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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is there anything that I can let the wife try to spice things up
Since her menopause 10 yrs ago she has dried up and lost all of her llabido but she used to be so horns all the time
Help us please xx |
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"Is there anything that I can let the wife try to spice things up
Since her menopause 10 yrs ago she has dried up and lost all of her llabido but she used to be so horns all the time
Help us please xx"
She should go to the GP. There can be a whole host of reasons why women are no longer in the mood for sex, and not all of them can be solved with a pill.
It's also worth spending time and examining your relationship. Do you act in a way that makes her want to have sex with you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there anything that I can let the wife try to spice things up
Since her menopause 10 yrs ago she has dried up and lost all of her llabido but she used to be so horns all the time
Help us please xx
She should go to the GP. There can be a whole host of reasons why women are no longer in the mood for sex, and not all of them can be solved with a pill.
It's also worth spending time and examining your relationship. Do you act in a way that makes her want to have sex with you?"
This. I don't have a partner but this comment sounds as sensible and logical as you could get.  |
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"Is there anything that I can let the wife try to spice things up
Since her menopause 10 yrs ago she has dried up and lost all of her llabido but she used to be so horns all the time
Help us please xx
She should go to the GP. There can be a whole host of reasons why women are no longer in the mood for sex, and not all of them can be solved with a pill.
It's also worth spending time and examining your relationship. Do you act in a way that makes her want to have sex with you?"
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By *abonTedCouple
over a year ago
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Talk
Listen
Question
Listen
Self reflect
Listen
Give space
Self reflect
(Try?) instill trust
Self reflect
(Try?) understand
Find common goals
Be kind to each other
Get counselling?
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Exactly the same happened with my wife, as soon as the menopause kicked in she dried up and lost all interest in sex.
We went private and they tested her testosterone levels and they were very low. She was started on testosterone gel and within 3 months she's changed completely, her sex drive has gone through the roof.
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"Is there anything that I can let the wife try to spice things up
Since her menopause 10 yrs ago she has dried up and lost all of her llabido but she used to be so horns all the time
Help us please xx"
HRT Will do it |
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