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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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"We do exist. I always prove it by not bringing any children along.
I could bring my scanning electron microscope but it looks suspicious sat on the bar and doesn't fit in the mrs' handbag.
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To answer the OPs questions, of course they exist and how would you expect them to prove it (or why would you)? Regardless of whether they have had the snip some women like bareback and some don’t. Unless someone was looking to ‘breed’ it’s not even a consideration is it? |
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"I’m sorry to admit but this had me laughing out loud. How on earth can men prove they’ve had the snip? It’s like asking a woman to prove she’s been sterilised "
To be fair, I have some quite distinctive scarring from my steralisation.
I suppose it could have been another laparoscopic surgery but why would I lie? |
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"To answer the OPs questions, of course they exist and how would you expect them to prove it (or why would you)? Regardless of whether they have had the snip some women like bareback and some don’t. Unless someone was looking to ‘breed’ it’s not even a consideration is it?"
When I had mine done I got an email with the all clear so easy to have at hand and easy to prove. |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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"I’m sorry to admit but this had me laughing out loud. How on earth can men prove they’ve had the snip? It’s like asking a woman to prove she’s been sterilised "
Unless men still have the letter of test results mine is somewhere |
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By *oddamnCouple 35 weeks ago
leicestershire |
I had the 'snip', but it wasn't a snip. They used a laser to cut and cauterize in one, and it does not make one jot what painkiller they have injected, when you see smoke rising and can smell your burnt nutsack it hurts!
But you should still play safe, even if he has been done. |
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By *ob.42Man 35 weeks ago
Near Yarmouth |
"I’m sorry to admit but this had me laughing out loud. How on earth can men prove they’ve had the snip? It’s like asking a woman to prove she’s been sterilised "
I have the vasectomy scar on my ballbag. |
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By *ob.42Man 35 weeks ago
Near Yarmouth |
"I had the 'snip', but it wasn't a snip. They used a laser to cut and cauterize in one, and it does not make one jot what painkiller they have injected, when you see smoke rising and can smell your burnt nutsack it hurts!
But you should still play safe, even if he has been done."
I had the same procedure, no pain during, not even when the needles went in for anaesthetic. I watched mine being done, I wanted to know it was done properly  |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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"Just curious, have people had any experience of guys on here thats had the snip?
Do they exist and did they prove it?
Wondering if there are any of you out there?  "
Had it 35 yrs ago and have the scars to prove it.  |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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"I’m sorry to admit but this had me laughing out loud. How on earth can men prove they’ve had the snip? It’s like asking a woman to prove she’s been sterilised "
It's an operation and leaves two scars!  |
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By *ev_1Couple 35 weeks ago
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"I’m sorry to admit but this had me laughing out loud. How on earth can men prove they’ve had the snip? It’s like asking a woman to prove she’s been sterilised
It's an operation and leaves two scars! "
incorrect depends on where you have it done !! |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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"I’m sorry to admit but this had me laughing out loud. How on earth can men prove they’ve had the snip? It’s like asking a woman to prove she’s been sterilised
It's an operation and leaves two scars! "
What sort of butcher did that? Good luck finding a 2 mm scar on a wrinkled ballsack, which in any case would have completely faded after a few years! |
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I've had the snip 25 years ago and since having it done I don’t produce as much semen as I used to, and it seems to dribble out rather than shoot, like used to but I still use protection with new partners |
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"I’m sorry to admit but this had me laughing out loud. How on earth can men prove they’ve had the snip? It’s like asking a woman to prove she’s been sterilised
It's an operation and leaves two scars!
What sort of butcher did that? Good luck finding a 2 mm scar on a wrinkled ballsack, which in any case would have completely faded after a few years! "
I got mine done about 1987 and I have 2 scars - 1 on each side |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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Da had his cut about 2 cms burnt and tied then tucked back in he said the bit they removed looked like a bit of macaroni he has a small scare but everything works fine and his loads good to |
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I had the snip 20 years ago.
