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By (user no longer on site) OP 49 weeks ago
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Can you help a discussion please
Mr is oral with guys but no anal or kissing, I describe myself as bi but somewhere in between curious and bi sexual ( labels, hate them )
Mrs dd fell out with me as a guy asked are you more than curious , I said yeah but mrs dd thinks I should describe myself as curious as don’t do anal or kissing
Thoughts and advice , constructive only please |
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"Can you help a discussion please
Mr is oral with guys but no anal or kissing, I describe myself as bi but somewhere in between curious and bi sexual ( labels, hate them )
Mrs dd fell out with me as a guy asked are you more than curious , I said yeah but mrs dd thinks I should describe myself as curious as don’t do anal or kissing
Thoughts and advice , constructive only please "
I would definitely say you're bi curious and I would identify as bi curious, if you say that you're bi I think people guys would assume that you're up for full sex with a man.
I'm bi curious because I'm yet to have done anything with a man, but really wanting to try sucking a cock  |
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"Can you help a discussion please
Mr is oral with guys but no anal or kissing, I describe myself as bi but somewhere in between curious and bi sexual ( labels, hate them )
Mrs dd fell out with me as a guy asked are you more than curious , I said yeah but mrs dd thinks I should describe myself as curious as don’t do anal or kissing
Thoughts and advice , constructive only please "
Depends if he is attracted to men I guess, I love sucking cock, but I'm not attracted to men, just the cock so what am I?  |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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I’m bisexual and happy to play with women however they want
The decision was easy to put on my profile
To me curious would mean occasionally rather then seeking it as a priority |
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I’m my experience , on a couples profile my ex and I got lot more interest if I was bi curious than straight as she was bisexual .
Now I find bi curious on a male profile means no experience on a couple profile it’s about what the individual likes . But even bisexual might mean only receive as the person is sub.
And of course both male and females might like anal x
Now I’ve confused my self “ no labels is correct “ x
Personally I love kissing so makes no odds to me x |
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"Can you help a discussion please
Mr is oral with guys but no anal or kissing, I describe myself as bi but somewhere in between curious and bi sexual ( labels, hate them )
Mrs dd fell out with me as a guy asked are you more than curious , I said yeah but mrs dd thinks I should describe myself as curious as don’t do anal or kissing
Thoughts and advice , constructive only please
Depends if he is attracted to men I guess, I love sucking cock, but I'm not attracted to men, just the cock so what am I? "
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"Can you help a discussion please
Mr is oral with guys but no anal or kissing, I describe myself as bi but somewhere in between curious and bi sexual ( labels, hate them )
Mrs dd fell out with me as a guy asked are you more than curious , I said yeah but mrs dd thinks I should describe myself as curious as don’t do anal or kissing
Thoughts and advice , constructive only please "
I really wouldn’t worry about the specific term. Find people here that Tom think excite yoh and chat with them about what you both enjoy, and want to explore.
That’s all part of the fun and will help you get to know prospective playmates. |
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By *rpeggioCouple 49 weeks ago
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If a priest has never had sex before but he has sexual fantasies... Is he heterosexual? Homosexual? Bisexual?
To answer that you'll be asking perhaps... Who does he fantasised about?
You are what you enjoy and arouses you. |
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By *ob357Man 49 weeks ago
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Is he having fun?? Then who cares about labels.
I don’t know what I am until the situation presents itself. I 100# prefer females but every threesome I’ve had so far I’ve got so carried away I’ve licked, sucked and f@@ked whoever is in the room  |
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By *llSexMan 49 weeks ago
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"Can you help a discussion please
Mr is oral with guys but no anal or kissing, I describe myself as bi but somewhere in between curious and bi sexual ( labels, hate them )
Mrs dd fell out with me as a guy asked are you more than curious , I said yeah but mrs dd thinks I should describe myself as curious as don’t do anal or kissing
Thoughts and advice , constructive only please "
I describe myself as Bisexual. I enjoy veried play with both men and women. I used the lable bi curious at a time When I used to Fantasise about play with others.
