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By *ezandC OP Couple
over a year ago
Telford |
Hi, do couples do this, we get the impression it’s not for most as the male half wants to be involved?
I love looking at kez so seeing her with a women is very sexy but as single ladies are hard to find we have been discussing couples, its a slow transition for us due to fear of the male half pushing boundaries.
Meet at a hotel, have a drink and chat, move to room, ladies enjoy each other, then couples go separate ways and the guys can enjoy their own partners thinking about what they just watched.
Just curious if others do this and enjoy? |
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This isn’t for us, but there are lots of couples we come across looking for this.
Your description differs, but what we tend to find is MF couple wanting only the F of another couple to join in MMF. Find one of those couples and you are half way there, be open with the M and agree only FF play.
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If we meet a single lady it is for both of us to participate and enjoy and we make that quite clear to prospective meets. Also if Ruth is meeting a couple solo she wants to enjoy both, not just the lady. |
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By *ezandC OP Couple
over a year ago
Telford |
Kez is happy for me to help pleasure the other lady, but she is only her for ladies herself, she’s not interested in other men. So if we found a single lady and they wanted both of us to play we would love that but it obviously isn’t right to say to a couple that their male half can only watch whilst I join in.
I’ve watched kez a couple of times with another lady, so sexy and can still picture it years later. |
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By *J_SpiceyCouple
over a year ago
Kinky Kings Lynn |
You will find most FFM sexual play occurs within the kink scene opposed to the swingers scene.
The kink scene is approx a 50-50 mix of male/female gender. Of course transgender is within this mix too.
At a guess the swing scene is probably 70-30 mix in favour of males and of that percentage of females, probably less than 10% seek MF Couples opposed to seeking multiple males.
Within the kink scene many females enjoy same sex and transgender. Bisexual men will most likely end up in FFM situation as well as MMF.
Just my opinion from experience. |
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We have met on the basis of it being female only play and then guys play with partners either in the same room or afterwards.
We’ve also had it where it’s female only meet and there’s no involvement from the guys at all. They aren’t there.
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Exactly why we are on here and been lucky afew times to have Mrs4 (Anne)play with another fem from a couple but as you say had our fair share of Steven Spielburgs though and even afew males trying to push in or assume that just because the fems have had fun or their fem has had fun with Mrs4 they are going to aswell ?? and Mr4 is more than happy to sit with a cold beer and watching the fems enjoy each other ? but some males do get rather over excited sometimes ? and reason we like to chat 1st set the ground rules then if everyones agree's meet for a social as it's always the fem decision to play ( or it should be ?) but most couples are perfectly fine with just fem on fem though ! and who wouldn't be as Mr4 says beats anything on tv ? xx  |
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By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago
Fairytale Wood |
"Kez is happy for me to help pleasure the other lady, but she is only her for ladies herself, she’s not interested in other men. So if we found a single lady and they wanted both of us to play we would love that but it obviously isn’t right to say to a couple that their male half can only watch whilst I join in.
I’ve watched kez a couple of times with another lady, so sexy and can still picture it years later."
This is a little confusing. First you talk about girl girl only no now your talikng about being allowed to join in with the other lady but kez not join in with other men. Isn't this the very essence of why so many are not willing. You also suggested that you can't find a couple where the partner can only watch which is not surprising. True Girl Girl and males does not work. Why you can't find them males find it inposible not to join in on some level, from directing their own porn movie to feeling left out and have to join in. Ffm is a guy thing not a girl thing. |
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over a year ago
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Mr loves the voyeur side of things so is happy to sit back and enjoy , also more than happy with me meeting for ff meets too , loves imagining what’s going on  |
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By *ezandC OP Couple
over a year ago
Telford |
"Kez is happy for me to help pleasure the other lady, but she is only her for ladies herself, she’s not interested in other men. So if we found a single lady and they wanted both of us to play we would love that but it obviously isn’t right to say to a couple that their male half can only watch whilst I join in.
I’ve watched kez a couple of times with another lady, so sexy and can still picture it years later.
This is a little confusing. First you talk about girl girl only no now your talikng about being allowed to join in with the other lady but kez not join in with other men. Isn't this the very essence of why so many are not willing. You also suggested that you can't find a couple where the partner can only watch which is not surprising. True Girl Girl and males does not work. Why you can't find them males find it inposible not to join in on some level, from directing their own porn movie to feeling left out and have to join in. Ffm is a guy thing not a girl thing."
Not trying to confuse, I was trying to make it clear kez doesn’t mind me interacting but that’s not what I was implying we were asking for more in this thread. I have and will happily sit back and watch, allow kez to enjoy another lady, kez wants me there to enjoy the view.
If the other lady doesn’t want that then it wouldn’t be something we are looking for.
Not sure what you mean by true girl girl, as we have done it a couple of times, I just watch, ladies have their fun, other lady leaves, and then kez and I enjoy each other. No male contact, no male direct at all for either women, silent partner sat across the room enjoying the show.
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I’m pretty voyeuristic in nature so I’ve been happy to watch Grace play with others and then play with her afterwards. There is though, a clear problem in fab world where people don’t (I assume from experience) believe that a guy can just watch. It’s pretty frustrating as we get the same vibe from fab members who think the lady is only bi to please the guy. It’s difficult to change peoples opinions or at least encourage them to accept different possibilities when there is so much negativity about it. Before anyone has a go at me over this I reiterate that I can appreciate people behave based upon there experiences but you can’t tar everyone with the same brush. |
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We have done this a number of times females have naughty fun together while the guys watch. Once they have finished we find it more sexy and fun to fuck our own partners in the same room though before going our separate ways. Something more naughty fucking on a bed that another couple is fucking on at the same time x |
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As a cuckold couple we’ve met the odd couple in the past where the ladies have initially got to know each other and then the male of the other couple joined in too, for me it was ideal, it was like watching my own live sex show, then again as a cuckold couple our dynamic is different to most couples so that wouldn’t work for them as the male would want to join in and not just watch. |
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"As a cuckold couple we’ve met the odd couple in the past where the ladies have initially got to know each other and then the male of the other couple joined in too, for me it was ideal, it was like watching my own live sex show, then again as a cuckold couple our dynamic is different to most couples so that wouldn’t work for them as the male would want to join in and not just watch."
Fully agree with this. We are cuck couple too and love to meet couple where she has her fun with them while I watch and appreciate them all |
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Personally this isn’t something we look for. But each to their own.
As the lady in the couple I don’t like feeling like I’m “putting on a show” for the guys. I’m sure there are others who do enjoy this kind of meet though.
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By *ezandC OP Couple 52 weeks ago
Telford |
Again glad other are into this and there are enough male half’s who can get enough enjoyment from just watching their partner have fun.
We also wouldn’t see it as a putting on a show, it would be very much about the ladies just doing their thing, enjoying each other, that’s how it would be for us, it would lose a little of naturalness if it felt like the ladies were doing it for the men.
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