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"IF! It's done right taz enjoys it... if it's done wrong it hurts, becomes sore and can ruin a whole night "
Muse won’t let anyone she hasn’t played with before finger her because of finger-blasting heroes 
But she does love me slipping her a cheeky finger when we’re out  |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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"Sammi loves her gspot being fingered VERY hard and she cums constantly from it.
But she wouldn’t go for a meet that only had that. She needs a good hard fucking too."
Sounds awesome to me |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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"I used to be king of the fingering in my youth. In bars, nightclubs, dark spots. The girls used to love it. Guess Mickey Flanagan was right, it's a dying art."
All hail the king... Lol good on ya |
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Men being good at reading a woman’s body is a dying act, in my experience. Very few have actually fingered me for my pleasure and instead can’t wait to see if I squirt.
Instant turn off.
I’d love a Yoni massage  |
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I love fingering as part of foreplay. Watching what turns her on, responding, teasing, touching other parts of her body, licking. The magical moments when she tips over the edge and gives the ultimate compliment of cumming! |
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"IF! It's done right taz enjoys it... if it's done wrong it hurts, becomes sore and can ruin a whole night
Muse won’t let anyone she hasn’t played with before finger her because of finger-blasting heroes
But she does love me slipping her a cheeky finger when we’re out "
Yes finger blasting ...what is that all about 
I absolutely love hands/fingers on or in my pussy ..but blasting absolutely no way...I see so many pissy blasting videos on here and it's consisidered squirting...
Snaggy bit of nail will put me off also  |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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I love fingering a woman. But would want it to be part of more. Don’t think it’s a dying breed, think just need to understand the woman’s needs and what she likes |
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By *essaMayWoman 47 weeks ago
Fairytale Wood |
I love being fingured, probability more than actual penetration. I love being mastubated to orgasm.
My experiences are that people, guys especially , are simply not very good at it. They think they are and brag about being finger masters but in the end up boring me or making me sore.
This comes down also one way i can differentiate between a woman who is bi playful or is just doing for their partner and one that is really into it with another woman.
Don't think it's a dying art, just think many weren't very good at the first place. |
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I love fingering a woman and can be made very naughty we once had a social meet at a quiet pub and we all got horny so the men fingered the woman on the bench outside in the beer garden making both women cum over and over they had to walk through the pub with big wet patches at the end of the night
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By *essaMayWoman 47 weeks ago
Fairytale Wood |
"I presume the complaints here are about guys who either can't find or choose to ignore the clit, and just start porno style "finger blasting"?"
Not really a complaints but observations. Firstly just from my point of view, it is not about finger blasting or ignoring clit etc. I have had experiences where a guy has gone straight for clit, there you are you little rascel take some of that bing, bash, bosh I'm the man, the finger master, hurrah. Within a few minutes has ruined any kind sex for that meeting.
There are many factors, women are not all the same, might have same bits maybe require different technique shall we say. From my perspective how you start can make all the difference from WOW OMG, to wishing so much that get it over with and leave.
Impatience is one of leading factors, but anyway im not here to teach guys howbto please a woman. To me the guy or woman is nervous about touching is better than someone who thinks they are and someone who is very good it it doesn't need to brag about the fact  |
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I really enjoy taking the time to pay attention to anyone I'm fingering. Reading body movements, breaths, noises etc to pick up on what's enjoyable for them. Just going in and doing what I think would be enjoyable just isn't good enough.
I'll also never understand anyone that just doves straight in and "blasts"... Yes, some may enjoy that but surely there needs to be a little bit of building up to that point at least!
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"Kerry loves this and she cums quite easily. She prefers being stood up. I think it reminds her of the ease and dirtiness of being able to be fingered outside"
Stood up fingering……..carlsberg don’t do fab meets, but if they did  |
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Mrs responds well to it, but it has to be done properly by someone who will actually listen and react, build it up etc
Not into anyone just hammering away.