Enjoy being yourself and the style of play you like.
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"Can you help a discussion please
Mr is oral with guys but no anal or kissing, I describe myself as bi but somewhere in between curious and bi sexual ( labels, hate them )
Mrs dd fell out with me as a guy asked are you more than curious , I said yeah but mrs dd thinks I should describe myself as curious as don’t do anal or kissing
Thoughts and advice , constructive only please "
I'm the same.Guys blow me and I've done the same but never had ,want or do anal with males!. Just oral,don't want to do anything else!.
Peace and love to all. |
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"Can you help a discussion please
Mr is oral with guys but no anal or kissing, I describe myself as bi but somewhere in between curious and bi sexual ( labels, hate them )
Mrs dd fell out with me as a guy asked are you more than curious , I said yeah but mrs dd thinks I should describe myself as curious as don’t do anal or kissing
Thoughts and advice , constructive only please "
You sound similar to me I would say your bi x |
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"Curious - unsure if you like it and are curious to try.
If you've tried it and liked it I'd say your no longer curious.
As far as labels go.... Maybe hetro flexible fits you a little better.
Mrs "
I know that I'm extremely curious, and I'm really wanting to try sucking my 1st cock in a bi mmf! The reason why I want to try a bi mmf, isn't to get to the female like some people think/do.
I just think it would take the pressure off sucking a cock, but I'm more than willing to not touch the woman, and if I don't like sucking I can just watch them have sex if they want |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 49 weeks ago
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Thanks for all your positive comments
Glad no keyboard warriors jumped in
So with me ( MR) having been orally bi and that only, which of course Mrs DD knows about ( have shared a few in clubs )
The discussion we had was about MR Saying I am curious on the profile !
I now identify myself as “ hete exibilty” ( hope I’m not labelled now )
Thanks again for the input all you
Mr bi friendly hetexible friend |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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"If you have sucked a dick more than once and continue to seek sucking dick then you are bisexual, not all gay or bi men take it up the arse. "
This! There are other ways to describe your bisexuality, such as Top, Versatile or Bottom |
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You'll find there's different interpretations of what bisexual actually is op.
I don't think it matters if you put bi curious or bi sexual, as long as you're upfront with those you plan to meet.
Jack can be orally bi with the right couple, but doesn't actively look for it, so we have him as bi curious and just explain that in our profile. |
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As has been said above, labels are pointless.
Mr. enjoys oral and anal both ways, although he doesn't enjoy kissing and is not interested in a relationship with a man. So in our mind it's curious
Mrs also enjoys fun with other females when the mood takes but no interest in a relationship.
Hard to categorise.
Just have fun and go with what feels right |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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When profile was created o was bi-curious. Never had an experience with a woman but always wanted to try. Partner and i set up our couples profile again described myself as bi-curious.
After my first FMF i changed my status to bisexual as i knew then 100% i am attracted to both male and female. The curiousness had gone. I am bi-sexual x
I know i wont be in a relationship with a female but, given the opportunity will play with a female again as i really enjoyed the experience and want to continue experimenting.
Not into labels but i believe my profile, single or couples, should fully explain my sexual orientation. X |
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I don't find blokes attractive, no interest in arse play but really love sucking and wanking a nice cock and I do kiss.
I'm definitely not curious anymore. It has put some people off, it has made some people interested.
Best way is to have no labels
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Well a good question and answers can range. If you can self gender why can't you be just bi-curious sucking or having you cock sucked.
But a dictionary might say:
Is bisexual not a person who is sexually or romantically attracted to both men & woman, or to more than one sex.
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I avoid bi curious ladies because to me it means they haven't been with a woman before and I'm not a human guinea pig for them to "try".
When you say no anal with men is that both giving and receiving? If you'd fuck a guy but don't want it in return I'd say you was still bi but just a 'top' |
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"I avoid bi curious ladies because to me it means they haven't been with a woman before and I'm not a human guinea pig for them to "try".
