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Where are the hot cheating husbands?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hate to say it but sleeping with other people’s husbands is a turn on .. We have so many married guys messaging us saying they’re getting no sex at home and are stuck in a loveless marriage. We used to politely pass because we did not want to be part of anyone else’s family dramas nor contribute to potentially upsetting someone’s wife when you’ve only heard one side of the story.
However, some of these married guys are just irresistible and it’s hard to see why their wive’s aren’t giving them head 24/7.. haha. One woman’s trash is another’s treasure! 
Where are all the hot married guys? x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hate to say it but sleeping with other people’s husbands is a turn on .. We have so many married guys messaging us saying they’re getting no sex at home and are stuck in a loveless marriage. We used to politely pass because we did not want to be part of anyone else’s family dramas nor contribute to potentially upsetting someone’s wife when you’ve only heard one side of the story.
However, some of these married guys are just irresistible and it’s hard to see why their wive’s aren’t giving them head 24/7.. haha. One woman’s trash is another’s treasure!
Where are all the hot married guys? x"
Inbox overload!... you'll need a admin team to handle it all! lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hate to say it but sleeping with other people’s husbands is a turn on .. We have so many married guys messaging us saying they’re getting no sex at home and are stuck in a loveless marriage. We used to politely pass because we did not want to be part of anyone else’s family dramas nor contribute to potentially upsetting someone’s wife when you’ve only heard one side of the story.
However, some of these married guys are just irresistible and it’s hard to see why their wive’s aren’t giving them head 24/7.. haha. One woman’s trash is another’s treasure!
Where are all the hot married guys? x
Inbox overload!... you'll need a admin team to handle it all! lol "
LOL 100% !!!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I should probably be more ashamed that I fit the bill but good morning anyway  "
With a body and cock like that, what’s her excuse for not working you overtime? Or maybe you’re just greedy like us |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You are one of the few that understands the dilemma some of us married men felt or in the situation we are in. Sexless at home and start to venture out and even discover bisexual sex. Lol"
Yes Bi sex is the best! In all seriousness it is hard for some guys to open up to their long-term partners about their turn-ons. We met a guy whose wife left him after 25 years of marriage because he wanted to be submissive and she was used to him playing the role of the alpha male in their lives. .. she just couldn’t accept it and found it too weird so she kicked him out 
Then he found us |
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"You are one of the few that understands the dilemma some of us married men felt or in the situation we are in. Sexless at home and start to venture out and even discover bisexual sex. Lol"
Same boat as me but glad I discovered the bi bit |
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It's not really that hard to see why their wife's aren't giving them any really when they spend their time chasing pussy, taking pics of their cock for anyone who'll look, acting off, attention elsewhere that should be on the wife.
It's hardly going to make her wanna drop her knickers is it.
Nothing sexier than being lied too
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This is a very fair point! .. there’s also something to be said for being a married guys bit on the side and dirty secret.. just something so horny about that.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Married 20 years no sex for the last 5 i tried everything but a man has needs i know its wrong i started out just looking for chat ( which i still am) this led to a bi experience which i enjoyed and will explore futher |
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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago
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I love this topic, I’m sure a good percentage of the men I’ve played with have a partner, I get the moral side but how can we effectively police it?! I’d never get to play if we always presumed them unavailable.
Part of me finds it a turn on that they go home to her thinking about me but sshhh don’t tell anyone, I don’t want the grief from the moral crowd. |
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"It's not really that hard to see why their wife's aren't giving them any really when they spend their time chasing pussy, taking pics of their cock for anyone who'll look, acting off, attention elsewhere that should be on the wife.
It's hardly going to make her wanna drop her knickers is it.
Nothing sexier than being lied too
Mrs "
Maybe if they put just as much effort into their marriages as they do on here things would be different |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
Problem is you're only hearing their side of the story, not the woman sat at home too.
Not every man who claims to be in a sexless marriage is.
Yes some are, but some are greedy and what to have their cake and eat it too.
I agree with Mrs Knight, it's no wonder some women go off sex with them when they're on sites like this trying to get people to hit on their wife or give her knickers to strangers or meeting men and women sometimes behind her back.
If you enjoy it though crack on and just be prepared for any consequences if the married man you're shagging gets caught. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I love this topic, I’m sure a good percentage of the men I’ve played with have a partner, I get the moral side but how can we effectively police it?! I’d never get to play if we always presumed them unavailable.
Part of me finds it a turn on that they go home to her thinking about me but sshhh don’t tell anyone, I don’t want the grief from the moral crowd."