I've no idea how to prove it - other than plenty of shagging for a few weeks not producing a result - ther than the fun in the meantime of course
Nothing on the NHS app... |
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"I’m sorry to admit but this had me laughing out loud. How on earth can men prove they’ve had the snip? It’s like asking a woman to prove she’s been sterilised "
quite easily actually we have a small scar down the centre of our ball sacke |
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"I’m sorry to admit but this had me laughing out loud. How on earth can men prove they’ve had the snip? It’s like asking a woman to prove she’s been sterilised "
You get an email with results that it’s worked |
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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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Just recently had mine done, the no cut burn your balls with a soldering iron technique lol still in the probabtion period till i can have a sample tested but have 2 tiny scars |
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"I’m sorry to admit but this had me laughing out loud. How on earth can men prove they’ve had the snip? It’s like asking a woman to prove she’s been sterilised
You get an email with results that it’s worked"
Email? I was never given that option, just had to send some samples in for testing. |
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Had the snip years ago but hard to prove, I dont carry my med records with me. Always play safe except with my wife. Snip only stops the little wriggly fellas not the fluid. My advice doesnt matter what the guy says play safe and stay safe. |
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I got the snip about 8 years ago and it's definitely the best one thing sexually I've ever done.
That said, I always wear protection with someone new, it's not just babies you're trying not to end up with. |
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"Just curious, have people had any experience of guys on here thats had the snip?
Do they exist and did they prove it?
Had the snip 30+ years ago, but never been asked about it. How do you proove it anyway?
Wondering if there are any of you out there? "
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I've had it done. To prove it, only my word but trust me when I say my balls were the colour of the night sky for days and felt like they were used as a punch bag. Speaking to any one who been through that, I can rekate, that is good enough for me. |
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I’ve had the snip, probably about 7-8 years ago. I still sometimes get ball ache in my left ball, apparently a side effect of the procedure.
Just to add, the side effect doesn’t discriminate to just the left ball, but that’s just the ball I get the dull ache in.
It’s not a major issue, just a bit of a ball ache
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"You can prove a snip as it leaves a scar that is about 1cm long at the base of the cock usually shows up as a far lighter skin colour. "
I had mine done 28 or so years ago yes for a few years could find scar but long since faded
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"I’ve had the snip, probably about 7-8 years ago. I still sometimes get ball ache in my left ball, apparently a side effect of the procedure.
Just to add, the side effect doesn’t discriminate to just the left ball, but that’s just the ball I get the dull ache in.
It’s not a major issue, just a bit of a ball ache
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Am just the same with dull ache from time to time... |
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"I’ve had the snip, probably about 7-8 years ago. I still sometimes get ball ache in my left ball, apparently a side effect of the procedure.
Just to add, the side effect doesn’t discriminate to just the left ball, but that’s just the ball I get the dull ache in.
It’s not a major issue, just a bit of a ball ache
I had this ball ache for ages and was told to wear tighter underwear to support my balls
Am just the same with dull ache from time to time..."
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"I foolishly trusted a man on here several years ago who told me he had had the snip
He liedyou had his kid ?
I had an abortion "
That's awful what a bell end I can feel where they did mine doesn't hurt at all |
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"I’ve had the snip, probably about 7-8 years ago. I still sometimes get ball ache in my left ball, apparently a side effect of the procedure.
Just to add, the side effect doesn’t discriminate to just the left ball, but that’s just the ball I get the dull ache in.
It’s not a major issue, just a bit of a ball ache
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It's my right one that gets the dull ache ever since vasectomy. Guess this is the perfect place to ask if you want to swap for the weekend ? |
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"I’ve had the snip, probably about 7-8 years ago. I still sometimes get ball ache in my left ball, apparently a side effect of the procedure.
Just to add, the side effect doesn’t discriminate to just the left ball, but that’s just the ball I get the dull ache in.
It’s not a major issue, just a bit of a ball ache
It's my right one that gets the dull ache ever since vasectomy. Guess this is the perfect place to ask if you want to swap for the weekend ?"
Haha yeah sure, we can switch between who is dull ache free and who soldiers on with both achey balls |
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By *94meeMan 30 weeks ago
Manchester |
No aching here.
I was done about 11 years ago.
I'd say my spunk isn't as thick since but certainly fires a bit further I think.
Leaks a bit more precum during play which is actually well received  |
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By *luefire2Couple 30 weeks ago
just somewhere around here |
Probably lots of men out there who have had the snip, my Husband being one of them. He had it done before we met, over 13 years ago. I don't have kids, never wanted them so no big deal to me.
Not sure what the point of your post is? Are you asking advice about it? Why would it matter anyway? We still play safely regardless of him not producing "swimmers".
