesn't love a good gangbang  ).
Recently we have noticed more and more straight guys messaging us and when challenged they are instantly bi but won't state it on their profile or have been thinking about trying it lol
Just wish people would be straight - no pun intended
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was listed as straight for quite a while but I do mention in my profile text that I play bi with couples. After thinking long and hard about it I decided to change it to curious because people were missing/skipping that part of my profile.
I still don't really think I'm "bi" as such, I prefer the term "twisted"...lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I was listed as straight for quite a while but I do mention in my profile text that I play bi with couples. After thinking long and hard about it I decided to change it to curious because people were missing/skipping that part of my profile.
I still don't really think I'm "bi" as such, I prefer the term "twisted"...lol"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was just wondered if anyone else on here seems to be having the same problem as us?
We clearly state in our profile that we only meet bi males, females, couples but will meet straight guys in clubs (who doesn't love a good gangbang ).
Recently we have noticed more and more straight guys messaging us and when challenged they are instantly bi but won't state it on their profile or have been thinking about trying it lol
Just wish people would be straight - no pun intended
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Or the only reason they dont put bi is because they get loads of mail from guys lol
All they have to do is sort out the message filters to non male profiles xx |
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"Recently we have noticed more and more straight guys messaging us and when challenged they are instantly bi but won't state it on their profile or have been thinking about trying it lol
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Maybe some are scared of their sexuality, other's just want to try their luck, for us, if they can't be honest on their profile, what chance have we got when meeting up. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We've had this too. Just tell them it will be man on man first with the female just watching. That will put the 'real' straight guys off. 
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In all fairness this a major turn on of mine, to watch two men suck one another as I watch
Any takers lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We've had this too. Just tell them it will be man on man first with the female just watching. That will put the 'real' straight guys off.
In all fairness this a major turn on of mine, to watch two men suck one another as I watch
Any takers lol"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was just wondered if anyone else on here seems to be having the same problem as us?
We clearly state in our profile that we only meet bi males, females, couples but will meet straight guys in clubs (who doesn't love a good gangbang ).
Recently we have noticed more and more straight guys messaging us and when challenged they are instantly bi but won't state it on their profile or have been thinking about trying it lol
Just wish people would be straight - no pun intended
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we get at least half a dozen a day - they instantly get a "No" |
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"I was just wondered if anyone else on here seems to be having the same problem as us?
We clearly state in our profile that we only meet bi males, females, couples but will meet straight guys in clubs (who doesn't love a good gangbang ).
Recently we have noticed more and more straight guys messaging us and when challenged they are instantly bi but won't state it on their profile or have been thinking about trying it lol
Just wish people would be straight - no pun intended
we get at least half a dozen a day - they instantly get a "No" "
We also get loads of these. Instant block. They are either beeing dishonest with us or everyone else. Either way not a good start |
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My profile states I'm straight but in the right circumstances I have been know to latch on to a nice cock and have mine sucked......I think it can put some women couples off if you put bi as some guys get paranoid. What does that make me??? A kinky fucker or just greedy?? Lol  |
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"My profile states I'm straight but in the right circumstances I have been know to latch on to a nice cock and have mine sucked......I think it can put some women couples off if you put bi as some guys get paranoid. What does that make me??? A kinky fucker or just greedy?? Lol "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A couple contacted me saying I was exactly what they were looking for. A few messages in they said they wanted to confirm that I was happy to play bi. I said no and pointed out that my profile says straight. They told me they only meet bi guys and asked if i would chang emy mind.
They have plenty of recent verifications from straight men, so i asked them about that. They said they all list themselves as straight, but were bi as soon as a couple asked them to be |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You would have to read our profile to find out our bi-sides, we dont think thats too much to ask.
As for finding bi-guys, there is always fabguys, have your fella set up a profile on there and then you can guarantee contact from "genuine" bi-guys.
The amount of people that seem to be "bi" and not "out" is a direct reflection on how "bi-sexual" males are viewed by some members (perhaps in the minority judging by the amount of bi fellas that contact us).
One question to all those people that attend clubs, but say they wont meet bi-guys, how does that work....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was just wondered if anyone else on here seems to be having the same problem as us?
We clearly state in our profile that we only meet bi males, females, couples but will meet straight guys in clubs (who doesn't love a good gangbang ).
Recently we have noticed more and more straight guys messaging us and when challenged they are instantly bi but won't state it on their profile or have been thinking about trying it lol
Just wish people would be straight - no pun intended "
Agree with you. I'm straight and have been 100% comfortable with that since I was 15. But I was lucky in that a situation arose which cemented my orientation in one go. Not everyone has such an opportunity and there are a lot of guys who are struggling (for want of a better word) with their sexuality - even behind the anonymity afforded by a site like this.
In your position, I would stick to my guns and if they don't say 'bi' or 'bi-curious' in their profile, then no amount of claims otherwise by them would make me budge. |
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Bisexuality still has a sort of stigma to it, for me anyway, im still finding my sexuality,im submissively bi with strong couples, i dont play solo with guys, as it does very little for me. but maybe the straight guys are still struggling with that openness, or there married so the profiles all lies anyway? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yer we get the same too....always a excuse why they can't put Bi on there profile !!!!!!
