"I have always enjoyed spanking my fellow hotwives/submissive partners, how do you usually find out limits for them if it's a one night stand ?"
I would not be doing anything like that with a one night stand
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As someone who is submissive and loves a spanking, I'd not trust a one night stand or randomers to do that. I'm not one for the more extreme flogging, whippings or canings where there are whelts or breaking the skin. So I would find it hard to trust that they didn't take it too far despite safe words etc, if I don't know them, I can't trust them after one conversation. |
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"I have always enjoyed spanking my fellow hotwives/submissive partners, how do you usually find out limits for them if it's a one night stand ? I would not be doing anything like that with a one night stand "
I understand, it's for people who specially want it for a day |
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TBH I try to be positive and judgment free and give constructive and helpful advice.
First I am unusual and I don't value words such as "trust" and "communication" by themselves. Anyone can say those words and many people do without knowing what underpins those words.
The point is to break the procesx into the concrete steps that can be acted upon. If asked how to drive a car, you don't say get in the car, use the steering wheel and pedals. There is a huge amount to establishing trust and carrying out effective communication.
But when it comes to a one night stand the type of trust and communication is different.
I have been there many times.
My advice to OP is don't take shortcuts by asking people. If you are serious about being a sadist and a Dominant do the research there is lot of information out there, do the research and or get mentoring.
I am seriously worried thst you are putting yourself forward as s sadist and a Dom and you have to ask such a basic question.
At the very most I would describe what you do as Topping but you don't seem to understand that as Topping is bottom lead. However, you give me the vibe of a hedonist swinger masquerading as a Dominant. I say this as someone who plays in both the sensual space and the sadistic space.
Clearly,there may be more to you than this thread or profile. If I am being unfair I am happy to unreservedly apologise. But no experienced sadist or impact Dominant that I know would have asked your question.
Good luck.
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"TBH I try to be positive and judgment free and give constructive and helpful advice.
First I am unusual and I don't value words such as "trust" and "communication" by themselves. Anyone can say those words and many people do without knowing what underpins those words.
The point is to break the procesx into the concrete steps that can be acted upon. If asked how to drive a car, you don't say get in the car, use the steering wheel and pedals. There is a huge amount to establishing trust and carrying out effective communication.
But when it comes to a one night stand the type of trust and communication is different.
I have been there many times.
My advice to OP is don't take shortcuts by asking people. If you are serious about being a sadist and a Dominant do the research there is lot of information out there, do the research and or get mentoring.
I am seriously worried thst you are putting yourself forward as s sadist and a Dom and you have to ask such a basic question.
At the very most I would describe what you do as Topping but you don't seem to understand that as Topping is bottom lead. However, you give me the vibe of a hedonist swinger masquerading as a Dominant. I say this as someone who plays in both the sensual space and the sadistic space.
Clearly,there may be more to you than this thread or profile. If I am being unfair I am happy to unreservedly apologise. But no experienced sadist or impact Dominant that I know would have asked your question.
Good luck.
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