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Having VERIFICATIONS.
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over a year ago
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Because sadly there are a lot of chancers, timewasters and purely wankers on most swingers site. A lot of people have fallen for what looks to be a geniune cple profile only to have their fingers burnt. Sadly this paints a picture over the geniune peeps on this site.
Don't worry or beat yourself up if you get negative comments. If you know your geniune thats all that count. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Because sadly there are a lot of chancers, timewasters and purely wankers on most swingers site. A lot of people have fallen for what looks to be a geniune cple profile only to have their fingers burnt. Sadly this paints a picture over the geniune peeps on this site.
Don't worry or beat yourself up if you get negative comments. If you know your geniune thats all that count."
oh yeah im not bothered, heared people saying to me that people have said to "someone" dont talk to "us" because were fake. Considering weve got verifications that state SHE was on CAM, and what we are HAPPY to go on cam to people WE like, so fuck the haters, YOUR LOSS!!! |
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Some people take it bad when you turn them down,don't let it worry you,we have been called fake before because we had to cancel a meet at last minute due to wife coming on early ,but we have fun and the guys fems and couples we do get to meet enjoy our company,,just carry on have your fun  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a social last Friday, and he openly told me that he had two fake verification's to start him off because he was told that he wouldn't get anywhere without them, one from a guy and one from a woman both friends of his. And his profile photo was about 6 yrs out of date. As i went to say goodbye because i was very annoyed about this, I turned and said ok there is NO chemistry between us, the reply came back as "That's ok i have enough for both of us"
I was out of there, he was blocked and reported !!
So my answer is you just never know really what is behind a verification when you read them !!!
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I (fem) was on cam the other night as think good way to prove genuine. Then a guy said you're a fake it's a video recording. He soon got a shock when I said F Off you think I'm fake now and duly blocked him. What a tosser - think he had never seen a good looking woman having a play before haha |
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"Because sadly there are a lot of chancers, timewasters and purely wankers on most swingers site. A lot of people have fallen for what looks to be a geniune cple profile only to have their fingers burnt. Sadly this paints a picture over the geniune peeps on this site.
Don't worry or beat yourself up if you get negative comments. If you know your geniune thats all that count.
oh yeah im not bothered, heared people saying to me that people have said to "someone" dont talk to "us" because were fake. Considering weve got verifications that state SHE was on CAM, and what we are HAPPY to go on cam to people WE like, so fuck the haters, YOUR LOSS!!!"
Steady down ....
It's very hard as a new person/cpl as there has been a extremely high influx of fakes and timewasters within the last year.
Not at all saying you are fake but a lot of guys here don't count a web cam as a verification.
I'm going worst possible scenario here now......
What's stopping me from being a single man pretending to be a cpl and inviting a playmate I already know from somewhere to do a webcam to get verified ?
I know it sounds far fetched but you would be amazed at the lengths people go.
Also even if you were a real cpl , showing yourself on cam doesn't let anyone know you meet in person or are willing to as you could just be a tease as some profiles are.
I know you have to start somewhere but its hard...
Having just webcam verifications are not going to convince the majority of people until you start getting some 'meeting person' ones, at least if they are just social meets to start with as that's one step better than webcam. |
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I love to cam and meet people if people just read my verifications they would quite easily see we are the real deal. Not sure why you are saying camming doesn't count as verification when you are out there for the _iewers to see??? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I love to cam and meet people if people just read my verifications they would quite easily see we are the real deal. Not sure why you are saying camming doesn't count as verification when you are out there for the _iewers to see???"
I totally agree, though i guess a meet in person verification would mean more than a cam verification, but still, if theyve got a few or more cam verifications by different people. ive never called them fake! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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male has been online a fair bit, but never on cam alone. always states im alone if anybody asks, and says clearly, im alone atm can chat, or can wait till shes around"
I male, usualy come on to search for nice sexy people, if and when we find them, we come on together or she does.
I never expect cam or chat alone, and the fact im never trying to push them for stuff and state when shes hhere we can all play, dont see how makes me fake, surely if i was pushy etc etc id understand being called fake lol |
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That's fair enough what you say but sometimes you see the same males on cam tugging their cocks and when you ask to see the female part of couple always busy or always at work. These are the people with no meet verifications and maybe a cam verification to say they just seen male part of couple. So not having a go at you just certain individuals on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe it's connected to the fact that your location states London but you are actually in Australia? Which also brings in to question your ability to travel and accommodate.
People use the fake word way too often on here but equally inconsistencies like that will possibly prompt questions.
And as has often been said on here webcam can be faked. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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its got nothing to do with my location to why people are fake? lol.
Im from london and am just on a long holiday/travelling of which im currently in australia. i guess im fake because im travelling |
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I put very, very little stock in webcam verifications actually. And when i see a profile full of webcam veris, even though the profile states that he/ she/ they meet or are looking for meets, that raises serious red flags for me.
Food for thought i guess. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I put very, very little stock in webcam verifications actually. And when i see a profile full of webcam veris, even though the profile states that he/ she/ they meet or are looking for meets, that raises serious red flags for me.