Similar to when she's being fucked to be fair, rarely going to respond to someone just smashing away |
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By *oprocMan 47 weeks ago
wolverhampton |
What a great question. I'm surprised no one has mentioned using lube. Providing it's been warmed up, I love to use a liberal amount so my fingers can glide and explore inside and out, again and again, and again... |
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By *oxy jWoman 47 weeks ago
taunton somerset |
i dont get this fingering is a dying thingy ive never not been fingered during a meet ???? dont get me wrong im not saying they are all good cause some are not but it always happens ... maybe its because i wont let a guy rush the more he trys to rush i slower i go until they get the message or i stop and say no more meet over |
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By *rpeggioCouple 45 weeks ago
Baughurst |
"I presume the complaints here are about guys who either can't find or choose to ignore the clit, and just start porno style "finger blasting"?
Not really a complaints but observations. Firstly just from my point of view, it is not about finger blasting or ignoring clit etc. I have had experiences where a guy has gone straight for clit, there you are you little rascel take some of that bing, bash, bosh I'm the man, the finger master, hurrah. Within a few minutes has ruined any kind sex for that meeting.
There are many factors, women are not all the same, might have same bits maybe require different technique shall we say. From my perspective how you start can make all the difference from WOW OMG, to wishing so much that get it over with and leave.
Impatience is one of leading factors, but anyway im not here to teach guys howbto please a woman. To me the guy or woman is nervous about touching is better than someone who thinks they are and someone who is very good it it doesn't need to brag about the fact "
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Totally this for me, as a guy. It's all about listening and looking for responses from the woman. With some it's easy to figure the pace and the places to touch, with others it's more subtle and more challenging. Patience, and willing to figure out what works for her, rather than for me, and what is her preferred pace and when to increase it, makes the difference.
I find it Easier with my fingers though than using my tongue/mouth, as I can also see her responses. Yet, can't get it right sometimes, or the first time I play with a woman, so it's always a learning curve. |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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"Men being good at reading a woman’s body is a dying act, in my experience. Very few have actually fingered me for my pleasure and instead can’t wait to see if I squirt.
Instant turn off.
I’d love a Yoni massage "
That’s crazy, used to do it with the ex and spend a lot of time on it! I honestly love doing it and doing it for quite some time! Feeling the woman get more wet the longer you do it is such an amazing feeling |
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By *r SxxMan 44 weeks ago
Kent |
I've always been told that fingering/using my hands is my "special skill" by meets, so I always make a point to utilise it as much as I can.
I find it a great, versatile skill to have in the toolbag and can work at any part of the night. A cheeky, teasy way to get started all the way up to intense moaning and squirting.... and everything in between.
Yay fingering  |
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Like every sexual act, if its done well, its fabulous.
Sadly, some half wit rubbing my ladies bits like a boy scout trying to light a fire, its a no no.
Amazingly, I've had some guys who are so sexual inept that even when I tell them a couple of times, even demonstrate myself how I like it to be done, it still back to the insane rubbing.
I've even said watch me playing with myself, hoping it would turn them on and maybe copy but no, its back to the mad rubbing session.
Then its thanks, get up off the bed, go downstairs and chat to the other party goers.
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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I do love to be fingered but I find some men just go all out just to make me squirt and I end up feeling like someone has put a hose up inside me leaving me feeling very sore for days.
So I’m normally have to end the meet |
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By *rpeggioCouple 44 weeks ago
Baughurst |
"Like every sexual act, if its done well, its fabulous.
Sadly, some half wit rubbing my ladies bits like a boy scout trying to light a fire, its a no no.
Amazingly, I've had some guys who are so sexual inept that even when I tell them a couple of times, even demonstrate myself how I like it to be done, it still back to the insane rubbing.
I've even said watch me playing with myself, hoping it would turn them on and maybe copy but no, its back to the mad rubbing session.
Then its thanks, get up off the bed, go downstairs and chat to the other party goers.