Genuine bi couple here
And stunning  "
Have to agree, great looking couple.... Fancy chatting to another bi couple |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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As for finding bi-guys, there is always fabguys, have your fella set up a profile on there and then you can guarantee contact from "genuine" bi. "
We did join the site listed as a make but was honest and duplicated our fab profile, in 3 weeks had one message who was interested in meeting as a couple lol |
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By *exy6768Couple
over a year ago
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"Yer we get the same too....always a excuse why they can't put Bi on there profile !!!!!!
Genuine bi couple here
And stunning
Thanks ....got to say same back
U can't see me  lol"
Well ur machine looks like it has lots of power and stamina ! |
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"Yer we get the same too....always a excuse why they can't put Bi on there profile !!!!!!
Genuine bi couple here
And stunning
Thanks ....got to say same back
U can't see me lol
Well ur machine looks like it has lots of power and stamina !"
It's quite a throber between your thighs  |
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By *exy6768Couple
over a year ago
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"Yer we get the same too....always a excuse why they can't put Bi on there profile !!!!!!
Genuine bi couple here
And stunning
Thanks ....got to say same back
U can't see me lol
Well ur machine looks like it has lots of power and stamina !
Oh I bet is is brumbrum
It's quite a throber between your thighs "
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"Yer we get the same too....always a excuse why they can't put Bi on there profile !!!!!!
Genuine bi couple here
And stunning
Thanks ....got to say same back
U can't see me lol
Well ur machine looks like it has lots of power and stamina !
Oh I bet is is brumbrum
It's quite a throber between your thighs "
I'd love to join you 2 for 3 way bi fun |
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I think it also comes down to how you define bi.
I would say I was more curious than bi - I don't want a relationship with a woman, but if I'm attracted to one and it's mutual, then I'm more than up for it  |
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"I think it also comes down to how you define bi.
I would say I was more curious than bi - I don't want a relationship with a woman, but if I'm attracted to one and it's mutual, then I'm more than up for it "
That's me to a tee, not interested in 1 on 1 but don't mind getting it on if alls good |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it also comes down to how you define bi.
I would say I was more curious than bi - I don't want a relationship with a woman, but if I'm attracted to one and it's mutual, then I'm more than up for it "
Being Bisexual equally doesn't mean you want a relationship with someone the same sex.
We're both bi, put it in our Profile title to make sure and I (Dave) really couldn't care less if people thought less of me for being so. It's who I am and I'm happy with it. We meet plenty of bi guys at Chams on Mondays so perception on here is less important for me than it is for some. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You would have to read our profile to find out our bi-sides, we dont think thats too much to ask.
As for finding bi-guys, there is always fabguys, have your fella set up a profile on there and then you can guarantee contact from "genuine" bi-guys.
The amount of people that seem to be "bi" and not "out" is a direct reflection on how "bi-sexual" males are viewed by some members (perhaps in the minority judging by the amount of bi fellas that contact us).
One question to all those people that attend clubs, but say they wont meet bi-guys, how does that work....... "
You can usually tell if a guy is bi in a club if i go into the gloryhole and he kneels down next to me waiting for the first cock to come through the hole lol xx |
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Or the only reason they dont put bi is because they get loads of mail from guys lol
All they have to do is sort out the message filters to non male profiles xx "
There's the reason. As for your solution, I don't want to filter out every single guy on the site. A lot of guys are a good laugh, even if I don't want to get attacked by their todgers.
I just put straight, put a paragraph saying I'll try it for the right people and block the still endless stream of 'fancy a discreet massage' offers individually |
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Or the only reason they dont put bi is because they get loads of mail from guys lol
All they have to do is sort out the message filters to non male profiles xx
There's the reason. As for your solution, I don't want to filter out every single guy on the site. A lot of guys are a good laugh, even if I don't want to get attacked by their todgers.
I just put straight, put a paragraph saying I'll try it for the right people and block the still endless stream of 'fancy a discreet massage' offers individually"
oops, logged onto wrong account. Obviously that was written by me, Craig. Rach is very much bi! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it also comes down to how you define bi.
I would say I was more curious than bi - I don't want a relationship with a woman, but if I'm attracted to one and it's mutual, then I'm more than up for it "
nope - if you want it and need it, regarless of whether you want to have a happily ever after with them, you are bi. Which is fantastic.
Christ, it took me until the age of 42 to be finally honest with myself and my own wife. Thankfully, Lola is an angel and embraced the change.
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Recently we have noticed more and more straight guys messaging us and when challenged they are instantly bi but won't state it on their profile or have been thinking about trying it lol
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Think of it as a positive thing, you know the guy is a liar and can avoid him |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I get messages grom straight guys saying they are bi and want to...... well you get the idea.
I dont know why people aren't honest on here. Not many people on here judge you for what you are but we are all happy that you can admit it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I dont know why people aren't honest on here. Not many people on here judge you for what you are but we are all happy that you can admit it"
Oh yes they do!!  |
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"I get messages grom straight guys saying they are bi and want to...... well you get the idea.
I dont know why people aren't honest on here. Not many people on here judge you for what you are but we are all happy that you can admit it"
I get messages from 'straight' guys too wanting to suck my cock. Some people don't like bi guys and some people do. Someone for everyone on here. |
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I dont know why people aren't honest on here. Not many people on here judge you for what you are but we are all happy that you can admit it
Oh yes they do!! "
Have you read some of the recent threads?! |
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I dont know why people aren't honest on here. Not many people on here judge you for what you are but we are all happy that you can admit it
Oh yes they do!!
Have you read some of the recent
threads?! "
Like the one about milk first in the grab the world thread.....some people eh? Tsk tsk tsk |
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