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"I should probably be more ashamed that I fit the bill but good morning anyway
With a body and cock like that, what’s her excuse for not working you overtime? Or maybe you’re just greedy like us "
My thoughts exactly, would love to be a fly on the wall while you ride him  |
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By *andT2023Couple
over a year ago
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Its a dilemma ..i get it. But as we are married and sometimes play solo i feel a hypocrite for judging the single blokes. Its not a dating site ..i am not looking for a relationship or to cause family issues. Its supposed to be fun.
That said i dont want to be cited in proceedings |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not always about a sexless marriage, been with my Mrs 33 years, first child at 16, been together ever since, good marriage, treat her like a princess, but some of us have kinks that cannot be scratched at home, MMF MMMF MFF, nowing that she would never contemplate it and would seriously frown upon it, do we live without these fantasies or do we pursue them with other lovely people who understand? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not always about a sexless marriage, been with my Mrs 33 years, first child at 16, been together ever since, good marriage, treat her like a princess, but some of us have kinks that cannot be scratched at home, MMF MMMF MFF, nowing that she would never contemplate it and would seriously frown upon it, do we live without these fantasies or do we pursue them with other lovely people who understand? "
Some would prefer you’d suffer in silence, but not us! |
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We have quite a few friends, couples who are long term ...
Sadly the female quickly changes once settled in...eg sexless ... and actually changes as a person... those couples I can hand on heart say its the female that changed and the man is down trodden...
Mrs |
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"We have quite a few friends, couples who are long term ...
Sadly the female quickly changes once settled in...eg sexless ... and actually changes as a person... those couples I can hand on heart say its the female that changed and the man is down trodden...
Mrs "
If he wasn't downtrodden before they've both changed.
I think unless you are intimately involved in a relationship you have no idea what really goes on.
I've seen women change in relationships because the man wanted a substitute mother who would do all his emotional labour and tell him where his clean pants were. |
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By *ing00Man
over a year ago
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"Hate to say it but sleeping with other people’s husbands is a turn on .. We have so many married guys messaging us saying they’re getting no sex at home and are stuck in a loveless marriage. We used to politely pass because we did not want to be part of anyone else’s family dramas nor contribute to potentially upsetting someone’s wife when you’ve only heard one side of the story.
However, some of these married guys are just irresistible and it’s hard to see why their wive’s aren’t giving them head 24/7.. haha. One woman’s trash is another’s treasure!
Where are all the hot married guys? x"
Married guy here who'd love to have the pleasure of Greedy Girl's body if our paths ever cross and you'd like an older guy
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"We have quite a few friends, couples who are long term ...
Sadly the female quickly changes once settled in...eg sexless ... and actually changes as a person... those couples I can hand on heart say its the female that changed and the man is down trodden...
Mrs
If he wasn't downtrodden before they've both changed.
I think unless you are intimately involved in a relationship you have no idea what really goes on.
I've seen women change in relationships because the man wanted a substitute mother who would do all his emotional labour and tell him where his clean pants were."
Very true...but the 2 couples that spring to mind the female most definitely changed... I also don't condone cheating at all...
We've been together 27 years and worked at it...communication is the key  |
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"We have quite a few friends, couples who are long term ...
Sadly the female quickly changes once settled in...eg sexless ... and actually changes as a person... those couples I can hand on heart say its the female that changed and the man is down trodden...
Mrs
If he wasn't downtrodden before they've both changed.
I think unless you are intimately involved in a relationship you have no idea what really goes on.
I've seen women change in relationships because the man wanted a substitute mother who would do all his emotional labour and tell him where his clean pants were.
Very true...but the 2 couples that spring to mind the female most definitely changed... I also don't condone cheating at all...
We've been together 27 years and worked at it...communication is the key "
And always remembering your own families birthdays and where your clean pants are |
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Technically I’m still married but separated. My divorce should be finalised in the next month or so. However I didn’t join here until a few months after the separation and it wouldn’t seem right being on here if I was still in a relationship with my soon to be ex wife even if it was a sexless marriage.
I’d rather end an unhappy and unfulfilling marriage if we couldn’t work things out between us. I do get that individual peoples circumstances can be different and unique though so I hate to be judgmental. But for a married guy who’s still with his wife to be on here without her knowledge doesn’t sit right with me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Busy lying to their wives and focusing on looking their best to other people I'd think  "
Hmm indeed, and they’re always at the gym perving on other women .. (some of them are also really hot) |
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Interesting thread - differing sex drives and expectations here - I’m a kinky guy with a high sex drive she’s a once a month vanilla girl - in many ways fab has stopped me having an affair as it’s nsa… |
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"Hate to say it but sleeping with other people’s husbands is a turn on .. We have so many married guys messaging us saying they’re getting no sex at home and are stuck in a loveless marriage. We used to politely pass because we did not want to be part of anyone else’s family dramas nor contribute to potentially upsetting someone’s wife when you’ve only heard one side of the story.
