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"hi thanks for the reply ill was it the images?" Yes get rid of the middle picture as its difficult to see what it is, get a nice bum one up instead   | |||
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"Ok. Pics? Not great. Profile text? All about your 'size' and comes across as arrogant. What you're looking for? Needs padding out as is bland. And that little green arrow takes folk to your most recent 35 forum post contributions so some may be put off by things such as your fascination with pregnant women. Oh - and you have a green tick but no visible veri's. some may be suspicious of this and many like to see feedback from previous meets - although by your post and previous ones I'm guessing it may be a webcam veri. Good luck - and take on board the advice of others - it's worth it!"  | |||
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"You're profile says even less now fella so worse in my book" OP, you've actualy made a bad profile worse. | |||
"But you have already done this, surely if you listened to what people said the last time and done what they suggested, you should be doing well?" Why should he do what other people say? If he writes a profile and puts pictures up, exactly to your specifications, will you meet him - chances are you wouldn't. Too much emphasis is placed on having a brilliantly written funny profile with captivating pictures. That person has to rely on their own personality to interact on messages and on the actual meet, all us forum lot won't be there to advise then. I truly believe that it is down to the individual how they portray themselves and how they conduct themselves. They can't turn themselves into something they are not.  | |||
"Why should he do what other people say? " Because he has asked for people to give advice and criticise his profile. If he wants to take the advice or not it is up to him, if he wants to scour last months "help what's wrong with my profile thread" and learn something then good for him. But going by his profile it looks as he hasn't taken any of the advice on board The same advice comes up on everyone of these help me threads Loose the cock photos Tell people what you are after Tell people what you can give Don't be arrogant Go to social events | |||
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"You're profile says even less now fella so worse in my book OP, you've actualy made a bad profile worse. "Oh crap lol | |||
"Two cock pics, minimalist, dull profile. I haven't a clue why it's not working for you. " | |||
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"But you have already done this, surely if you listened to what people said the last time and done what they suggested, you should be doing well? Why should he do what other people say? If he writes a profile and puts pictures up, exactly to your specifications, will you meet him - chances are you wouldn't. Too much emphasis is placed on having a brilliantly written funny profile with captivating pictures. That person has to rely on their own personality to interact on messages and on the actual meet, all us forum lot won't be there to advise then. I truly believe that it is down to the individual how they portray themselves and how they conduct themselves. They can't turn themselves into something they are not. "Except I asked as a question as I knew he had asked before but didn't know what his profile had originally said. I wasn't asking him to write his profile exactly to MY specifications as he is far too young for me so it makes no odds to me. Surely emphasis needs to be placed on a profile with captivating pictures? How would we attract people if we didn't, hide in a dark corner and lasso them | |||
"But you have already done this, surely if you listened to what people said the last time and done what they suggested, you should be doing well? Many thanks Why should he do what other people say? If he writes a profile and puts pictures up, exactly to your specifications, will you meet him - chances are you wouldn't. Too much emphasis is placed on having a brilliantly written funny profile with captivating pictures. That person has to rely on their own personality to interact on messages and on the actual meet, all us forum lot won't be there to advise then. I truly believe that it is down to the individual how they portray themselves and how they conduct themselves. They can't turn themselves into something they are not.
Except I asked as a question as I knew he had asked before but didn't know what his profile had originally said.
I wasn't asking him to write his profile exactly to MY specifications as he is far too young for me so it makes no odds to me.
Surely emphasis needs to be placed on a profile with captivating pictures? How would we attract people if we didn't, hide in a dark corner and lasso them " | |||
"But you have already done this, surely if you listened to what people said the last time and done what they suggested, you should be doing well? Why should he do what other people say? If he writes a profile and puts pictures up, exactly to your specifications, will you meet him - chances are you wouldn't. Too much emphasis is placed on having a brilliantly written funny profile with captivating pictures. That person has to rely on their own personality to interact on messages and on the actual meet, all us forum lot won't be there to advise then. I truly believe that it is down to the individual how they portray themselves and how they conduct themselves. They can't turn themselves into something they are not.
Except I asked as a question as I knew he had asked before but didn't know what his profile had originally said.
I wasn't asking him to write his profile exactly to MY specifications as he is far too young for me so it makes no odds to me.