Food for thought i guess."
I dont see why, tbh, weve seen people were happpy to perform cam fun with, but not a couple/female that we would like to experiance sexual contact with |
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"I put very, very little stock in webcam verifications actually. And when i see a profile full of webcam veris, even though the profile states that he/ she/ they meet or are looking for meets, that raises serious red flags for me.
Food for thought i guess.
I dont see why, tbh, weve seen people were happpy to perform cam fun with, but not a couple/female that we would like to experiance sexual contact with "
As a snapshot of validity, i _iew webcam only verifications as a signal of intent (or lack thereof)
Mixed in with actual meet verifications, that's perfectly fine. However, webcam veris on their own just make me think the profile owner is strictly about cam fun.
I realise that's quite a generalisation, and i know not all in this are the same. But i can only go off experience. I only use cam as a pre meet screening process when required. I'd still only request a verification when i've actually turned up for a meet.
As i hold myself to that standard while using the site, i hold others to the same. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I put very, very little stock in webcam verifications actually. And when i see a profile full of webcam veris, even though the profile states that he/ she/ they meet or are looking for meets, that raises serious red flags for me.
Food for thought i guess.
I dont see why, tbh, weve seen people were happpy to perform cam fun with, but not a couple/female that we would like to experiance sexual contact with
As a snapshot of validity, i _iew webcam only verifications as a signal of intent (or lack thereof)
Mixed in with actual meet verifications, that's perfectly fine. However, webcam veris on their own just make me think the profile owner is strictly about cam fun.
I realise that's quite a generalisation, and i know not all in this are the same. But i can only go off experience. I only use cam as a pre meet screening process when required. I'd still only request a verification when i've actually turned up for a meet.
As i hold myself to that standard while using the site, i hold others to the same."
Well i guess thats fine if thats your opinion, not everybody on this site is all for meeting others, some, like ourselfs like cam fun too. and are in no rush atall to meet anybody till weve found the right people.
So if you only choose to accept verifications from meets as a mark of genuine, whats the difference?
i mean thats say for example,
Im single, have a fuck buddy, shes here for cam fun,, on a couples profile..
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im single,, with a couples profile.. have a fuck buddy and meet and get a meet verification/?
either way you look at it, if somebody has verified you (or more than 1, more the better i guess) then why would that not mean anything if its cam and the verification claims the female WAS their??????
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As has been mentioned, cam can easily be faked. I guess anything can be faked, but i've been stung by a cam only verified profile before. Hence my _iew on it.
Meet verifications can't realistically be given until AFTER the fact. Again people could lie, but that process is a little more of a sure bet than a cam verification.
Anyway, if people are after cam only fun, then it should be clearly stated in profile text to avoid misunderstandings and potential calls of "fake" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As has been mentioned, cam can easily be faked. I guess anything can be faked, but i've been stung by a cam only verified profile before. Hence my _iew on it.
Meet verifications can't realistically be given until AFTER the fact. Again people could lie, but that process is a little more of a sure bet than a cam verification.
Anyway, if people are after cam only fun, then it should be clearly stated in profile text to avoid misunderstandings and potential calls of "fake""
Forgive our naivety - we don't cam I'm afraid, wouldn't know where to start! -
How do they fake a webcam?
Honest question. X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I still dont fully understand your judgment,
a cam only profile could be fake because u havnt met the female, yet the female has fucked a cock, sucked a cock, and performed all kinds of sexual stuff on webcam live to people in chat,
is different to seeing it live in a meet?? ok.. never the less..if your verified and ur on cam,, i cant see the difference lol. |
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"As has been mentioned, cam can easily be faked. I guess anything can be faked, but i've been stung by a cam only verified profile before. Hence my _iew on it.
Meet verifications can't realistically be given until AFTER the fact. Again people could lie, but that process is a little more of a sure bet than a cam verification.
Anyway, if people are after cam only fun, then it should be clearly stated in profile text to avoid misunderstandings and potential calls of "fake"
Forgive our naivety - we don't cam I'm afraid, wouldn't know where to start! -
How do they fake a webcam?
Honest question. X"
A single guy (example) sets up a single female profile. Proceeds to convince a female friend willing to be in on the ruse to appear on cam to get some veris.
Once webcam verified, that profile suddenly seems a lot more legit right? Imagine a guy then setting up a meet with the owner of said profile, thinking it was genuine. You get the idea.
In the above example, feel free to replace single female with couple. Works the same. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Not atall your using the worst case sinario, as the whole subject to a cam veri, if youve regular photos of the same partner, and regular verifications of cam, performing sex or oral or whatever, surely thats better than being a single guy, on a couples profile, using a fuckbuddy and having a meet with someone else, gaining a verification, loosing contact with the fuckbuddy female after so long or if she gets into a relationship elsewhere,, uve still got the profile? all rounder,,,,
as far as im conserned, if youve regular verifications that states a female was their, both,meets and cam, you should be fine.! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As has been mentioned, cam can easily be faked. I guess anything can be faked, but i've been stung by a cam only verified profile before. Hence my _iew on it.
