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Biggest turn on and turns off about fab profiles.
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Some profiles are top tier, very horny and the content (text, pics and vids) just hit the mark and get you interested to fab pics, wink or message.
Some profiles are exactly the opposite and have you skipping straight on or blocking.
What does and doesn’t do it for you?
Personally any profile that includes negativity is a big red flag for me. “Full of time wasters this site”, “This site is shit at the minute” etc…
I find profiles with decent pics and clear descriptions of what turns them on much more useful and attractive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unfortunately I have a lot of turn offs.
If people write “mmmm” somewhere on their profile it puts me off. If the words “play” or “fun” are there it turns me off. Also if someone writes something along the lines of being “up for everything” or “no limits” or something like that, it also puts me off. |
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Horribly blurry or dark photos.
Photos that have a full girl, body n’ all, but just the top of a cock on a single guy’s profile.
Empty profile text.
Default profile photo and zero other photos, yet a message asking if we wanna meet today. lol.
Just lazy fucking profiles really. |
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Bad grammar, pictures of just pussy and cock. Pics of just the woman only and none of the guy suggest he has something to hide. Angry profiles. Negativity. Profile with loads of verifications showing they’ve slept with half the population. |
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"Bad grammar, pictures of just pussy and cock. Pics of just the woman only and none of the guy suggest he has something to hide. Angry profiles. Negativity. Profile with loads of verifications showing they’ve slept with half the population. "
Your opinion about loads of verifications is a little bit odd to us (we have a fair few). It’s not an indication of safety. Many profiles with very few verifications are going to be people playing unsafe, and it is a swinging site, so surely the amount isn’t the issue, but how they go about it. Also, not all verifications will be for people they’ve fucked, but many will be people they’ve met at clubs and had chats with or have seen on cam etc. I understand different people have different opinions, but when you break it down like I just did, there’s obviously a lot more subtlety to the nature of “number of veris”.
But if that’s an issue for you, that’s fair and your own opinion. Just think it’s probably less black and white than bad photos or empty profiles etc.  |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
Blank profiles where there's no pics and not much text are an instant delete from me.
Same if it's just cock pics as it gives me no idea of that person, other than they like their pecker
I like profiles that tell me a bit about them, what they like and offer. With some pics that tease, but leave a bit to the imagination. |
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Turn offs
Shouty
Pity party- no one will want me or negative slant- this site is rubbish but…
Excessive use of hahaha
Poorly written per se
Long list of conditions (send me a face pic immediately, tell me your inside leg measurement etc) yet their profile has bugger all in
“I’ll fill it in later” - if you can’t be bothered writing, why should i mesaage
Turn ons
Tells us something about what you like and who you are
Tasteful photos (not endless cock or gynecology )
Tidy photos (put the bloody washing away at least!)
Clarity around expectations
A sense you wont hook up with the whole site just for the sake of it
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"Turn offs
Shouty
Pity party- no one will want me or negative slant- this site is rubbish but…
Excessive use of hahaha
Poorly written per se
Long list of conditions (send me a face pic immediately, tell me your inside leg measurement etc) yet their profile has bugger all in
“I’ll fill it in later” - if you can’t be bothered writing, why should i mesaage" -
Agreed all of these.
Plus vag pictures with close up inserts of veg ect
Anyone who writes 'mmmmmm'
Bull, alpha, dom, daddy/mummy, princess, milf/dilf ect ect
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Couples with no men pics on the profile, and men that just have their cock in every pic."
I mean as a female searching. I like to see both of the couple. |
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A well written profile, actual face pics instead of cock shots! And a half decent opening message will get our attention.
If there's no pics, minimal text and an unimaginative message we just delete and move on |
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"I don't bite, unless you want me to"
Daddy, Dom, Bull, Viking, BBC, BWC turn me right off
"Will fill in later" when they've been a member for over a year
Whining about how hard it is to get laid
No photos
Blurry/dark photos. I take all my photos myself with my mobile phone, it's easy, so I don't understand how the hell you get photos that dark and blurry and they say it's the best they can do?
Spunk covered dicks and pussies.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can be the hottest thing here, but your status will probably retract my dick deep inside of me!
Also, Faceache style profiles/writing.
If your home is a shit hole, you don’t need to be rich to clean! |
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Love intriguing profiles which is full of sexy pics and a good detailed profile.
Hate profiles with nothing in, blank avatars, dick pics and ones that say I don’t know what to say…if you can’t sell yourself then no one else can! 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We like profiles that tell us a little about themselves and what they're looking for. And have public pics that are not too graphic and leave a little to the imagination.
We don't like profiles who :
State fill in later- especially when they've been on for quite some time. Makes you wonder how much effort they will put into a meet.
Have no public or profile pics - you don't need to show your face if you need to be discreet. We don't show our faces but still have pics.
