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By *al kal OP Man 47 weeks ago
london |
For purely my own academic curiosity, which mf couples have had a situation whereby you are both comfortable with the wife having a regular friend (another male) with her to go on dates or nights, weekends away with and anything goes (hubby waits at home)? In this scenario hubby also gets along on with this friend, all very fab friendly.
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Mr and his ex had a similar agreement. Bith had special friends. Mr's FB was his ex's best friend in fact. Mrs would go away for the weekend and Mr's FB would stay with him...usuay tied up for most of the weekend! |
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Mrs Ruth has a boy friend with whom she dates. The photo in our gallery of Mrs Ruth naked on a hotel balcony was taken during a weekend away with the b/f.
I have met the guy many times, sometimes teaming up with him to pleasure Ruth and he is a really sound gentleman.
Am I worried they will run off together? No! I know emotionally her heart is mine. At the end of the day it is just sex, fun and fondness with the b/f. |
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"For purely my own academic curiosity, which mf couples have had a situation whereby you are both comfortable with the wife having a regular friend (another male) with her to go on dates or nights, weekends away with and anything goes (hubby waits at home)? In this scenario hubby also gets along on with this friend, all very fab friendly.
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Absolutely. This is something we’ve done once before and if the situation arose with the right guy then something we’d enjoy exploring again. |
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"For purely my own academic curiosity, which mf couples have had a situation whereby you are both comfortable with the wife having a regular friend (another male) with her to go on dates or nights, weekends away with and anything goes (hubby waits at home)? In this scenario hubby also gets along on with this friend, all very fab friendly.
Absolutely. This is something we’ve done once before and if the situation arose with the right guy then something we’d enjoy exploring again. "
Shame that you are 150 miles away  |
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I was seeing a married woman who's husband knew about me and I met him on several occasions when I picked her up from her house.
We went away on several occasions,even to Lanzarote for a week.
The marital bed was used quite often with her husband being sent out while we were together.....great times. |
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I did this with my son's mother and another guy.They went on dates while I waited at home and the whole thing lasted for about 3 years.It is a wonderful experience when everything falls into place.
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By *al kal OP Man 47 weeks ago
london |
"I had a gf who was honest that she was wanting to see others too n it was a new thing to me n realised actually quite liked as the rule was she had to tell me every time "
Did you enjoy a reclaim/rebonding process afterwards? |
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By *BCambsCouple 47 weeks ago
Biggleswade |
It's incredibly difficult to meet a single guy that's interested in an ongoing relationship.
We often think we'd do very well living as a threesome, two men sharing one girl, but it's a dream and a fantasy too far away from reality. |
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"Adding to other couples comments, its quite hard to find a single guy who woud be happy with such an arrangement"
I’m honestly really surprised so many have said this ! Thought lots of men ( including me ) would jump at that opportunity in a way the fb has best of both worlds |
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By *ndianLuxCouple 47 weeks ago
West midlands |
We tried it once, had couple of meets then the lover got busy. Returned back on Fab and now fucking the whole sight almost every weekend.
Lost interest in the whole concept now.
Half of the single guys don’t reply in time. They wake up once in a week when they are horny.l, assuming that we would be free. Haha |
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"For purely my own academic curiosity, which mf couples have had a situation whereby you are both comfortable with the wife having a regular friend (another male) with her to go on dates or nights, weekends away with and anything goes (hubby waits at home)? In this scenario hubby also gets along on with this friend, all very fab friendly.
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It’s something we would be up for IF we found the right guy |
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By *al kal OP Man 47 weeks ago
london |
"This is what we have been looking for but unfortunately it’s harder to find than what we had imagined!
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It’s something I thought I nearly found. However the lady already had a regular bf that her hubby was fine with.
I didn’t want to be that spare spare tire.
It’s nice to hear from those who managed to
make it a reality.
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From our experience and it may be different for others, because a lot of bulls are married, it’s always good if your wife has a stable of 3 or 4 bulls that she can call on to take her out for lunch, out for an evening drink, even away for a weekend.
Ultimately it is good to have a bull totally committed to your cuckold relationship and become almost a second husband, but again that can cause problems if the bull wants the hotwife to become the full time partner, lots to consider ! |
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"I’m honestly really surprised so many have said this ! Thought lots of men ( including me ) would jump at that opportunity in a way the fb has best of both worlds "
Lots of men on here would jump at the opportunity, but then after one or two meets would get bored. 95% of the single men on here are deluding themselves about what they actually want. |
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By *mma29Couple 47 weeks ago
wirral |
We only really like to have one regular guy we trust. Finding someone who understands its and what that too is the hard bit. We had one guy for over a year.
