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Acceptable distance to a meet
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only you can decide... cost and inconvenience of travel x time and experience (pleasure)
helpful hahaha"
Some will say 20 mins, some 2 hours - some 10 miles, some 300 miles ... I don't see how that will help you to decide??
Generally i travel 1.5-3 hours. Did that help you?? No right. |
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For a good club event, I’d be willing to travel a few hours as I know it’ll be worth my while. A meet on the other hand, probably an hour tops if we were to be meeting for the first time outside of a club/party setting but that’s not a hard and fast rule |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
As midnight says it varies from person to person.
I'd only meet people local to me, I wouldn't go too far for what would only be a social anyway.
Theres loads of threads where people have traveled a fair way and being stood up. So it's for you to decide what risk you'll take for someone you've not met before. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've driven for about an hour and 15 mins for a meet and the same again coming home on the same evening. Was worth it.
An hour or so is probably sensible we'd say but everyone's different. It also depends on if you've arranged a meet near somewhere you were going to travel to for something else anyway. |
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As I prefer regular to one-offs, I don't want anyone having to travel for more than an hour to get to me. Anything more and there is an expectation I'd accommodate them overnight and that's not what I am happy to do, not after some disasters in the past. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on how much you can afford and what kind of life/job you have. I have a fairly flexible job and can easily afford to travel to Nottingham or Manchester at least once a month to meet women/couples. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Presume these people who say 'distance is no object for the right person' have unlimited free time and funds.  "
Not unlimited, but able to make arrangements. |
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"Presume these people who say 'distance is no object for the right person' have unlimited free time and funds. "
Think it also comes down to the number of potential suitors who are local to someone. Not everyone has the privilege of having people who fit what they’re looking for located closer to home. For some, those individual/s are further afield |
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