well i have to be honest and say the whole idea of joining a couple intrigues me, although i wouldnt know where to begin. I am straight and would have no interest in male play, thats the part that worries me. Anyway i guess im just after some advice, comments and tips from all you experts |
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my husband is straight but we have had mmf and sometimes he just watches simple thing is both men play with me, only thing you is you need to be comfatable seeing another man naked and him seeing you. |
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"my husband is straight but we have had mmf and sometimes he just watches simple thing is both men play with me, only thing you is you need to be comfortable seeing another man naked and him seeing you."
not a problem being seen or seeing, but guess its about trust and feeling comfortable with the couple. And i suppose finding a couple that would understand possible nerves... |
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"not sure as i said, im intrigued, suppose how it works, how to behave etc. any rules ..... to be honest any tips would be welcome. "
Most couples, (even very experienced ones) will have nerves. When I had mmf with my man and a friend we found the best approach was to talk openly and be totally honest about where our boundaries lay. That way there are no grey areas.
You will love it, im sure
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"Most couples, (even very experienced ones) will have nerves. When I had mmf with my man and a friend we found the best approach was to talk openly and be totally honest about where our boundaries lay. That way there are no grey areas.
You will love it, im sure
xx"
Well reckon i wont know till i explore, so nothing ventured....... thanks |
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As with anyone you meet on here, be honest & polite, people respect that. I was very nervous the first time but don't worry about male play, many couples simply aren't in to that, & if they are they'll say so! |
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"As with anyone you meet on here, be honest & polite, people respect that. I was very nervous the first time but don't worry about male play, many couples simply aren't in to that, & if they are they'll say so!"
Cheers, being polite is always good advive |
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Being a single male isn't the best in the club. A bad reputation due to a lot of idiots who ignore rules and act like a woman is the pied piper.
But as for playing, I've never had any issues with couples. Most are straight male and straight or bi female. Of course everyone's different but I'd imagine a couple with a bi male would make that very clear before any action took place.
As with everything in a club good communication is the basis of a great night of play. |
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"well i have to be honest and say the whole idea of joining a couple intrigues me, although i wouldnt know where to begin. I am straight and would have no interest in male play, thats the part that worries me. Anyway i guess im just after some advice, comments and tips from all you experts "
The first meet my partner and I had was a straight mmf. He later gradually became bi and a crazy stalking lunatic but that's another story..
There shouldn't be any issues unless one or both of the guys are either very nervous or have inferiority issues. Double the pleasure for her, a fun meet for a single guy, a chance to see somone else pleasure his wife/partner for the other guy, everyone wins. Plus maybe a cheeky bro tap for making her cum |
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I find getting in the right mind set helps. If you don't feel overly confident, or conscious about size, just think the other guy may feel the same and that he's gonna be naked and near you. The majority of couples are understanding and discuss things before hand. My 1st couple were great, we chatted then the male half started to play then encouraged me to join in.
Hope you have fun |
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"not sure as i said, im intrigued, suppose how it works, how to behave etc. any rules ..... to be honest any tips would be welcome. "
Some couples begin play where the man leaves the room and you and the lady start playing before he comes back in to join you. By then you'll be 'in the zone' as it were and be far to busy to worry. That approach can help a lot.
Best of luck |
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"not sure as i said, im intrigued, suppose how it works, how to behave etc. any rules ..... to be honest any tips would be welcome.
Some couples begin play where the man leaves the room and you and the lady start playing before he comes back in to join you. By then you'll be 'in the zone' as it were and be far to busy to worry. That approach can help a lot.
Best of luck "
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