Lots of guy will tell you what you want to hear and then do the opposite. Most just want sex then move onto the next. It's fine but they won't admit that. We are good now at making sure we find exactly what we want and never rush into anything.
As we can see lots of other couples are into this too and have similar problems. But it is definitely possible.  |
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I was the BF of a hot wife for about 6 months or so. We'd go on dates, weekends or nights away, part of the deal was that I'd have to send her husband pictures of our fun together.
He was a decent guy, we eventually called a hault to it as she had started to develop deeper feelings towards me and that was never the plan.
We agreed to stop all contact.
It was fun while it lasted. |
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"We only really like to have one regular guy we trust. Finding someone who understands its and what that too is the hard bit. We had one guy for over a year.
Lots of guy will tell you what you want to hear and then do the opposite. Most just want sex then move onto the next. It's fine but they won't admit that. We are good now at making sure we find exactly what we want and never rush into anything.
As we can see lots of other couples are into this too and have similar problems. But it is definitely possible. "
we only look to play if we are sure its going to be long term, so many guys say yes to it but in reality there just looking for another notch , meeting for a drink first you can tell and when you and your wife work as a team you tend to out the ones who are not committed |
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By *mma29Couple 46 weeks ago
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"We only really like to have one regular guy we trust. Finding someone who understands its and what that too is the hard bit. We had one guy for over a year.
Lots of guy will tell you what you want to hear and then do the opposite. Most just want sex then move onto the next. It's fine but they won't admit that. We are good now at making sure we find exactly what we want and never rush into anything.
As we can see lots of other couples are into this too and have similar problems. But it is definitely possible.
we only look to play if we are sure its going to be long term, so many guys say yes to it but in reality there just looking for another notch , meeting for a drink first you can tell and when you and your wife work as a team you tend to out the ones who are not committed "
Yes I agree..you can just tell with little things. But anyone rushing us to meet is a instant no. Why rush if you want long term. |
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Me and my wife have a friend who we regularly fuck together but she often goes out with him and get d*unk or go for food and I wait at home for them. She finds it seriously hot and when they are out they both message me and we discuss what we are going to do with each other when they get back |
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"My wife had a lover she met every week for over 2 years, they went out for meal and drinks then back to his place for fun. I stayed at home and waited for pics of them playing"
That sounds like an ideal scenario all round ! |
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By *al kal OP Man 46 weeks ago
london |
"My wife had a lover she met every week for over 2 years, they went out for meal and drinks then back to his place for fun. I stayed at home and waited for pics of them playing
That sounds like an ideal scenario all round !"
It’s a win win win situation |
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Whore has a bloke she’s seen off and on for many years. In the last couple of years it’s turned into a more poly dynamic for her, where the emotional intimacy has increased. She’s away with her lover this weekend and I’m looking forward to hearing what she gets up to. |
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We had this situation many years ago and it worked well.
Becky has had a few FWB in the last few years but not on a regular basis, sometimes several months between meets. We travel a lot so it's not really surprising.
There have been several weekends away together with some guys staying with us for a week or so.
Works well for us...
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"Mrs Ruth has a boy friend with whom she dates. The photo in our gallery of Mrs Ruth naked on a hotel balcony was taken during a weekend away with the b/f.
I have met the guy many times, sometimes teaming up with him to pleasure Ruth and he is a really sound gentleman.
Am I worried they will run off together? No! I know emotionally her heart is mine. At the end of the day it is just sex, fun and fondness with the b/f. "
Whatever the case it makes for sensational pics!
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"For purely my own academic curiosity, which mf couples have had a situation whereby you are both comfortable with the wife having a regular friend (another male) with her to go on dates or nights, weekends away with and anything goes (hubby waits at home)? In this scenario hubby also gets along on with this friend, all very fab friendly.
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Yes we have had this many years ago and would be happy for it again. It’s very erotic. |
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By *al kal OP Man 43 weeks ago
london |
"For purely my own academic curiosity, which mf couples have had a situation whereby you are both comfortable with the wife having a regular friend (another male) with her to go on dates or nights, weekends away with and anything goes (hubby waits at home)? In this scenario hubby also gets along on with this friend, all very fab friendly.
