So peeps is soft swing frowned upon. Weve been to clubs and played together with a few undesireables asking to join in but deffo not into single guys but no couples have ever approached. Weve chatted and prefer the soft swing oppose to wife getting battered by some hunk or i grab a naked brunette and fuck all night,however we have said what may happen during a soft swing may happen and never say never so do soft swingers still get party invites or club fun. |
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By (user no longer on site) 22 weeks ago
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I think it’s one of these things that those who frown upon it, aren’t ones you’d want to play with anyway. It’s all about respecting the boundaries of others, not judging and being all high horse about it  |
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By *ikilovesCCouple 22 weeks ago
village life, closest main town inverness |
"We’re not even soft swap but we’d love to be on a big bed fucking with others around us doing the same. C.
Id quite happily fuck on a big bed whike others around all do the same."
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We've been on the big bed lol, had some soft play on it too and never been frowned on,
let folks know you're new to it and they will be accommodating we've found |
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We don’t frown upon it, it’s just not what we are looking for. Time is precious , organising meets isn’t easy and we want to get the most out of it and for us it’s full swaps .
Keep going and you’ll find what you’re looking for xx |
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We have come across numerous couples who are happy to, or only, soft swap. As someone else noted, the sort of ppl who are negative about soft play are the sort you wouldn't want to play with anyway. Swinging works best when everyone respects each others' preferences |
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"We’re not even soft swap but we’d love to be on a big bed fucking with others around us doing the same. C.
Id quite happily fuck on a big bed whike others around all do the same.
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We've been on the big bed lol, had some soft play on it too and never been frowned on,
let folks know you're new to it and they will be accommodating we've found "
Thanks for the advice. Love your photos. C |
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We have only ever been soft swing and have had plenty of fun in clubs, parties and private meets. None of the people we have played with have been soft swing only but were happy to play with us on those terms and even say some complimentary things about us and the soft swing experience afterwards. It certainly works for us. |
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"So what is soft swap, exactly? Everything except penetrative sex?
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We are "soft swap" only and this is our definition. Had a fantastic meet recently with a wonderful couple who are "full swap". They kindly respected our wishes, a great time was had by all and they are looking to meet again - with no expectation of anything "fuller". |
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Don't worry about being frowned upon or not invited, lots of people are soft swing only, lots of people only interact with their partners around others, some only go for the voyeur/exhibitionist side... the most important thing is that you do what makes you comfortable and happy x |
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Everyone should do what they want and I would fully support people who want to soft swing but I think most people have meets or go to clubs/parties to fuck. People who want to soft swing are, realistically, going to get overlooked in those situations. |
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By *dquestCouple 22 weeks ago
Peterborough |
We started with soft swing and progressed up to full swap same room. That's our happy place, we don't do separate room or playing away. Everyone eventually finds a happy level of comfort and no one should push you beyond your comfort zone.
This is supposed to be fun |
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By *rriseMan 22 weeks ago
liverpool |
To be honest I prefer soft meets, nothing better than getting naked (or just me getting naked) and having a relaxing and fun play with no expectations and see where the meet takes us.. so if single, couple or group get in touch x |
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By *essaMayWoman 21 weeks ago
Fairytale Wood |
"So peeps is soft swing frowned upon. Weve been to clubs and played together with a few undesireables asking to join in but deffo not into single guys but no couples have ever approached. Weve chatted and prefer the soft swing oppose to wife getting battered by some hunk or i grab a naked brunette and fuck all night,however we have said what may happen during a soft swing may happen and never say never so do soft swingers still get party invites or club fun."
To a lot of people on the scene, full swing was driven by the male. They do not consider it swing unless they can stick their cock in lol.
We were soft swing couple (when a couple) and I didn't want other guys cocks, some got very abusive if they couldn't get what they wanted. But there are a lot of soft swing couples out there, I always found soft swing far more interesting as it allowed for imaginative play. If you only want soft swing stick to your boundaries and don't be swayed and there are plenty out there who will enjoy soft swing with you |
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By *archelCouple 21 weeks ago
A field somewhere |
Soft swinging is great, we love it. If a couple doesn't respect your choices then you don't want to be near them types. But to be fair most couples love it if in the orgy rooms. Crack on and enjoy.
Wanking dead will always try their luck, I'm no longer polite to them assholes...I tell them to straight up fuck off now. Single guys who are respectful swingers don't behave that way.
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Absolutely fine with couples who only want to soft swing, and if we have good chemistry with the couple and they are open and honest about what their limits are in advance, then all is good.
Our preference is to fully swap, but we certainly don't rule out people who don't want to.
One of the main areas we do avoid meeting is scenarios where only one of us, or only one of the couple would be involved. There are many profiles where it's "we are looking for FF play and Mrs will not have any interaction with the other male".
That's fine, you do you, but it's not what we are interested in |
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We love soft swing, I've aniexty and new with couple meets, and soft swing I'm comfortable with as doesn't feel pushy, talking before to know each others limits n the no's with first..
It's finding a couple who are okie with soft swing and genuinely wanting to meet and not try push limits... |
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Each to their own, really do what pleases you, nobody owes anyone else a shag (unless you lost a bet )
As someone said, those who look down upon something you don't want to do (yet) you wouldn't want as play partners anyway. |
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