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She is gagging for it He has no idea

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By *ascBrenner OP Man 51 weeks ago

Bromley

Current live situation:

ExGF, very open to anything. We driffted apart.

Now she's with LTP, but bored and asking for fun.

Her view is he is vanilla through and through. Tried a few ideas and he rejected outright.

Have fucked her a couple pf times since the LTP, but she wants more.... not sure how best to approach.

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman 51 weeks ago

Manchester(ish).

Approach?

Don't know if you're boasting or asking for advice?

I'd get the fuck out of there ASAP. It has massive, avoidable drama, written all over it.

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By *IG G77Man 51 weeks ago

GATLEY

Sounds like she needs more fun

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By *hetalkingstoveMan 51 weeks ago

London

I'd approach it by not getting involved in cheating, but I'm guessing that's not the advice you're looking for.

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By *icecouple561Couple 51 weeks ago
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East Sussex

Is she going to stay with him and see you on the side? If you're ok with that and being the back up, go for it. Surely you're worth more than that though

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By *parkle1974Woman 51 weeks ago

Leeds

Suppose it'll be convenient for you to empty your sack when in the mood...both using each other...win win

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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago

Send her some Maltesers and Skittles in the post. That'll spice up her time with her LTP

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By *issmorganWoman 51 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

As long as you're prepared to deal with the consequences if he finds out, crack on.

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By *asha86Couple 51 weeks ago

walsall

Why be someone's option when you could be someone's 1st choice

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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago

Stupid is as stupid does….

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By *eavy Metal BallzMan 51 weeks ago

Birmingham

"Suppose it'll be convenient for you to empty your sack when in the mood...both using each other...win win"

You’re such a romantic

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By *ogWalkerDurhamMan 51 weeks ago

consett

Consent matters. Personally if he didn't know and consent i wouldn't go there. Ur not just fucking her ur also fucking their relationship by extension. Even though thats her prerogative still feels icky to me when you know he doesnt know.

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By *aizyWoman 51 weeks ago

west midlands

Sounds like you and your ex are made for each other, tell her LTP what you have both been up to so the poor bloke can get on with his life and have a chance of meeting someone he can trust.

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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago

Tell her to get her relationship sorted out one way or the other and keep out of it until it is.

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By *ittlebirdWoman 51 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

I would question whether all the acronyms are correct in your OP.

Ex GF?

LTP?

The only thing I know for sure is you play with fire you’re going to be burned.

Your choice as it’s not my circus or my clowns.

But an ex is an ex for a reason…