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Out of curiosity... How do you end up with a " half wit rubbing my ladies bits" or guys "so sexual inept"? Do you two let anyone have a go? No vetting?  |
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"Like every sexual act, if its done well, its fabulous.
Sadly, some half wit rubbing my ladies bits like a boy scout trying to light a fire, its a no no.
Amazingly, I've had some guys who are so sexual inept that even when I tell them a couple of times, even demonstrate myself how I like it to be done, it still back to the insane rubbing.
I've even said watch me playing with myself, hoping it would turn them on and maybe copy but no, its back to the mad rubbing session.
Then its thanks, get up off the bed, go downstairs and chat to the other party goers.
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Out of curiosity... How do you end up with a " half wit rubbing my ladies bits" or guys "so sexual inept"? Do you two let anyone have a go? No vetting? "
So so interested in your vetting processes  |
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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its a two pronged approach from me gentle fingering aswell as tounge and if shes game i finger up the bum at the same time
nice and slow til they blow their roof off love it ! |
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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"Is fingering a dying act and do any women on here like a meet purely to be fingered to orgasm? "
my lady loves it if done properly, unfortunately a lot of guys we've met before haven't known what they were doing which was disappointing for her. |
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By *rpeggioCouple 44 weeks ago
Baughurst |
"Like every sexual act, if its done well, its fabulous.
Sadly, some half wit rubbing my ladies bits like a boy scout trying to light a fire, its a no no.
Amazingly, I've had some guys who are so sexual inept that even when I tell them a couple of times, even demonstrate myself how I like it to be done, it still back to the insane rubbing.
I've even said watch me playing with myself, hoping it would turn them on and maybe copy but no, its back to the mad rubbing session.
Then its thanks, get up off the bed, go downstairs and chat to the other party goers.
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Out of curiosity... How do you end up with a " half wit rubbing my ladies bits" or guys "so sexual inept"? Do you two let anyone have a go? No vetting?
So so interested in your vetting processes "
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Nothing out of the ordinary... Chats, talks and behaves like a half wit? We assume the behaviour in bed will be of a half wit. That's it. Vetted. Were you expecting proper SOPs? |
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By *orny PTMan 44 weeks ago
Peterborough |
"If a woman says she doesn’t like being fingered, she’s never been fingered properly. "
Saying that, she might just love cocks and seeing a cock going in and out is all that she wants. Think starter vs main course. Horses for courses. Poor experiences can and will put her off. You can't change her nerve endings and how they respond. |
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I (Kat) love to fingered by ladies and gents alike.
Done right I can reach an intense orgasm.
I don’t believe it’s a dying art as such. Any previous meet has involved fingering it’s just guys are too eager to get the main event. Having said that it would be nice to meet for sensual mutual touching and caressing and fingering where my mate listens to my breath and pays full attention without going at it like a hammer drill. |
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"Like every sexual act, if its done well, its fabulous.
Sadly, some half wit rubbing my ladies bits like a boy scout trying to light a fire, its a no no.
Amazingly, I've had some guys who are so sexual inept that even when I tell them a couple of times, even demonstrate myself how I like it to be done, it still back to the insane rubbing.
I've even said watch me playing with myself, hoping it would turn them on and maybe copy but no, its back to the mad rubbing session.
Then its thanks, get up off the bed, go downstairs and chat to the other party goers.
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Out of curiosity... How do you end up with a " half wit rubbing my ladies bits" or guys "so sexual inept"? Do you two let anyone have a go? No vetting? "
Its generally at a club or party but not exclusively.
Some guys just think they are good, why that is, I have no idea.
I'm sure some of us ladies are just as bad.
It's very difficult on a one to one meet to vet out sexual ineptitude.
If on an initial social they either tell me how wonderful they are or the other end of the scale find it hard to string a sentence together, both is no thanks.
On gang bangs its tricky but I tell the guys my likes and dislikes, if my choice of sexual activities is not for them, then close the front door behind you.
