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By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago
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Most of the guys here who claim to be doms are not and have no clue as to what an actual dom is.
But yes there are many women that are doms, i know several. They are usually on fettish sites rather than sites like this you'd be better looking there. |
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"Is it just men that are the Doms and wanting to own? Or are there more women wanting to own a plaything like me but more longer term caged and modified?? "
There are plenty of dominant women who are into m/s play. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t think they “want” to own.
As for Dommes they are fewer and far between but definitely exist
If you go to a bdsm club it’s probably about 50/50 on a general night."
I do!!
But that’s within that environment, if specifically looking on here it’s a minority |
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"I don’t think they “want” to own.
As for Dommes they are fewer and far between but definitely exist
If you go to a bdsm club it’s probably about 50/50 on a general night.
I do!!
But that’s within that environment, if specifically looking on here it’s a minority "
That's because on here most of the men who say they are dom have never dabbled with bdsm in their life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t think they “want” to own.
As for Dommes they are fewer and far between but definitely exist
If you go to a bdsm club it’s probably about 50/50 on a general night.
I do!!
But that’s within that environment, if specifically looking on here it’s a minority
That's because on here most of the men who say they are dom have never dabbled with bdsm in their life."
Everyone starts somewhere, most have made mistakes along the way.
If being a Dom(me) is your USP and angle of approach to here or anywhere you will attract some and not others.
There are those, as you know, who are lifestyle, play partners or findom(me), and many other variations of it.
For me as long as you’re honest with what you want and what you are looking for, operate within SSC, RACK and PRICK then fair play |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don’t think they “want” to own.
As for Dommes they are fewer and far between but definitely exist
If you go to a bdsm club it’s probably about 50/50 on a general night.
I do!!
But that’s within that environment, if specifically looking on here it’s a minority
That's because on here most of the men who say they are dom have never dabbled with bdsm in their life."
Also the same for many who say they are submissive |
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At the NYE event at The Annex I’d say it was 50:50 when it came to gender split of the Dominants. Actually that’s not true it was more 40:40:20
But in short if you are truly looking for D/s commitment (possibly contracted and high protocol) then I think you would find someone who wants to.
We are very much D/s in bedroom and kink play, but not D/s in rest of our life. |
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"I don’t think they “want” to own.
As for Dommes they are fewer and far between but definitely exist
If you go to a bdsm club it’s probably about 50/50 on a general night.
I do!!
But that’s within that environment, if specifically looking on here it’s a minority
That's because on here most of the men who say they are dom have never dabbled with bdsm in their life.
Also the same for many who say they are submissive "
Yes, that's true. It's very hard to find a lifestyle sub that you click with. |
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