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"Maybe if you work on your profile first op it says nothing about you " fair enough, will add some stuff x | |||
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"does a 22m have a chance on here? I get that swinging is typically enjoyed by what seems 26plus but wondered If I had a chance lol " Everyone has a chance. Age is a factor but not the only one. If you use the advanced search function you can look specifically for people seeking men your age. There's also plenty of advice in the forums about profiles and how best to interact with others. | |||
"Maybe if you work on your profile first op it says nothing about you " This Mrs | |||
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"does a 22m have a chance on here? I get that swinging is typically enjoyed by what seems 26plus but wondered If I had a chance lol " Hello OP, We will give you advice from the perspective of a couple that would meet a man of your age. What you do with that advice is up to you. Lets start with a harsh fact; some people on here will have zero interest in meeting with you simply because of your age. There is nothing you can do about it, so don't fret. Concentrate on finding the people that would like to meet a young man like you. Refine your search by ticking the "I must match their age requirements too" box. Also refine your search by age, distance etc. There is no point contacting people hundreds of miles away if you cannot 100% commit to a meet. Once you have those search results READ their profiles. It's such basic advice but so few follow it. Don't bother messaging those whose profile you don't meet. If it says they are looking for a bi guy, or a chubby guy, that's not you so don't waste your time or theirs. Consider how you approach people, don't just write 'Hi', 'Fancy a chat' or any other generic one liner, It WILL get you ignored. If you followed the advice above and read the persons profile then there should be some common ground to write about. Now, providing you have sent a message that will entice them to look further they will 99% of the time look at your profile before responding. So now you have to sell yourself. Quite frankly your profile won't impress anyone. It says nothing about you, and could be interpreted as 'I have nothing to say so you need to contact me', which I'm sure is not the impression you intended to make. At present your profile couldn't sell a Big Mac to a starving man, so it's not going to sell you to prospective meets. We are a couple that do meet guys of your age, and one look at your profile would put us off from looking any further. For instance, There is no point writing your age and height, it is already on your profile. Interestingly your height you have written doesn't match what you've entered on your profile; that might seem minor, but it would be enough to put some people off.The rest of your profile is made up of generic throwaway statements. What 'new things' are you looking to try for example, and what 'thing or two' do you think a mature woman can teach you? You'll need to add some detail, not just bland statements. Nobody knows you as well as you know you, and if you have nothing to say about yourself it could be interpreted as there is nothing worth saying about you. That's probably not true, but would you start a conversation in person with someone if you thought you would only get single word answers because they have nothing to say? Write something about you, what you have to offer, what your limits are etc. Basically - make people interested in you. As a single guy you are already fighting an uphill battle; as a young guy too your battle isn't uphill, its practically up a cliff! That doesn't mean you won't have any luck, but you really need to look at your profile, so as to ensure you make the best possible first impression. Put on some pics. Face pics are best, cock pics are generally not required in your public profile because if people want to see your cock, they will ask for it, and anything in between the above is great. Next time it's a nice day, get out and take some selfies somewhere nice such as King's Mill Reservoir or a local park. You can always pixelate your face to preserve anonymity on your public profile. However your profile is not everything. Get involved with the forums, get involved in the chatroom too, both are great ways of getting to know people with no pressure and no first time nerves. We note that is six months you have postedd to the forums four time, three on exactly the same subject. If all you do is ask whether a 22 year old gets a chance, you'll get no chance. Interaction with others is far more likely to lead to action with others. Get off the site and meet people socially or try a club, I notice there is a club in Mansfield (and not just the football club!). You could always sign up to an organised social, where you may meet many people from the area, and perhaps make a better impression face to face than via the Internet. It might be a little nerve wracking the first time, but what harm can having a coffee or a pint with a stranger really do? Good luck | |||
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"does a 22m have a chance on here? I get that swinging is typically enjoyed by what seems 26plus but wondered If I had a chance lol Hello OP, We will give you advice from the perspective of a couple that would meet a man of your age. What you do with that advice is up to you. Lets start with a harsh fact; some people on here will have zero interest in meeting with you simply because of your age. There is nothing you can do about it, so don't fret. Concentrate on finding the people that would like to meet a young man like you. Refine your search by ticking the "I must match their age requirements too" box. Also refine your search by age, distance etc. There is no point contacting people hundreds of miles away if you cannot 100% commit to a meet. Once you have those search results READ their profiles. It's such basic advice but so few follow it. Don't bother messaging those whose profile you don't meet. If it says they are looking for a bi guy, or a chubby guy, that's not you so don't waste your time or theirs. Consider how you approach people, don't just write 'Hi', 'Fancy a chat' or any other generic one liner, It WILL get you ignored. If you followed the advice above and read the persons profile then there should be some common ground to write about. Now, providing you have sent a message that will entice them to look further they will 99% of the time look at your profile before responding. So now you have to sell yourself. Quite frankly your profile won't impress anyone. It says nothing about you, and could be interpreted as 'I have nothing to say so you need to contact me', which I'm sure is not the impression you intended to make. At present your profile couldn't sell a Big Mac to a starving man, so it's not going to sell you to prospective meets. We are a couple that do meet guys of your age, and one look at your profile would put us off from looking any further. For instance, There is no point writing your age and height, it is already on your profile. Interestingly your height you have written doesn't match what you've entered on your profile; that might seem minor, but it would be enough to put some people off.The rest of your profile is made up of generic throwaway statements. What 'new things' are you looking to try for example, and what 'thing or two' do you think a mature woman can teach you? You'll need to add some detail, not just bland statements. Nobody knows you as well as you know you, and if you have nothing to say about yourself it could be interpreted as there is nothing worth saying about you. That's probably not true, but would you start a conversation in person with someone if you thought you would only get single word answers because they have nothing to say? Write something about you, what you have to offer, what your limits are etc. Basically - make people interested in you. As a single guy you are already fighting an uphill battle; as a young guy too your battle isn't uphill, its practically up a cliff! That doesn't mean you won't have any luck, but you really need to look at your profile, so as to ensure you make the best possible first impression. Put on some pics. Face pics are best, cock pics are generally not required in your public profile because if people want to see your cock, they will ask for it, and anything in between the above is great. Next time it's a nice day, get out and take some selfies somewhere nice such as King's Mill Reservoir or a local park. You can always pixelate your face to preserve anonymity on your public profile. However your profile is not everything. Get involved with the forums, get involved in the chatroom too, both are great ways of getting to know people with no pressure and no first time nerves. We note that is six months you have postedd to the forums four time, three on exactly the same subject. If all you do is ask whether a 22 year old gets a chance, you'll get no chance. Interaction with others is far more likely to lead to action with others. Get off the site and meet people socially or try a club, I notice there is a club in Mansfield (and not just the football club!). You could always sign up to an organised social, where you may meet many people from the area, and perhaps make a better impression face to face than via the Internet. It might be a little nerve wracking the first time, but what harm can having a coffee or a pint with a stranger really do? Good luck" --------- This should be a pinned post!  | |||
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"Hey you seem to really know your stuff. I'm very new to this platform. Could u do a similar analysis of my profile? I always seem to get interest but it always feels like they want something out of me. Like their doing me a favor or something. Like is it normal for people to demand cum tributes before meeting? I personally think they're gross. I'm not against having a bit of fun online but I just feel like I'm getting messed around a lot. If anyone could give me some advice it would be really appreciated." You don't need them to write it again. Everything they've said applies to you as well.. Pad out your profile. Take better pics. Send good messages. Take down that yuck profile status. | |||
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