When you say no anal with men is that both giving and receiving? If you'd fuck a guy but don't want it in return I'd say you was still bi but just a 'top'"
If the lady ticked all your other boxes would you be more open or is it a strict rule?
Everyone has to start somewhere.... |
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"I avoid bi curious ladies because to me it means they haven't been with a woman before and I'm not a human guinea pig for them to "try".
When you say no anal with men is that both giving and receiving? If you'd fuck a guy but don't want it in return I'd say you was still bi but just a 'top'
If the lady ticked all your other boxes would you be more open or is it a strict rule?
Everyone has to start somewhere...."
If she seemed genuinely keen, then perhaps. But often is the case that she is trying it to please her fella. Im not here for a show and dance, I like the real deal. Almost every female (as part of a couple) will say they are at least bi curious, just seems to be the swinging way |
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"I avoid bi curious ladies because to me it means they haven't been with a woman before and I'm not a human guinea pig for them to "try".
When you say no anal with men is that both giving and receiving? If you'd fuck a guy but don't want it in return I'd say you was still bi but just a 'top'
If the lady ticked all your other boxes would you be more open or is it a strict rule?
Everyone has to start somewhere....
If she seemed genuinely keen, then perhaps. But often is the case that she is trying it to please her fella. Im not here for a show and dance, I like the real deal. Almost every female (as part of a couple) will say they are at least bi curious, just seems to be the swinging way"
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"I consider myself dick-curious. I like the look of a nice cock, i want to play with a nice cock with my wife but im not attracted to the rest of the male form, sexually or romantically.
S"
Exactly this, put myself firmly in this camp. I consider myself straight, but enjoy playing with a cock. I’m labelled and named bi-curious here to avoid confusion, but outside of cock play I’ve no interest in men. Very much a sliding scale I think, so a handful of labels doesn’t cover it. |
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This is a tricky one.
If someone has not been with same sex but wants to then what do they put on profile
Id say curious
If you have been with same sex then for profile I would think bisexual
But when messaging be honest what you like do not like or want to try.
It often seems like it's still a big taboo over straight men enjoying mm
But ok for women to do it.
Men are often branded as gay
I think there is a difference between being attracted to them in every way and just like the sexual side
What about males who likes shemales
Or women who likes shemales what does that say |
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"If you have sucked a dick more than once and continue to seek sucking dick then you are bisexual, not all gay or bi men take it up the arse.
This! There are other ways to describe your bisexuality, such as Top, Versatile or Bottom"
Or neither! |
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"Absolutely no need to be pigeonholed I love a gorgeous woman as much as I like a sexy looking guy and any other time I class myself straight, so what does that make me?  "
it makes you a bisexual man who doesn’t want to be labelled as a bisexual man for what ever reasons. |
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"Can you help a discussion please
Mr is oral with guys but no anal or kissing, I describe myself as bi but somewhere in between curious and bi sexual ( labels, hate them )
Mrs dd fell out with me as a guy asked are you more than curious , I said yeah but mrs dd thinks I should describe myself as curious as don’t do anal or kissing
Thoughts and advice , constructive only please "
I'd say curious only if you havent tried it. Once you've tried and enjoyed I'd go for bisexual. I'm in the same boat. Like oral but not into kidsing or anal therefore I consider myself orally bi. I like the oral part but not bothered at all what its attached to. |
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By *ikilovesCCouple 48 weeks ago
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"This is a tricky one.
If someone has not been with same sex but wants to then what do they put on profile
Id say curious
If you have been with same sex then for profile I would think bisexual
But when messaging be honest what you like do not like or want to try.
It often seems like it's still a big taboo over straight men enjoying mm
But ok for women to do it.
