If you discuss it and they are happy for you to do so then yes.
If your lying and cheating then no.
Maybe start by discussing what's gone wrong with the sex life, start back at basics make some time together - sex for me starts in the day, if I've had a day of not being listened to, ignored or his attention is elsewhere then no I don't wanna drop my knickers.
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Tough one
Ultimately you must discuss 1st
Something is wrong and the cause has to be found
Sex is everything in a relationship
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By *rispyDuckMan
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"If you discuss it and they are happy for you to do so then yes.
If your lying and cheating then no.
Maybe start by discussing what's gone wrong with the sex life, start back at basics make some time together - sex for me starts in the day, if I've had a day of not being listened to, ignored or his attention is elsewhere then no I don't wanna drop my knickers.
Mrs "
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A long and very honest conversation needs to be had and see if a compromise can be reached. It's not fair for someone to expect their partner to go without a sex life just because they've decided they don't want sex. Equally it's not fair to expect a partner to have sex when they don't want to. Hence why a compromise needs to be reached where both people are happy and content. Good luck. |
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Depends.
Do any parties involved believe they're in a monogamous relationship is one of the main factors.
The other is have you tried to help resolve their lack of libido for you or just decided it's easier to find someone less hassle to get into the knickers of.
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If getting sex elsewhere is agreed upon with both partners then yes its fine.
If it is behind the partners back then no. Lying and cheating is disrespectful to the partner and the people who might not be aware the person seeking sex is doing so. |
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