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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do many couples have a set of rules, as in do's and dont's when meeting others? If one of those rules was broken by your partner on a meet, what would you do or how would you feel? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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my hubby doesnt like it when someone wants to keep seeing me, or keep sending text messages, or who outstay their welcome.
he doesnt worry too much though because i get bored with people quite quickly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on the rule I guess lol, we are always talking about our guidelines ( as we like to call them as rules are alittle regimental) and adjusting accordingly,
For example when we first started we had the usual " no kissing on the lips" thing but it just didn't feel natural or sensual so we talked about it and changed it x communication is the key between couples  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've nothing against rules - in fact I'd be worried if couples had none!
But do feel sometimes people would come across as more approachable and less stroppy if they'd discuss these via PM/email/phone call with those they're looking to play with - rather than use 90% of their profile text to compile a list in block capitals!
And I'd be surprised if I was the only one who'd come across couples who's actual play does tend to contradict their profiles on site - not that that's ever been any reason to complain.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm on here as a single guy but I do have a woman who knows I'm on here. Our rules are condoms, no cancelling our plans for them, no bringing them home. I added in no trading of phone numbers unless I get lost, but then it'll be a 141 call.
I won't break any of those, I'm lucky to be allowed to play. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've nothing against rules - in fact I'd be worried if couples had none!
But do feel sometimes people would come across as more approachable and less stroppy if they'd discuss these via PM/email/phone call with those they're looking to play with - rather than use 90% of their profile text to compile a list in block capitals!
And I'd be surprised if I was the only one who'd come across couples who's actual play does tend to contradict their profiles on site - not that that's ever been any reason to complain. "
Totally agree. I met a couple when i first started on here. The do's and don'ts was discussed beforehand as you do. When i got there, the gal went down on me and the guy started waving his cock in my face! I got up and left. (this was one of my don'ts).
Oh, and their profile said fem was bi and guy was straight, lol. |
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"I met a couple when i first started on here. The do's and don'ts was discussed beforehand as you do. When i got there, the gal went down on me and the guy started waving his cock in my face! I got up and left. (this was one of my don'ts).
Oh, and their profile said fem was bi and guy was straight, lol."
Sounds like a good evening. 
As far as I can see some members put precious little effort into checking their profiles. I particularly find the members who say in their preferences they want "a man" and then in the profile text "SINGLE MEN WILL BE SHOT ON SIGHT!" Go figure?   |
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My partner and I basically have two rules. The big one 'use protection' goes without saying. The other (my rule to her mainly) is that if either of ever feels pressurised or uncomfortable in any way, they'll say so immediately, not just 'put up with it'.
Until now we've had a no seeing singles too regularly thing but after a year with no issues I don't think either of us is bothered about that any more.
Communication- enjoyment. |
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"Depends who we are playing with,one big no no for her is anal ,safe sex for all guys we meet at club,and we both have to tell of any solo meets planned, "
Yeah, that's another one for us too actually, the solo meet part. With the exception of a cheating fantasy I've asked Rach to do to me one day and that I might do back, we always want to know what each other's doing. That's where the fun is after all |
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