Men are often branded as gay
I think there is a difference between being attracted to them in every way and just like the sexual side
What about males who likes shemales
Or women who likes shemales what does that say "
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Yes that sounds about right, the clue is in the name, bi-...curious lol
Would agree with many of the others above who say it can purely be a sex thing too  |
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Wouldn’t worry about labels as we reckon 90% plus of the men here lie about their sexuality on profiles which is depending who they are chatting too, bi men hiding there bi tendency from single ladies and straight men pretending to be bi to get with a bi mmf couple
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"Can you help a discussion please
Mr is oral with guys but no anal or kissing, I describe myself as bi but somewhere in between curious and bi sexual ( labels, hate them )
Mrs dd fell out with me as a guy asked are you more than curious , I said yeah but mrs dd thinks I should describe myself as curious as don’t do anal or kissing
Thoughts and advice , constructive only please
Depends if he is attracted to men I guess, I love sucking cock, but I'm not attracted to men, just the cock so what am I? "
I would just say BI Oral |
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Curious to me means that it’s potentially something you’re interested in but you’re not sure as yet.
You don’t need to label it or do anything you don’t feel comfortable with. I know straight women who don’t do oral on men for example. |
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I’m listed a bi-curious on here as I am not attracted to men at all, I do however, very much enjoy sucking cock and making another guy cum.
I’ve no idea what label that makes me and I don’t really care. Just do what you enjoy, be safe and have fun  |
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By *otgirl32Woman 48 weeks ago
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Interesting discussion and IMHO a waste of time obsessing on labels. But to simplify .....
Being "bisexual" is a binary state of being (i.e., yes/no) but encompasses a spectrum of things that ALL make someone bisexual. Just like being "British" is not just one thing
1. If you enjoy any form of sex (oral, anal, both) with someone of the same sex (but also enjoy the opposite sex) you are BISEXUAL. Period. So
-Sucking cock = bisexual
-Taking cock up the bum = bisexual
-Receiving oral from the same sex = bisexual
-All of the above = bisexual (also)
2. If you are thinking about it and wondering about it but haven't taken the step you are BICURIOUS
3. If you enjoy any form of sex (oral, anal, both) with ONLY the same sex you are GAY.
Now the reason why these labels are so useless is that bisexual, heterosexual and gay are "states" of being that may NOT be permanent. To give you my example .....
1. I mostly love to fuck men - so I'm heterosexual most of the time
2. I am attracted to women and enjoy sex with women but only sporadically - so I'm actually bisexual sporadically
3. There are times I want to JUST ravish a girl and play with a girl and in those times I don't want to look at a cock. So I'm gay occasionally
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"Interesting discussion and IMHO a waste of time obsessing on labels. But to simplify .....
Being "bisexual" is a binary state of being (i.e., yes/no) but encompasses a spectrum of things that ALL make someone bisexual. Just like being "British" is not just one thing
1. If you enjoy any form of sex (oral, anal, both) with someone of the same sex (but also enjoy the opposite sex) you are BISEXUAL. Period. So
-Sucking cock = bisexual
-Taking cock up the bum = bisexual
-Receiving oral from the same sex = bisexual
-All of the above = bisexual (also)
2. If you are thinking about it and wondering about it but haven't taken the step you are BICURIOUS
3. If you enjoy any form of sex (oral, anal, both) with ONLY the same sex you are GAY.
Now the reason why these labels are so useless is that bisexual, heterosexual and gay are "states" of being that may NOT be permanent. To give you my example .....
1. I mostly love to fuck men - so I'm heterosexual most of the time
2. I am attracted to women and enjoy sex with women but only sporadically - so I'm actually bisexual sporadically
3. There are times I want to JUST ravish a girl and play with a girl and in those times I don't want to look at a cock. So I'm gay occasionally
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"I’m listed a bi-curious on here as I am not attracted to men at all, I do however, very much enjoy sucking cock and making another guy cum.
I’ve no idea what label that makes me and I don’t really care. Just do what you enjoy, be safe and have fun "
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"Wouldn’t worry about labels as we reckon 90% plus of the men here lie about their sexuality on profiles which is depending who they are chatting too, bi men hiding there bi tendency from single ladies and straight men pretending to be bi to get with a bi mmf couple
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I would class that as Bi. You know what you do and don’t enjoy. I would describe myself the same. I love sucking cock but I’m not into anal and up to now I’ve never had any interest in kissing blokes and I’m not really fussed on meeting a guy alone. |
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If you are sexually attracted to men and women, you are bisexual.