Meet verifications can't realistically be given until AFTER the fact. Again people could lie, but that process is a little more of a sure bet than a cam verification.
Anyway, if people are after cam only fun, then it should be clearly stated in profile text to avoid misunderstandings and potential calls of "fake"
Forgive our naivety - we don't cam I'm afraid, wouldn't know where to start! -
How do they fake a webcam?
Honest question. X"
It's possible to play a recording over a webcam feed. So what looks like a hot woman sat at her keyboard is just a recording set up my a man who is doing the typing in chat. Go on something like chat roulette for example, and half of what you see are recordings.
Thats why when i go on the chat i like cams with audio, so you can hear them talk and respond to what you say to them. Webcam verifications should only be done if you have proved they are not a recording, e.g. ask them to wave to you, and if they do, verify them. Unfortunately, a lot of men just verify a hot girl on cam thinking it'll win her favour, without doing these types of checks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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we only cam after chatting and doing a few requests, i.e with a guy,, lets see ur cock,,if u show me ur tits,, etc etc., so were not using recordings but i see what ur saying it would be a very very good fake to play that game tho |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As has been mentioned, cam can easily be faked. I guess anything can be faked, but i've been stung by a cam only verified profile before. Hence my _iew on it.
Meet verifications can't realistically be given until AFTER the fact. Again people could lie, but that process is a little more of a sure bet than a cam verification.
Anyway, if people are after cam only fun, then it should be clearly stated in profile text to avoid misunderstandings and potential calls of "fake"
Forgive our naivety - we don't cam I'm afraid, wouldn't know where to start! -
How do they fake a webcam?
Honest question. X
It's possible to play a recording over a webcam feed. So what looks like a hot woman sat at her keyboard is just a recording set up my a man who is doing the typing in chat. Go on something like chat roulette for example, and half of what you see are recordings.
Thats why when i go on the chat i like cams with audio, so you can hear them talk and respond to what you say to them. Webcam verifications should only be done if you have proved they are not a recording, e.g. ask them to wave to you, and if they do, verify them. Unfortunately, a lot of men just verify a hot girl on cam thinking it'll win her favour, without doing these types of checks"
Blimey. Sounds like a different world! You learn something new every day I guess.
Thanks for the explanation xxxx |
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I've been the victim of the "worst case scenario" so that's the experience i go on.
A profile that specifically wants real life meets, has been active for a decent length of time, but ONLY has webcam verifications is a warning sign to me. I was trying to help you make sense of some of the claims you seem to be getting from people via your cam antics. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been the victim of the "worst case scenario" so that's the experience i go on.
A profile that specifically wants real life meets, has been active for a decent length of time, but ONLY has webcam verifications is a warning sign to me. I was trying to help you make sense of some of the claims you seem to be getting from people via your cam antics."
I get what you're saying. I was looking at a profile a couple of days ago that seemed perfect for what i'm looking for and had some great pics. They were regularly listed as meeting today, and their profile detailed the type of meets they looked for which was a good match for me. But, the profile had been active over a year, and the only verifications were by cam about half a year ago. Just made me think, even if they are real, there is no way that they are interested in meeting, so I didn't send a message. |
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"its got nothing to do with my location to why people are fake? lol.
Im from london and am just on a long holiday/travelling of which im currently in australia. i guess im fake because im travelling "
We are looking for couples in London on the face of it you fit that requirement.But you don't. You aren't actually in London. You clearly aren't going to travel and whether you can accommodate is beside the point as you aren't 20 miles away but the other side of the world.
I'm sure you are 100% genuine in so much as you exist but your profile is clearly not telling the whole picture and is misleading at best. |
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"its got nothing to do with my location to why people are fake? lol.
Im from london and am just on a long holiday/travelling of which im currently in australia. i guess im fake because im travelling
We are looking for couples in London on the face of it you fit that requirement.But you don't. You aren't actually in London. You clearly aren't going to travel and whether you can accommodate is beside the point as you aren't 20 miles away but the other side of the world.
I'm sure you are 100% genuine in so much as you exist but your profile is clearly not telling the whole picture and is misleading at best."
not atall,,
we are traveling and are on holiday, we have a home AT HOME! where we could accomodate, travel etc. thats where we live, will be meeting and as our profile clearly states on a honest basis, we are CURRENTLY in australia and are happy to meet here untill we arrive back home. problem? not really. |
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"why do some people still call you fake, though theyve got up-to-date recent photos AND verifications and photo verified.?"
I've had that as well.
I always think of it as they have 'self filtered' for me... saves me time find out they are idiots myself  |
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"Now i fully understand that! but if they had up-to-date verifications on a regular basis would you have messaged??!!"
If a recently set up profile only has web verifications, I'd definitely message. But if the profile is old and still no meet veris, I wouldn't bother. Not saying they are fake, as if they only want cam fun thats totally fine, but i'd only message people interested in meets |
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