Yes we have had this many years ago and would be happy for it again. It’s very erotic. "
It’s very erotic. Do we concur? I think so |
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My GF has a 'second boyfriend ' he is Arabic and only in the UK 4 or 5 times a year
They txt alot and swap pics and I've even seen her
'video call wankin ' with him
When he is in the UK on business she will go and stay with him at his hotel usually in London for the weekend or sometimes longer |
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"If my partner said she 100% wanted a boyfriend/fuck buddy etc I'd wish her luck then end the relationship "
Yet you are on a swingers site looking to fuck other guys wife’s/girlfriends without any concern presumably?
More than a little bit hypocritical.
Can’t stand guys who hold attitudes like this. |
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"Who else may have given this situation a go?"
We would definitely be open to this sort of arrangement. I have shared my wife with other guys over the years but it’s always been in a group situation.
Lately we have been chatting a lot about her finding a regular boyfriend to meet on her own. I work long hours so if we could find the right guy she could meet him whilst I’m working, go out to bars. Even stay over at his place.
I quite like the idea of returning home from a long days work to find her naked in bed entertaining him.
We did actually start contacting a few guys on fab but got frustrated with their game playing. I mean it’s not complicated - meet my wife and fuck her regularly. |
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" I mean it’s not complicated - meet my wife and fuck her regularly. "
Getting an offer like that would be one of the single most memorable moments of my life. I would jump at the chance.
I still want a companionship and dating aspect in my life so if it was evenings out and occasional weekends away together as well as the regular fucks then that would be amazing. |
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Before anything physical happens it would be fun to find out more from the couple, possibly in independent conversations.
I'm thinking of things like what is the way to make her orgasm that's most likely to succeed vs the way that might not work but when it does, oh wow does it work.
Also discuss things like underwear with naughty slogans on, e.g. agreeing with her what she will wear when she gets ready, with his help, to come over to mine and what she might wear (if different) to go home so it's a big surprise for him.
These are some of the things that would turn me on if I had the naughty wife who was going out to play. |
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My wife and I are polyamorous. She has met guys on here more than once. Not so much as in a regular but that could be a consideration and not off the table. She has met them on her own, drinks and a bit of play after. Got to let go of the possessive feelings and trust in the strength of your relationship. We have been together for so long becuase we are right for each other. But we are human and have desires that we cant and in my opinion should supress. That way only leads to resentment, distrust and eventually cheating. ( I dont consider what we do as cheating as we both know what the other wants and is doing, open marraige means just that) ill get off this soap box now as my vertigo is kicking in. |
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What really makes me smile and sport a troiser tent is when she arrives home in different unfer wear to what she went in. But know she has had a really good time when the dress is also different, to spoiled to wear in public. |
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"I love the idea of my wife having a boyfriend. Having me for the love of having a husband and a boyfriend for the sexual side. "
there is something so poignant about when it her ecx husband she knows she doesnt want to live with him but misses the brilliant sex once hubby has accepted this it is great for eeveryone |
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I was lucky enough to experience this many years ago. She would come to my house without her husband but with his consent. Once she took photos for him. I got on well with her husband. I often went for a drink with him. He was very laid back and she was very sexy. We all got on. It was perfect but it's hard to find. It lasted many years. I would love to find a similar couple. |
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lol it impossible just to find a reliable man let alone form a longstanding relationship of regular meets. let downs and no shows statistically higher than reliability so the probability of this scenario is very low. |
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"For purely my own academic curiosity, which mf couples have had a situation whereby you are both comfortable with the wife having a regular friend (another male) with her to go on dates or nights, weekends away with and anything goes (hubby waits at home)? In this scenario hubby also gets along on with this friend, all very fab friendly.
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This sounds too good to be true it would be perfect! Xx |
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It would be a perfect scenario due ti my busy life schedule. Meet once or twice a week and some occasional time away. If hubby is bi even better. I’d be taking him and her on dates occasionally lol. I’d be happy to commit to be exclusive with such couple. |
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We have met a guy 4 or 5 times now, and he has become a friend. Sue has met him alone when he wanted some advice on home furnishings etc, and they went for a meal afterwards.
Id have no problem with them having a night away together but i guess she would be terrified of bumping into someone she knows |
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We have the strange situation of my mate of 30 years fucking her..but only occasionally...he knows I know... I know he knows..but we never talk about it...he has now become my lodger too..so hopefully more fun too come ! |
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