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By *eachcpl OP Couple 52 weeks ago
blackpool/preston/normandy france |
Have to say as the female I just wonder where some guys learn the art of chatting up or seduction.
For example, had a guy this morning who sent his first message saying "I want to fuck you".
Whatever happened to guys who were capable of putting a message together which actually got your interest. They used to exist but seems not on here |
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By *tms1xCouple 52 weeks ago
Chelmsford |
"Have to say as the female I just wonder where some guys learn the art of chatting up or seduction.
For example, had a guy this morning who sent his first message saying "I want to fuck you".
Whatever happened to guys who were capable of putting a message together which actually got your interest. They used to exist but seems not on here "
He was a touch of class lol |
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"Have to say as the female I just wonder where some guys learn the art of chatting up or seduction.
For example, had a guy this morning who sent his first message saying "I want to fuck you".
Whatever happened to guys who were capable of putting a message together which actually got your interest. They used to exist but seems not on here "
What a silver-tongued cavalier!  |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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I think it has to do with people’s mindset about this website.
From forum posts and statuses it is clear some guys just view women on here as objects that they can freely abuse, especially if they are ‘rejected’
I would prefer if everyone on here had to be a site supporter to access the site as it would remove a lot of the weirdos on here.
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"Have to say as the female I just wonder where some guys learn the art of chatting up or seduction.
For example, had a guy this morning who sent his first message saying "I want to fuck you".
Whatever happened to guys who were capable of putting a message together which actually got your interest. They used to exist but seems not on here "
When are you meeting him?  |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"I don't want seduction.
I think a lot of people not just men think that we're all here for sex (I know that isn't the case) so they might as well get straight to the point"
To be honest, I'm terrible at chatting people up and seduction. I do and would rather just be direct and have fun chatting to people than trying to pretend to be all swarve and seduce-y on people. If I did try to, I'd probably feel as though I'm trying to manipulate them. |
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"I don't want seduction.
I think a lot of people not just men think that we're all here for sex (I know that isn't the case) so they might as well get straight to the point
To be honest, I'm terrible at chatting people up and seduction. I do and would rather just be direct and have fun chatting to people than trying to pretend to be all swarve and seduce-y on people. If I did try to, I'd probably feel as though I'm trying to manipulate them."
Personally I just want a man to treat me as if I'm a person with the ability to decide whether or not I'd like to meet them without them having to resort to seduction techniques. Of course I want to feel as if they find me attractive etc and I'm not going to respond to crude requests "it's not going to suck itself love" won't cut it  . |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"I think it has to do with people’s mindset about this website.
From forum posts and statuses it is clear some guys just view women on here as objects that they can freely abuse, especially if they are ‘rejected’
I would prefer if everyone on here had to be a site supporter to access the site as it would remove a lot of the weirdos on here.
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My abuser had 2 accounts. Both with subscriptions  |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"I think it has to do with people’s mindset about this website.
From forum posts and statuses it is clear some guys just view women on here as objects that they can freely abuse, especially if they are ‘rejected’
I would prefer if everyone on here had to be a site supporter to access the site as it would remove a lot of the weirdos on here.
My abuser had 2 accounts. Both with subscriptions "
Sorry to hear! It won’t stop it unfortunately but I do believe it would remove the majority. |
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"I don't want seduction.
I think a lot of people not just men think that we're all here for sex (I know that isn't the case) so they might as well get straight to the point"
My thoughts exactly. Besides, well written messages still get ignored the same, so might as well just get straight to the point  It is what it is and some women and couples like it and some don't. You can't please everyone. |
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By *oxy jWoman 52 weeks ago
somerset |
"It gives the rest of us a bad name. Makes it increasingly difficult for genuine men"
no it does not it give the person a bad name for himself your responsible for your self not others .... so stop hiding behind those so called bad guys your responsible for your self you getting anywhere on this scene is down to yourself stop using other as a excuse for getting nowhere ...
if people want to meet you they will soon let you know just as they wont if they dont  |
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By *oxy jWoman 52 weeks ago
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"Have to say as the female I just wonder where some guys learn the art of chatting up or seduction.
For example, had a guy this morning who sent his first message saying "I want to fuck you".