The acts you will perform with different people are completely separate from your sexuality.
If I didn't kiss men or do anal on swing meets, people would think I was mad if I called myself straight-curious. |
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"Interesting discussion and IMHO a waste of time obsessing on labels. But to simplify .....
Being "bisexual" is a binary state of being (i.e., yes/no) but encompasses a spectrum of things that ALL make someone bisexual. Just like being "British" is not just one thing
1. If you enjoy any form of sex (oral, anal, both) with someone of the same sex (but also enjoy the opposite sex) you are BISEXUAL. Period. So
-Sucking cock = bisexual
-Taking cock up the bum = bisexual
-Receiving oral from the same sex = bisexual
-All of the above = bisexual (also)
2. If you are thinking about it and wondering about it but haven't taken the step you are BICURIOUS
3. If you enjoy any form of sex (oral, anal, both) with ONLY the same sex you are GAY.
Now the reason why these labels are so useless is that bisexual, heterosexual and gay are "states" of being that may NOT be permanent. To give you my example .....
1. I mostly love to fuck men - so I'm heterosexual most of the time
2. I am attracted to women and enjoy sex with women but only sporadically - so I'm actually bisexual sporadically
3. There are times I want to JUST ravish a girl and play with a girl and in those times I don't want to look at a cock. So I'm gay occasionally
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There have been lots of threads like this where guys love cock play but don't fancy guys. I'm in that category. I'd suck a guy off but I wouldn't kiss him or fuck him.
I call myself bi as it's just easier, in passing, than explaining the cock thing. 'bi-oral' / 'orally bi' might be the best fit. |
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By *ing00Man 48 weeks ago
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"There have been lots of threads like this where guys love cock play but don't fancy guys. I'm in that category. I'd suck a guy off but I wouldn't kiss him or fuck him.
I call myself bi as it's just easier, in passing, than explaining the cock thing. 'bi-oral' / 'orally bi' might be the best fit. "
Think I might be the same. Cocks fascinate, and id be curious to play with one to see what it's like but yes, not really finding the rest of a guy of interest |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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Our opinion your bi, if your happy to play with men even if it's in a group situation with your lovely lady your bi
I wouldn't get too hung up on labels, do what you enjoy in the moment that's what it's all about
Have fun xx |
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"Our opinion your bi, if your happy to play with men even if it's in a group situation with your lovely lady your bi
I wouldn't get too hung up on labels, do what you enjoy in the moment that's what it's all about
Have fun xx"
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"If a guy enjoys sucking cock then bi"
Disagree sorry. For me bi is enjoying both anal as well as cock. Orally bi for just cock fun.
At the end of the day we like what we like, so theres no real need to put a label on everything |
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"Personally labels are pretty much a waste of time as a single word can't fully explain who you are, my advice is to just be up front and honest with any potential play partners.
Mr H "
Think in general yeah ypur right bit here on fab I wish guys would state bi ... rather than straight profiles messaging me saying they are hi..... I turn them all away on that basis |
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"If a guy enjoys sucking cock then bi
Disagree sorry. For me bi is enjoying both anal as well as cock. Orally bi for just cock fun.
At the end of the day we like what we like, so theres no real need to put a label on everything "
I wish guys would on here. I turn away straight profiles with messages that say yeah I am bi .. |
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By *RFR72Man 48 weeks ago
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So...! I have never tried sucking cock, l love women, have been in close contact with cocks and never bothered me. Is what it is when your swinging.
I think a guy may of sucked me whilst in the midst of things but my ex was down there too so not sure, she never let on. Again it didn't bother me if it was.
Not attracted to men at all, wouldn't have anal with a man or kiss, kind of curious to sucking but would have to be very very comfortable. But I do like chatting to guys who are cucks or like me talking about their wives and turns me on that they are getting turned on.
It's all a bit damn confusing if you ask me ???? |
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