Surely emphasis needs to be placed on a profile with captivating pictures? How would we attract people if we didn't, hide in a dark corner and lasso them "Not everyone is interested in captivating photographs. Pictures do not secure anyone a meet on their merit alone. You are simply putting your own emphasis on it, and tha( will not be the same as others. I could help out this young gentleman. I could rewrite his profile, meet him and take some captivating pictures, edit and polish them into something which would be quirky and eyecatching. I would be placing my own stamp on his profile, and his profile should be individual to him, his own thoughts, his own pics and poses of what he wants. The OP clearly has asked the questions before, seems like he's got himself in a bit of turmoil over what is the right or wrong thing to pout on his profile. My advice is always very base on this, be yourself. You don't need to be a great writer, a brilliant photographer, the worlds funniest entertainer, to get a meet. You simply have to put together a few paragraphs describing what you are, what your looking for, where you like to meet, who you want to meet, and a picture or so, if you wish, of whatever you want. Presenting an accurate portrayal of what you are is the best possible way. Join in with threads on the forum, socials and clubs are the easiest to meet people with. The OP on this thread comes across as a nice, pleasant little chap which is more positive than any profile could portray | |||
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"Nothing but helpful information, I'm in no rush - rather get everything write first so people get an accurate picture. My main issue is I'm a terrible writer lol. " What everyone else I agree with. Also how about putting a face pic up on public. Cant see profile pic very well. | |||
"But you have already done this, surely if you listened to what people said the last time and done what they suggested, you should be doing well? Why should he do what other people say? If he writes a profile and puts pictures up, exactly to your specifications, will you meet him - chances are you wouldn't. Too much emphasis is placed on having a brilliantly written funny profile with captivating pictures. That person has to rely on their own personality to interact on messages and on the actual meet, all us forum lot won't be there to advise then. I truly believe that it is down to the individual how they portray themselves and how they conduct themselves. They can't turn themselves into something they are not.
Except I asked as a question as I knew he had asked before but didn't know what his profile had originally said.
I wasn't asking him to write his profile exactly to MY specifications as he is far too young for me so it makes no odds to me.
Surely emphasis needs to be placed on a profile with captivating pictures? How would we attract people if we didn't, hide in a dark corner and lasso them
Not everyone is interested in captivating photographs. Pictures do not secure anyone a meet on their merit alone. You are simply putting your own emphasis on it, and tha( will not be the same as others.
I could help out this young gentleman. I could rewrite his profile, meet him and take some captivating pictures, edit and polish them into something which would be quirky and eyecatching. I would be placing my own stamp on his profile, and his profile should be individual to him, his own thoughts, his own pics and poses of what he wants.
The OP clearly has asked the questions before, seems like he's got himself in a bit of turmoil over what is the right or wrong thing to pout on his profile. My advice is always very base on this, be yourself. You don't need to be a great writer, a brilliant photographer, the worlds funniest entertainer, to get a meet. You simply have to put together a few paragraphs describing what you are, what your looking for, where you like to meet, who you want to meet, and a picture or so, if you wish, of whatever you want.
Presenting an accurate portrayal of what you are is the best possible way. Join in with threads on the forum, socials and clubs are the easiest to meet people with. The OP on this thread comes across as a nice, pleasant little chap which is more positive than any profile could portray "I would agree with all that, and yes he does come across as a pleasant young man on all his threads, nothing anyone says, not that I have seen anyway, phase him at all which is good | |||
"Great advice all - its work in progress - re wrote some stuff (im shocking at writing lol) next stop a bum pic and see how this pans out. Sadly dont drive so can not get to a club" We dont have a car at the moment (no need for it, doing my bit for the environment and taken it off the road  ) and we still manage to go to clubs.
Car share, taxi share, public transport etc etc. | |||
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"Great advice all - its work in progress - re wrote some stuff (im shocking at writing lol) next stop a bum pic and see how this pans out. Sadly dont drive so can not get to a club" id say go away with all the advise u have been given on all your previous posts and this one, work on it for a few days, and come back with nothing changed, and ask us all again in another post yep do that i think and u will be on to a winner | |||
"Great advice all - its work in progress - re wrote some stuff (im shocking at writing lol) next stop a bum pic and see how this pans out. Sadly dont drive so can not get to a clubid say go away with all the advise u have been given on all your previous posts and this one, work on it for a few days, and come back with nothing changed, and ask us all again in another post yep do that i think and u will be on to a winner " | |||
"I think that's a uber skilful idea! Ill get onto it in a bit - thanks pal Great advice all - its work in progress - re wrote some stuff (im shocking at writing lol) next stop a bum pic and see how this pans out. Sadly dont drive so can not get to a clubid say go away with all the advise u have been given on all your previous posts and this one, work on it for a few days, and come back with nothing changed, and ask us all again in another post yep do that i think and u will be on to a winner " | |||
