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By *iasubTV/TS 49 weeks ago
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"Yes. I have two. Different profiles of submission. No two subs are the same. Communication is vital."
Exactly this! So many people expect subs to be the same and want the same things and its really far from the truth |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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"Yes. I have two. Different profiles of submission. No two subs are the same. Communication is vital.
Exactly this! So many people expect subs to be the same and want the same things and its really far from the truth "
It takes time, patience and lots of communication and aftercare. |
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Of course. But what many men don't get (because it's pretty much always men looking for a sub, any old sub will do) is that the submission often comes with trust. A D/s relationship, even if it's 'only' sexual, requires developing over time, nurturing and trust building. There's very few (mentally healthy and well) women that will be open to submitting sexually to someone they barely know. |
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"Of course. But what many men don't get (because it's pretty much always men looking for a sub, any old sub will do) is that the submission often comes with trust. A D/s relationship, even if it's 'only' sexual, requires developing over time, nurturing and trust building. There's very few (mentally healthy and well) women that will be open to submitting sexually to someone they barely know. "
Absolutely. It's about trust and the sub is actually in control. |
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