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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

This hasn't happened to me but I'd be interested to know your opinions -

If you met someone on here and they were less than satisfactory in some way - maybe their personal hygiene wasn't up to much - how would you handle it?

Would you mention it there and then?

Would you make your excuses and leave?

Or.... if you could, would you put something in your verification of them?

It's just that if I ever had a bad experience I wouldn't like anyone else to go through with it!

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Ooooh the old BO scenario. I don't think I have ever met someone stinky enough to put me off at least chatting to them, although one of my meets had onion breath. Yuk!

I wouldn't put it on a verification though. That seems a bit mean spirited.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That's the problem with veris on here, if you did say something negative then they just wouldn't show it so there is little point in doing so.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No sense putting it on a verification as the person you're verifying can choose to display it or not and they obviously wouldn't.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

ebay is the same:-a seller can't even leave neg feedback for a buyer!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd just turn around and leave. If i make the effort, (though having a shower and personal hygeine isn't exactly 'an effort'), then so should they!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If we met anyone and they smelt Shaz wouldn't play with them and we would tell them why.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd just tell them they wasn't for me, I don't feel I would need to go into why, I'd just give a polite thanks but no thanks and leave

I would never put anything negative in a verification, I just wouldn't leave one at all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bad breath whilst not great i could cope with but a smelly pussy or willy no way.

I am likely to say something at the time and if as a result they take offence when i say do you want a bath then tough

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

if they hadn't washed, I would decline the play.

if they asked why..... I would tell them nicely.

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By *B9 QueenWoman over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Told a guy he stink of beer and it put me off.

Well, it did!!

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman over a year ago

Deviant City

I have made my excuses and left. Couldn't play, eeesh!

Well one person I was sick on before I left!

I just haven't left a veri for them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well one person I was sick on before I left!"

what literally?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I had one person once a long time ago and he had BO just asked him yu take a shower and he was ok with that , then had a great play

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By *arandjasCouple over a year ago

glasgow

same here, if the person didnt match the level of hygiene that i required, there would be no play, but i would try to do it nicely, a simple, thanks but no thanks should be enough

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By *oulou45Woman over a year ago

Bucks

"I had one person once a long time ago and he had BO just asked him yu take a shower and he was ok with that , then had a great play

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I also asked someone to, they can be clean but sweat through nerves.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I had one person once a long time ago and he had BO just asked him yu take a shower and he was ok with that , then had a great play

I also asked someone to, they can be clean but sweat through nerves. "

I must admit it has only happens once

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Bad breath whilst not great i could cope with but a smelly pussy or willy no way.)"

Ewww totally agree

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

what is it with people...it takes 5 mins to shower surely its common decency when going on a meet...i shower wash hair scrub and shave below deoderant and nice after shave it doesnt take long

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By *riendly foeWoman over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

IF it was bad enough to put me off....I wold say something there and then...nicely of course!

Would I put it on a veri?..NO!!!

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