Who use the words: owned, daddy, slut - each to their own but not our thing.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""I don't bite, unless you want me to"
Daddy, Dom, Bull, Viking, BBC, BWC turn me right off
"Will fill in later" when they've been a member for over a year
Whining about how hard it is to get laid
No photos
Blurry/dark photos. I take all my photos myself with my mobile phone, it's easy, so I don't understand how the hell you get photos that dark and blurry and they say it's the best they can do?
Spunk covered dicks and pussies.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't like overly negative profiles. Empty profiles I usually don't bother with either.
I like to read about what people are into. If it's a bit funny or quirky, definitely makes me more curious. |
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"Personally any profile that includes negativity is a big red flag for me. “Full of time wasters this site”, “This site is shit at the minute” etc…"
Ive just read that and totally changed the profile on account of it... I guess I had let some of the idiots and time wasters influence me more than I should have.  |
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By *J_OuizziCouple
over a year ago
Nottingham |
We like
Profiles that have had a bit of thought put into them, that say what the person/couple are into and what they are looking for.
Well taken photos highlighting different body parts.
Photos of both the man and woman in a couples profile.
We don't like
Empty profiles
Dick pics
Dick pics over toilets
Couples where it is just the woman
Dishonesty - straight on the profile, bi in the DMs. |
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First off, is when they have no Photo's as never been interested in Ghosts. Skipped through many that might have photo's but no Profile photo. Just my thing but no need for not having photo's.
For me, I like to read a little about who they are and what experience in swinging etc they have, even if it's very little. What their interests in the Swinging game they are looking for and they type of people they are looking for. But not pages of information, maybe about 20 lines or so. Definitely avoid any with negative information as that is just a big watch out lol.
Photos. I really find all the posing pics are extremely boring. Photo's should be showing what they are sexually looking for i.e. sexually and with other people if that's what they are looking for.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Turn off: Will fill later on profiles that have been here for over a year, Meet now status, whiney status too many cock pics and very graphic pics: too much self praise eg I can go all night.
Turn on: bit of humour in their profile, artistic pics, half clothed pics, open shirt, open jeans, wet shirt, boxers  |
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Rubbish photos are a puzzle to me. Pics that are blurry or hide more than they show and make it nigh on impossible to form a mental picture of the person (or for my kink their cock) to figure out if they’re your type. Given how easy it is to take a photo I just tend to assume they indicate an insecurity and lack of confidence and ignore as that’s just not attractive to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Turn off: Will fill later on profiles that have been here for over a year, Meet now status, whiney status too many cock pics and very graphic pics: too much self praise eg I can go all night.
Turn on: bit of humour in their profile, artistic pics, half clothed pics, open shirt, open jeans, wet shirt, boxers "
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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire/Northwest |
The following puts us off
Ones that have the sydney University rubbish (as if anyone on here would really go to court to try and enforce that)
Ones where they SHOUT
Dirty backgrounds or dirty nails in pictures
Ones with lots of text speak
No cock pics
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By *orelloCouple
over a year ago
Hitchin |
Starting with profile there are buzz words people use that we find dull. Telling us they're a fun loving couple, happily married, been away for a bit, or that they have sooo many messages
Decent clear photos.
Rather less text, ultimately you can get the gist as soon as we chat |
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By *hMeOhMyOhCouple
over a year ago
Gloucestershire |
"Starting with profile there are buzz words people use that we find dull. Telling us they're a fun loving couple, happily married, been away for a bit, or that they have sooo many messages
Decent clear photos.
Rather less text, ultimately you can get the gist as soon as we chat"
Know what you mean. Naughty, fun and play, too many and  … but then we’re as guilty as anyone else. They’re not easy to replace without writing reams… and no one wants that!  |
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"Bad grammar, pictures of just pussy and cock. Pics of just the woman only and none of the guy suggest he has something to hide. Angry profiles. Negativity. Profile with loads of verifications showing they’ve slept with half the population.
Your opinion about loads of verifications is a little bit odd to us (we have a fair few). It’s not an indication of safety. Many profiles with very few verifications are going to be people playing unsafe, and it is a swinging site, so surely the amount isn’t the issue, but how they go about it. Also, not all verifications will be for people they’ve fucked, but many will be people they’ve met at clubs and had chats with or have seen on cam etc. I understand different people have different opinions, but when you break it down like I just did, there’s obviously a lot more subtlety to the nature of “number of veris”.
But if that’s an issue for you, that’s fair and your own opinion. Just think it’s probably less black and white than bad photos or empty profiles etc. "
I agree ?? ?? % we have 4 verifications I think and yet we have touched any of them there just people who verified us from talking to at club ! |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
somerset |
the ones that have seeked advice via the forums you can tell most are just the same boring crap ...
porn script profiles
sexist / racist profiles
profile who daily statu are constantly moaning
those who name n shames
those who think only their own opinion is correct
bullies
arty n farty pics ..why i just dont get it its like your trying to hide something people just need to see you so they can see if they like you or not...
uniform pics again why work pics gym pics pic where the woman you have your arm around has been blanked out |
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