I think telling them not to rub too hard, be more gentle, then play with myself to show them first hand how I like to be touched, surely is enough of an example even for a half wit to take onboard.
Its embarrassing to ask a guy to stop and I understand it will hurt feelings and dent egos but so is life.
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By *rpeggioCouple 44 weeks ago
Baughurst |
"Like every sexual act, if its done well, its fabulous.
Sadly, some half wit rubbing my ladies bits like a boy scout trying to light a fire, its a no no.
Amazingly, I've had some guys who are so sexual inept that even when I tell them a couple of times, even demonstrate myself how I like it to be done, it still back to the insane rubbing.
I've even said watch me playing with myself, hoping it would turn them on and maybe copy but no, its back to the mad rubbing session.
Then its thanks, get up off the bed, go downstairs and chat to the other party goers.
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Out of curiosity... How do you end up with a " half wit rubbing my ladies bits" or guys "so sexual inept"? Do you two let anyone have a go? No vetting?
Its generally at a club or party but not exclusively.
Some guys just think they are good, why that is, I have no idea.
I'm sure some of us ladies are just as bad.
It's very difficult on a one to one meet to vet out sexual ineptitude.
If on an initial social they either tell me how wonderful they are or the other end of the scale find it hard to string a sentence together, both is no thanks.
On gang bangs its tricky but I tell the guys my likes and dislikes, if my choice of sexual activities is not for them, then close the front door behind you.
I think telling them not to rub too hard, be more gentle, then play with myself to show them first hand how I like to be touched, surely is enough of an example even for a half wit to take onboard.
Its embarrassing to ask a guy to stop and I understand it will hurt feelings and dent egos but so is life.
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I see. I get that on parties or gang bangs it's more difficult to spot the inept. You are far too kind to teach them. I would be mortified if that happened to me. |
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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"If a woman says she doesn’t like being fingered, she’s never been fingered properly.
Saying that, she might just love cocks and seeing a cock going in and out is all that she wants. Think starter vs main course. Horses for courses. Poor experiences can and will put her off. You can't change her nerve endings and how they respond."
Always love the posts mansplaining women’s sexual experiences |
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By *ewels74Woman 44 weeks ago
Dundee/Angus/Blackpool |
In my experience being fingered down there has always been a delicious experience, but one time i had one guy going at me like a banshee literally in the hope i would squirt instantly, got to the point he was also pressing down on my stomach and this made it even worse, so afterwards it was like he didnt bother or understand i was in utter agony, and my clit area i am not sure if can happen felt like it had broken, i had no feeling, and so i didnt wish to play with anyone until i was feeling or had feeling down there..this actually took a few yrs and well seems i do squirt still but also feels more weirder.
So yes there are gentle guys and very rough guys who do not realise the pain they are creating |
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"If a woman says she doesn’t like being fingered, she’s never been fingered properly.
Saying that, she might just love cocks and seeing a cock going in and out is all that she wants. Think starter vs main course. Horses for courses. Poor experiences can and will put her off. You can't change her nerve endings and how they respond.
Always love the posts mansplaining women’s sexual experiences "
Haha and it’s always one size fits all.
“Is cos they were shit…. I’m better” line that gets trotted out. |
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"IF! It's done right taz enjoys it... if it's done wrong it hurts, becomes sore and can ruin a whole night
Muse won’t let anyone she hasn’t played with before finger her because of finger-blasting heroes
But she does love me slipping her a cheeky finger when we’re out "
Omg I know what you mean about finger blasting heroes... Think the faster and harder they do it the more I'll enjoy it... Despite them completely missing the goal posts of the clit and g spot |
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"Is fingering a dying act and do any women on here like a meet purely to be fingered to orgasm? "
Like it but most men are crap at it. Either end up finger blasting or just don’t know what they are doing. As for meeting just for that - no thanks! I want three course meal not just the appetiser! |
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