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By *heelz69 OP Man 46 weeks ago
Manchester |
So I'm ready for my 1st meet tomorrow with a woman off here, been talking for weeks, and then I get I don't think it's a good idea to see me!
Now I understand why everyone gets pissed off with time wasters and fake! |
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By (user no longer on site) 46 weeks ago
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"As annoying as it is, no one is obliged to meet someone even talking for weeks. "
… Or months. People are allowed to make their choices op, it’s a free world. It’s nice for someone to let you know, take that as a way to know you chose someone genuine and nice to talk to.  |
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By *rpeggioCouple 46 weeks ago
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"Oh yeah I understand that people have the right to change their mind, it's just frustrating "
Yes, agreed it must be frustrating. It does not mean however that the profile is a fake. If you have evidence of it, then report. If you have strong suspicions but no evidence you should have seen this coming if you have chatted for weeks with this person, so it's a bit on you to have kept it going on the slim chance she was genuine. If you did not have suspicions at all, then understand that genuine people can change their mind, so it's unfair to call her time waster or fake. |
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By (user no longer on site) 46 weeks ago
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"So I'm ready for my 1st meet tomorrow with a woman off here, been talking for weeks, and then I get I don't think it's a good idea to see me!
Now I understand why everyone gets pissed off with time wasters and fake!"
Someone she's more into turned up on her radar. Move on. And, when you find someone reliable treat her well. |
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"So I'm ready for my 1st meet tomorrow with a woman off here, been talking for weeks, and then I get I don't think it's a good idea to see me!
Now I understand why everyone gets pissed off with time wasters and fake!"
Hey OP
Sorry you have had someone change their mind. Doesn't mean they are a time waster or a fake though- just simply means they changed their mind - which we're all aware is completely fine and acceptable.
At least she let you know rather than just ghosting you or not turning up.
S xxx |
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By *heelz69 OP Man 46 weeks ago
Manchester |
"So I'm ready for my 1st meet tomorrow with a woman off here, been talking for weeks, and then I get I don't think it's a good idea to see me!
Now I understand why everyone gets pissed off with time wasters and fake!
Yeah I don't think it's a fake and probably not a time waster, I was just saying I know how people feel about that
Hey OP
Sorry you have had someone change their mind. Doesn't mean they are a time waster or a fake though- just simply means they changed their mind - which we're all aware is completely fine and acceptable.
At least she let you know rather than just ghosting you or not turning up.
S xxx"
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By (user no longer on site) 46 weeks ago
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"So I'm ready for my 1st meet tomorrow with a woman off here, been talking for weeks, and then I get I don't think it's a good idea to see me!
Now I understand why everyone gets pissed off with time wasters and fake!"
what did you say when she said that ? |
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By *heelz69 OP Man 46 weeks ago
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"So I'm ready for my 1st meet tomorrow with a woman off here, been talking for weeks, and then I get I don't think it's a good idea to see me!
Now I understand why everyone gets pissed off with time wasters and fake!what did you say when she said that ?"
Not really much I could say, I just ok thanks, I wasn't going to get into arguing or insulting her. |
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"So I'm ready for my 1st meet tomorrow with a woman off here, been talking for weeks, and then I get I don't think it's a good idea to see me!
Now I understand why everyone gets pissed off with time wasters and fake!"
Keep your chin up OP, everything happens for a reason, maybe she will get back in touch, keep the faith  |
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"So I'm ready for my 1st meet tomorrow with a woman off here, been talking for weeks, and then I get I don't think it's a good idea to see me!
Now I understand why everyone gets pissed off with time wasters and fake!"
I haven't read the other replies but in my opinion this isn't time-wasting it's simply a change of mind.
If you had turned up and she didn't, that would be a waste of time.
I think you maybe need to reevaluate your expectations, as you sound very entitled. A conversation or initial agreement to meet doesn't guarantee it will happen. People are allowed to change their minds.
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