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married but how well do you know your wife or husband
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By *oxy j OP Woman 52 weeks ago
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married but how well do you know your wife or husband....
im shocked by the amount of people who are married but have to hide things yes im talking sexual stuff the amount of post of people hiding there sexuality / desires / kinks ... i just dont get it when you marry your marrying someone you want to spend your life with that someone you should at the very least to be open and honest with so why are so many so far apart ?
so im not knocking anyone im just struggling to understand why people who are married cant be more honest... i see it with some swinging couples to where a guy gets in touch saying he cant tell his wife ?? and they are swingers ??
hubs account is full of guys saying hes so lucky because we are so open but we've always been open if you cant be open with your wife /hubs then who???
so are you open with your wife/hubs or are you in a marriage with no communication ...again not knocking im just shocked at the volume of people in marriages that cannot talk about sex... |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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I've expressed my interests kink with my wife but she wasn't interested, we was together years before I found a kink to see her with another guy I did mention it she wasn't keen then I ask if we could go somewhere have sex Infront of people again she wasn't interested I understand by that's my thing I've discovered I like |
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Well we didn’t hide anything sexually she openly told me she had ffm ff ffmm plenty of times x I told about my satin likes x but she didn’t want to repeat her experiences with me I guess I couldn’t get why and with added pressures of CoVid running a business and her job loss we basically had Sep lives x we then tried swinging and she got lot more out of it than I did x
So it became sexless and we seperated 2 years ago next month x so it’s wasn’t secrecy it was almost to much sexual honesty x
Sorry to ramble |
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By *oxy j OP Woman 52 weeks ago
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"Well we didn’t hide anything sexually she openly told me she had ffm ff ffmm plenty of times x I told about my satin likes x but she didn’t want to repeat her experiences with me I guess I couldn’t get why and with added pressures of CoVid running a business and her job loss we basically had Sep lives x we then tried swinging and she got lot more out of it than I did x
So it became sexless and we seperated 2 years ago next month x so it’s wasn’t secrecy it was almost to much sexual honesty x
Sorry to ramble "
dont be sorry its a very valid point i never thought of it that way ie being to honest |
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We’ve been married over 30 years and I knew of her previous history before we got together. We’ve always been honest with each other and she discussed early on the fact that for our marriage to work she would have to cuckold me and she would understand if we split up because of that, but we’ve made it work and personally I wouldn’t have her any other way. |
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There isn't much we don't discuss or talk about, and if we haven't spoken about it.its not worth the conversion.
We are very open in aspects of life,so I'd like to think we know each other very well x |
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We've been married 16 years and together for 22 but raising a family from a young age meant we only really started opening up sexually about our own wants and desires over the last couple of years.
We've always had a great sex life and we don't ever keep "secrets" but opening up 100% has opened up so many doors for us and has propelled our sex life on massively.
I married my best friend young and we are closer now than we have ever been x
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We both came from bad relationships
We actually met as singles on fab , and are now married
Absolutely no secrets , the way we met probably helps
We were honest from the get go , and have never looked back |
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We’re pretty open with each other but really how do you know in a relationship. People can be fearful about bringing up sexual things they are into. Some might be too extreme and think especially women have that social pressure to be ‘good girls’. |
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