Incoming inbox overload lol
However, some of these married guys are just irresistible and it’s hard to see why their wive’s aren’t giving them head 24/7.. haha. One woman’s trash is another’s treasure!
Where are all the hot married guys? x"
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It’s interesting as some people on this thread don’t have they are married on their profile 
And even more interesting is some have messaged us in the past and said they are no longer married/with partner.
K |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You are one of the few that understands the dilemma some of us married men felt or in the situation we are in. Sexless at home and start to venture out and even discover bisexual sex. Lol
Yes Bi sex is the best! In all seriousness it is hard for some guys to open up to their long-term partners about their turn-ons. We met a guy whose wife left him after 25 years of marriage because he wanted to be submissive and she was used to him playing the role of the alpha male in their lives. .. she just couldn’t accept it and found it too weird so she kicked him out
Then he found us "
Pity I'm just out of your age range.
Reasonably local and happy to please you both |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hate to say it but sleeping with other people’s husbands is a turn on .. We have so many married guys messaging us saying they’re getting no sex at home and are stuck in a loveless marriage. We used to politely pass because we did not want to be part of anyone else’s family dramas nor contribute to potentially upsetting someone’s wife when you’ve only heard one side of the story.
However, some of these married guys are just irresistible and it’s hard to see why their wive’s aren’t giving them head 24/7.. haha. One woman’s trash is another’s treasure!
Where are all the hot married guys? x"
One here not sure if hot or not lol
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By *andb13Couple
over a year ago
Bradford |
Happy for you to use my husband as you feel fit.
Xx
"Hate to say it but sleeping with other people’s husbands is a turn on .. We have so many married guys messaging us saying they’re getting no sex at home and are stuck in a loveless marriage. We used to politely pass because we did not want to be part of anyone else’s family dramas nor contribute to potentially upsetting someone’s wife when you’ve only heard one side of the story.
However, some of these married guys are just irresistible and it’s hard to see why their wive’s aren’t giving them head 24/7.. haha. One woman’s trash is another’s treasure!
Where are all the hot married guys? x"
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By *ebbie69Couple
over a year ago
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"Hate to say it but sleeping with other people’s husbands is a turn on .. We have so many married guys messaging us saying they’re getting no sex at home and are stuck in a loveless marriage. We used to politely pass because we did not want to be part of anyone else’s family dramas nor contribute to potentially upsetting someone’s wife when you’ve only heard one side of the story.
However, some of these married guys are just irresistible and it’s hard to see why their wive’s aren’t giving them head 24/7.. haha. One woman’s trash is another’s treasure!
Where are all the hot married guys? x"
Not sure if it's just me but I also find them far more reliable / less likely to not let you down last min. I also get the moral side but admit it is a turn on giving them what they want |
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In the same way that non-swingers wouldn’t necessarily approve of swinging, it is understandable that many don’t approve of married guys who are cheating. We all have different views and needs. I make my marital status clear on my profile accepting that it limits the opportunity to meet, but it is mainly to avoid wasting anyone’s time, and certainly wouldn’t message anyone who states on their profile that they don’t want contact from married people. |
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What camp do I fit into? Yes married but on here with wife’s awareness and sometimes discuss together.
I’m a switch, she’s sub and tries to switch but not her thing, so perfect ideal would be to find a domme for the bdsm part in me that I enjoy.
My wife also refuses to give bj, so again meeting a female who loves/enjoys/gave bj’s would be amazing and also I enjoy giving women oral too.
No not sexless marriage far from it, we almost explored swinging but started a family together and some health issues for wife impacted body confidence etc
And lastly curious enough to maybe explore curious side in right circumstances.
But back on topic, I don’t shy away from being married on my profile… Interesting debate topic though |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hate to say it but sleeping with other people’s husbands is a turn on .. We have so many married guys messaging us saying they’re getting no sex at home and are stuck in a loveless marriage. We used to politely pass because we did not want to be part of anyone else’s family dramas nor contribute to potentially upsetting someone’s wife when you’ve only heard one side of the story.
However, some of these married guys are just irresistible and it’s hard to see why their wive’s aren’t giving them head 24/7.. haha. One woman’s trash is another’s treasure!
