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Can a bull go too far?
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"Is it not the lady who's in control. The situations I've been in the Cuck hardly says anything. The lady says what she wants."
The entire scenario is because of the cuck. He has the kink of humiliation or subvservience, and the bull is the mechanism used to achieve it. I'm assuming the cucks partner also gets off on satisfying the kink and gaining pleasure from the bull with thw cucks permission.
The cuck has thw power to stop everything at any moment. The cuck has almost certainly drawn up the lines in terms of what humiliation will take place and where the lines are drawn.
It's easy to think the woman has power as she gets the most obvious 'pleasure' or that the bull - who is playing a dominant role in this scenario - has power due to the domination but just as the woman holds power in a MMF/MFF scenario, it's the cuck who has the kink satiated, and is - even if invisibly to observers - the one holding power.
The bull - like a single male in many scenarios - is the tool for achieving the outcome. If a bull went over a line, the scene would end and he would keave, but another bull could replace him. I know it's not great for single guys to think of themselves as ultimately the hired help, but in the vast majority of cases, they are play-things used for others (couples, females, cuckolds) pleasure and hold very few of the chips. |
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By *ayd100 OP Man 52 weeks ago
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"Is it not the lady who's in control. The situations I've been in the Cuck hardly says anything. The lady says what she wants.
The entire scenario is because of the cuck. He has the kink of humiliation or subvservience, and the bull is the mechanism used to achieve it. I'm assuming the cucks partner also gets off on satisfying the kink and gaining pleasure from the bull with thw cucks permission.
The cuck has thw power to stop everything at any moment. The cuck has almost certainly drawn up the lines in terms of what humiliation will take place and where the lines are drawn.
It's easy to think the woman has power as she gets the most obvious 'pleasure' or that the bull - who is playing a dominant role in this scenario - has power due to the domination but just as the woman holds power in a MMF/MFF scenario, it's the cuck who has the kink satiated, and is - even if invisibly to observers - the one holding power.
The bull - like a single male in many scenarios - is the tool for achieving the outcome. If a bull went over a line, the scene would end and he would keave, but another bull could replace him. I know it's not great for single guys to think of themselves as ultimately the hired help, but in the vast majority of cases, they are play-things used for others (couples, females, cuckolds) pleasure and hold very few of the chips."
someone who actually understands the dynamic,breath of fresh air |
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By *oxy jWoman 52 weeks ago
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consent is everything even with cuckold couples ... and the ultimate power is always the cucks wife and the cuckolds wife do not always meet bulls its very 50/50
also bear in mind most cuckold couple's do it for fantasy / roleplay so bulls as such are disposable ... lifestyle cuckolds alot are not wanting exclusive where the bull ''owns'' both most cuckold couples have a few regulars and meet randoms too ... me i avoid guys who call themselves bulls because 99% of them are either fake / porn driven /bullshitters ... porn has ruined how men see cuckold couples ...
the best bulls are those guys who dont even realize that they are and the come under the assertive guys label /or new guys who know nothing of cuckolding who can be moulded into a boyfriend ... yep i dont call them bulls to me they are sexual boyfriends |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"What about the cuck perspective,he wants to be humiliated and do as the bull insists."
So would you say that if a bull meets a hotwife thats not on any form of birth control and is very much fertile, thr bull wants to bareback and creampie then he should creampie HW? |
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"Is it not the lady who's in control. The situations I've been in the Cuck hardly says anything. The lady says what she wants.
The entire scenario is because of the cuck. He has the kink of humiliation or subvservience, and the bull is the mechanism used to achieve it. I'm assuming the cucks partner also gets off on satisfying the kink and gaining pleasure from the bull with thw cucks permission.
The cuck has thw power to stop everything at any moment. The cuck has almost certainly drawn up the lines in terms of what humiliation will take place and where the lines are drawn.
It's easy to think the woman has power as she gets the most obvious 'pleasure' or that the bull - who is playing a dominant role in this scenario - has power due to the domination but just as the woman holds power in a MMF/MFF scenario, it's the cuck who has the kink satiated, and is - even if invisibly to observers - the one holding power.
The bull - like a single male in many scenarios - is the tool for achieving the outcome. If a bull went over a line, the scene would end and he would keave, but another bull could replace him. I know it's not great for single guys to think of themselves as ultimately the hired help, but in the vast majority of cases, they are play-things used for others (couples, females, cuckolds) pleasure and hold very few of the chips."
Most guys don't get this. So they go over the top. They think porn is real and don't understand mental connection. |
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i would say that a bull will push as far as he is able to , after all he knows that the husband is wanting to watch and take in his wife with him to see her face as she is fucked , but no matter what the bull and cuckold want they should both respect the wifes wishes , after all she is the most important no matter what , but there are wives who love to belittle there husbands and will want the bull to push but with cuckold fun and games its has to be fun for all |
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"Is it not the lady who's in control. The situations I've been in the Cuck hardly says anything. The lady says what she wants.
The entire scenario is because of the cuck. He has the kink of humiliation or subvservience, and the bull is the mechanism used to achieve it. I'm assuming the cucks partner also gets off on satisfying the kink and gaining pleasure from the bull with thw cucks permission.
The cuck has thw power to stop everything at any moment. The cuck has almost certainly drawn up the lines in terms of what humiliation will take place and where the lines are drawn.
It's easy to think the woman has power as she gets the most obvious 'pleasure' or that the bull - who is playing a dominant role in this scenario - has power due to the domination but just as the woman holds power in a MMF/MFF scenario, it's the cuck who has the kink satiated, and is - even if invisibly to observers - the one holding power.
The bull - like a single male in many scenarios - is the tool for achieving the outcome. If a bull went over a line, the scene would end and he would keave, but another bull could replace him. I know it's not great for single guys to think of themselves as ultimately the hired help, but in the vast majority of cases, they are play-things used for others (couples, females, cuckolds) pleasure and hold very few of the chips. someone who actually understands the dynamic,breath of fresh air "
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From your earlier contributions it didn't sound like you understand it. |
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By *oxy jWoman 51 weeks ago
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its the cuckold couple that has all the power the cuck normally consents power to his wife the 3rd guy can think as he wishes but hes only there for a short time then hes gone but the cuckolding continues ... men need to stop watching porn and thinking its real ..
its like guys think all cuckold couples are bare backer well thats deffo wrong and a worrying comment above someone said if the bull wants bare then he should have bare well if thats not agreed then thats sexual assualt plain and simple ..
no one is more important than the cuckold couple .. no one at all
cuckold porn is not cuckold its porn and like all porn its over stated over produce .... also the trend amongst most real cuckold couples is to avoid anyone who calls themselves a bull ... and you dont have to go far to see why
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The bul doenst have full power , the cuckoldress does, they had control of who how when , how often and what they did as long it met the rules of our cuckold contract. As both my gfs enjoyed being fuck toys and used as such
a lot power was gifted to the bulls , but it could be taken away just as easily. |
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By *oxy jWoman 51 weeks ago
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"Women can just happily have sex
The cuckold dynamic is borne out of male fantasy about power pure and simple
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no some maybe ie fantasy/roleplay those who seek porn type cuckolding then yes maybe but those who live the lifestyle then i totally disagree its not fantasy it very much real life |
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"The bul doenst have full power , the cuckoldress does, they had control of who how when , how often and what they did as long it met the rules of our cuckold contract. As both my gfs enjoyed being fuck toys and used as such
a lot power was gifted to the bulls , but it could be taken away just as easily."
I reckon the cuck has most of the power.
After all, he'll have been the one who first suggested the things that get him off in a relationship |
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