Whatever happened to guys who were capable of putting a message together which actually got your interest. They used to exist but seems not on here "
its 95% of my messages is sex talk but im fine with it as it instantly tells me im not interested and str8 block to me its just a great filter....nothing like a guy making your mind up for you saves wasting time and 100% going on block list ...
worse one is younger guys ... will you be my mummy so i can fuck mummy  |
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Not just the guys who are socially inept and probably sexually too.
The ladies within and outside of a couple are sometimes as bad.
Looked at Blind Dates on the TV and found it equally laughable but very sad too.
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By *essaMayWoman 52 weeks ago
Fairytale Wood |
"It gives the rest of us a bad name. Makes it increasingly difficult for genuine men
no it does not it give the person a bad name for himself your responsible for your self not others .... so stop hiding behind those so called bad guys your responsible for your self you getting anywhere on this scene is down to yourself stop using other as a excuse for getting nowhere ...
if people want to meet you they will soon let you know just as they wont if they dont "
This is very much the case and if i was looking would put me straight off. See it all the time in the forums sure the others do also. Hiding behind others for your own failings as well "fake profile" cry doesn't cut it. Said this before .
The I'm not like the other guys stance is the same as every other guy doing same thing, which means in effect you are just like the other guys.
Id respond to someone who doesn't try and stand on someone else to be seen  |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"Have to say as the female I just wonder where some guys learn the art of chatting up or seduction.
For example, had a guy this morning who sent his first message saying "I want to fuck you".
Whatever happened to guys who were capable of putting a message together which actually got your interest. They used to exist but seems not on here "
The art of writing a good message is all but gone. We are all visual animals nowadays. |
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"Have to say as the female I just wonder where some guys learn the art of chatting up or seduction.
For example, had a guy this morning who sent his first message saying "I want to fuck you".
Whatever happened to guys who were capable of putting a message together which actually got your interest. They used to exist but seems not on here "
Mr has used the “fancy a fuck” chat up line in the real world with success. It’s how and who delivers it. |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"Have to say as the female I just wonder where some guys learn the art of chatting up or seduction.
For example, had a guy this morning who sent his first message saying "I want to fuck you".
Whatever happened to guys who were capable of putting a message together which actually got your interest. They used to exist but seems not on here
Mr has used the “fancy a fuck” chat up line in the real world with success. It’s how and who delivers it."
This is very true. I know a guy whose chat up line is "do you take it up your ass?" He scores a lot. |
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By *rpeggioCouple 52 weeks ago
Baughurst |
"Have to say as the female I just wonder where some guys learn the art of chatting up or seduction.
For example, had a guy this morning who sent his first message saying "I want to fuck you".
Whatever happened to guys who were capable of putting a message together which actually got your interest. They used to exist but seems not on here
Mr has used the “fancy a fuck” chat up line in the real world with success. It’s how and who delivers it."
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More like who's delivered it on to. |
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By *rpeggioCouple 52 weeks ago
Baughurst |
"Thanks for the tip OP
I’m going to message someone saying I want to put my penis in your vagina. Classy huh "
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It doesn't matter how crude or seductive the words. The moment anyone writes to us saying "I want..." it's game over. |
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By *weet6Woman 52 weeks ago
East Riding |
"Have to say as the female I just wonder where some guys learn the art of chatting up or seduction.
For example, had a guy this morning who sent his first message saying "I want to fuck you".
Whatever happened to guys who were capable of putting a message together which actually got your interest. They used to exist but seems not on here "
Christ! That was polite!! |
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"Have to say as the female I just wonder where some guys learn the art of chatting up or seduction.
For example, had a guy this morning who sent his first message saying "I want to fuck you".
Whatever happened to guys who were capable of putting a message together which actually got your interest. They used to exist but seems not on here "
He might used his best lines on you, when wrote that |
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I don’t think I’m as blunt as that, but admittedly, I have never been any good at chatting up people. From a younger age, when us friends used to play together boys and girls, we just went out with each other and that is what it was like Into my adult hood and I was always chatted up by women, so have never learned or been any good at chatting women up |
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"It gives the rest of us a bad name. Makes it increasingly difficult for genuine men"
On the contrary, the behaviour of the majority Neanderthals allows an occasional half-decent chap to stand out from the crowd. |
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