Where are all the hot married guys? x
Not sure if it's just me but I also find them far more reliable / less likely to not let you down last min. I also get the moral side but admit it is a turn on giving them what they want"
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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago
Wirral |
"Hate to say it but sleeping with other people’s husbands is a turn on .. We have so many married guys messaging us saying they’re getting no sex at home and are stuck in a loveless marriage. We used to politely pass because we did not want to be part of anyone else’s family dramas nor contribute to potentially upsetting someone’s wife when you’ve only heard one side of the story.
However, some of these married guys are just irresistible and it’s hard to see why their wive’s aren’t giving them head 24/7.. haha. One woman’s trash is another’s treasure!
Where are all the hot married guys? x"
That's actually quite hot
Tom, |
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By *TaR105Man
over a year ago
Birkenhead |
"I love this topic, I’m sure a good percentage of the men I’ve played with have a partner, I get the moral side but how can we effectively police it?! I’d never get to play if we always presumed them unavailable.
Part of me finds it a turn on that they go home to her thinking about me but sshhh don’t tell anyone, I don’t want the grief from the moral crowd."
Stunning profile, very hot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've decided that I can live with a sexless marriage but not a sexless life."
Oh this is a great reply - thinks it sums up a few people’s views on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Divorced 6 years but was in a marriage with bad / no sex for years.
My personal female perspective is that if my ex did more of his share of the chores, life admin, looking after kids etc we would have had more sex! I was both exhausted and resentful and so had no interest in sex with him. Plus it all got too routine - there was never any variety or effort, no flowers, no sexy lingerie, no compliments. Plus he just watched tv to late rather than come to bed!
I actually wouldn’t have minded if he had an affair as long as he kept it well under wraps and it didn’t affect the family life because I sure as hell didn’t want to touch him
BUT, that said, while divorce sucks it’s far better than being unhappily married - plus now I get to have absolutely amazing sex with people I genuinely like!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And to add. I don’t play with married men. I don’t judge because I genuinely do know what a sexless marriage is like as above.
But I don’t like sneaking around and not for example being able to text when I want, and for me consent is the absolute golden rule in kink - and an unknowing wife does not consent to being cheated on. Plus, not taking the risk of getting feelings for a married guy! So, despite how sexy - I avoid |
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By *nlyessexCouple
over a year ago
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"And to add. I don’t play with married men. I don’t judge because I genuinely do know what a sexless marriage is like as above.
But I don’t like sneaking around and not for example being able to text when I want, and for me consent is the absolute golden rule in kink - and an unknowing wife does not consent to being cheated on. Plus, not taking the risk of getting feelings for a married guy! So, despite how sexy - I avoid"
Well put |
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"You are one of the few that understands the dilemma some of us married men felt or in the situation we are in. Sexless at home and start to venture out and even discover bisexual sex. Lol
Same boat as me but glad I discovered the bi bit "
Same as myself loving it |
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"Hiii just don’t tell my husband. Shhhh 
Why might your husband DM the op to say he is available?
Lol"
Well no because I the wife want to be the cheating husband pretty sure I read bi in the profile |
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A) There are plenty of men meeting undercover on here, especially with women who say they would never meet an attached man and then blatantly do.
B) A guy on here pretended to be married so that I would meet him?! Back in the days when I was happily single and didn’t want anyone trying to start something significant with me.. bizarre to say the least
C)I think you can differentiate love from sex so I’d be happy to farm out the sex element if everything else was fine in the relationship. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would it be immoral to pretend I'm married, to get a liaison with people that are attracted to people that are married (even though I'm not married..)
It's a multi levelled delemna.. |
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"Re Correction - Check out my fwb Kate28
Something we are interested in.
Her new profile
She said id put it wrong then relised i hadnt .
We are in the NW!
FFS"
Unfortunately I’m outside your age preferences but I’m sure you’ll have no trouble attracting interest. |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"It's not really that hard to see why their wife's aren't giving them any really when they spend their time chasing pussy, taking pics of their cock for anyone who'll look, acting off, attention elsewhere that should be on the wife.
It's hardly going to make her wanna drop her knickers is it.
Nothing sexier than being lied too
Mrs "
How very judgmental of you! Give your head a wobble! |
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We're in the same boat. Got a load of guys messaging us in similar positions.
Morally, cheating is wrong but also We're all human.
And if they're prepared to cheat and potentially screw up their marriage/house/kids/life et al if caught for probably a one night thing then that's surely on them to make that judgement to do so?
As a friend used to say "it's a them problem not a you problem". |
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