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Had mine 8 years ago. Scar is visible if you know what you're looking for but small.me or the wife haven't noticed any difference in anything but unless you carry med records about with you no way to prove, always play safe is best |
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Had the snip in the December... Quite painful at the time and for a week or so after but all seems great now I'd never know apart from a very small scar. Still play safe though, there's more to worry about than pregnancy. P |
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I had my snip done yesterday so out of action for a couple of weeks and then the long wait to get that all clear haha
Was in and out within 1hr and as for the keyhole surgery 10mins and done no pain at all |
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Had the snip five years ago wrestled with it emotionally at first as you realise you can’t have kids anymore
Did have some pain at first afterwards though
Now I think best thing not had to use with girlfriends can fire away so to speak
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Had mine done on Sat.
6mins and done. No pain. Keyhole.
Not been great on the recovery, left ball feels like I’ve been kicked in the nuts. Going to the loo is really uncomfortable.
Hoping by the weekend to be on the mend.
Constant boners and wife asking when I’ll be ready.
lol.
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"Just curious, have people had any experience of guys on here thats had the snip?
Do they exist and did they prove it?
Wondering if there are any of you out there? "
Having the snip doesn't negate the need for wearing condoms... there's no need to prove it.
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"Men dont get a certificate to say congratulations you’ve had the snip.
Still use contraception until you are confident who you are meeting…. Or wait 9 months and see if he is telling the truth. "
You don't get certificate but you do get a letter after you take sample in 4 months after having snip to confirm no little swimmers in sample |
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"Just curious, have people had any experience of guys on here thats had the snip?
Do they exist and did they prove it?
Wondering if there are any of you out there? "
Sorry accidentally sent message! Had the snip 10 years ago. Had send the sample after 2 weeks of not being allowed to cum! My wife “helped” me to get the sample and it was like an explosion in a paint factory! 2 weeks is a long time! Then I got a letter a week or so after sending the sample confirming my sperm count was zero. The sample kit was given to me at the time of the procedure. I still have the letter somewhere. |
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"We do exist. I always prove it by not bringing any children along.
I could bring my scanning electron microscope but it looks suspicious sat on the bar and doesn't fit in the mrs' handbag.
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That wouldn't be fun, nowt to see.
But a microscope is fun with someone who hasn't had one. On a second meet that's exactly what we did. I recommend it |
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Had mine done 7 days ago..still feel like someone punch me in the sack..but is constant dull pain,still wearing the annoying supportive type underwear,feel like i carry heavy weight with me from sperm accumulation..veen told have to have at least 20 ejaculations and then can send sample to check if swimmers left...question for the one that had it..how long will continue this sensation? I had no bruising or pain in first 6 hrs after snip.. |
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"Had mine done 7 days ago..still feel like someone punch me in the sack..but is constant dull pain,still wearing the annoying supportive type underwear,feel like i carry heavy weight with me from sperm accumulation..veen told have to have at least 20 ejaculations and then can send sample to check if swimmers left...question for the one that had it..how long will continue this sensation? I had no bruising or pain in first 6 hrs after snip.."
I had it done about 8 weeks ago, had the dull pain on and off for about 2 week's, then it just went. I did carry on wearing tight briefs, till it went though.
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I had the snip 14 years ago, no scars to prove as my procedure was done by the ‘hot knife’ method, basically the same as an electric solder iron; it cuts and cauterises at the same time
I’ve had no issues/pain since, and my ejaculate production is as voluminous as ever… |
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"Just curious, have people had any experience of guys on here thats had the snip?
Do they exist and did they prove it?
Wondering if there are any of you out there? "
Tell them to have a wank first. There should be no sperm so the cum is runny and not globular.
I found women who frowned upon swallowing were more willing to do so with watery ejaculate. |
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Getting an appointment is turning out to be an ordeal I've had an appointment where they decided not to do it and I need a hospital visit for it but they phoned last week offering me the same appointment as 18 months ok. The left hand doesn't know what the right is doing |
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By (user no longer on site) 19 weeks ago
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I have the scars and I ended up with a granuloma prob my fault because I got on a motocross bike 2 days after lol it can be a bit of a pain now and then when it gets inflamed so yeah if you get it done chill for a week |
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I had the snip a long time ago, actually when I was in my late 20s.
Its a very personal thing, and I didn't want to have any complex parenting issues from lovers outside of the lifestyle.
It's very much the norm, and appreciated by many in the lifestyle. |
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Had the snip and yes you can prove it if you still have your medical appointment letter for your procedure and your follow up letter when you go in to give a sperm sample to check it worked I think I have mine still somewhere |
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