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By *aytie0 OP Woman 48 weeks ago
Seaham |
I’m curious what men enjoy about gangbangs given it goes against your apparent evolutionary, primal nature to ensure your seed impregnates egg and all that jazz? I’m not judging I love gangbangs and can obviously understand why women love being the centre of attention but would like to know why men enjoy it instead of having a woman to yourself?
Also curious about whether it makes a difference whether the F is your partner or a stranger and how this interest differs between bulls and cuck and what they get out of it ? |
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I prefer a woman to myself, my girlfriend, occasionally likes to have two cocks to play, with which I love, watching her, and pleasing her, where she likes to be centre of attention. More than two is a no go |
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I’ve never gangbanged with partner so can’t answer that part. Taken part in 3 and I personally love seeing the girl loving the attention and having fun. Also like seeing all the guys hard and playing |
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By *r_PinkMan 48 weeks ago
london stratford |
"I’m curious what men enjoy about gangbangs given it goes against your apparent evolutionary, primal nature to ensure your seed impregnates egg and all that jazz? I’m not judging I love gangbangs and can obviously understand why women love being the centre of attention but would like to know why men enjoy it instead of having a woman to yourself?
Also curious about whether it makes a difference whether the F is your partner or a stranger and how this interest differs between bulls and cuck and what they get out of it ?"
I love group sex.
I also love fucking a freshly fucked woman.
As I am a very visually sexual person I love the whole looking and joining in factor of it.
I have fucked more mens wives then I have shared my own partner but tbh I do prefer the woman to be my partner as I love the whole "reclaiming" element of it!
I am not and never be the classic cuckold! I would be more of a Stag in this situation (though I like fucking different woman too much to be only a stag)
and when it comes to coming! i find I cum much more when I know the woman has been fucked already! I think its a subconsius thing in my mind that tells my sperm "right lads, you have competition, so you better squirt more then the other guy". but thats just me guessing!
I do wish you lived closer to me and fancied me, as I would love to fuck you after a few other!
again thats just me |
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By *agusMan 48 weeks ago
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Not done a gang bang but..I'd like to, would love pleasing the lady and being part of such a sexy experience, sex in front of a crowd, however I wouldn't want that lady being my girlfriend I'd hypocritly be to jealous. |
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By *batMan 48 weeks ago
Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales) |
".....would like to know why men enjoy it instead of having a woman to yourself?
Also curious about whether it makes a difference whether the F is your partner or a stranger ....?"
I haven't been in a full on gangbang, the closest I've enjoyed is 3 men and 2 women and several occasions of a crowded couples only room at a club. But from these broadly similar experiences, I'd answer you like this ....
For me, the group sex was very visually stimulating and there's nothing more erotic than when your partner keeps her eyes locked on yours as another man enters her.
In a MFM, I have enjoyed watching my partner being spoiled and the centre of attention. Her pleasure has increased my pleasure. It's hot!!
I've been the extra guy in MFM a few times and really enjoyed it, but not as much as when my partner and I have had another guy join us. So I think in a GB, I'd have preferred it with my partner being the centre of attention rather than a stranger.
Last but not least, women are incredibly powerful sexually and can fuck a whole room full of men if they want. Most men couldn't do the same the other way around, so it's good to have a few guys helping you to fulfil as much of her needs as she wants!
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".....would like to know why men enjoy it instead of having a woman to yourself?
Also curious about whether it makes a difference whether the F is your partner or a stranger ....?
I haven't been in a full on gangbang, the closest I've enjoyed is 3 men and 2 women and several occasions of a crowded couples only room at a club. But from these broadly similar experiences, I'd answer you like this ....
For me, the group sex was very visually stimulating and there's nothing more erotic than when your partner keeps her eyes locked on yours as another man enters her.
In a MFM, I have enjoyed watching my partner being spoiled and the centre of attention. Her pleasure has increased my pleasure. It's hot!!
I've been the extra guy in MFM a few times and really enjoyed it, but not as much as when my partner and I have had another guy join us. So I think in a GB, I'd have preferred it with my partner being the centre of attention rather than a stranger.
Last but not least, women are incredibly powerful sexually and can fuck a whole room full of men if they want. Most men couldn't do the same the other way around, so it's good to have a few guys helping you to fulfil as much of her needs as she wants!
Gbat "
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As a cuck I’ve watched my wife play with two or moresomes over the years, great for me to watch but the guys always say it’s the ultimate to play with a wife in a group and that ‘sperm competition’ theory does kick into their brains ! |
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By *oxy jWoman 48 weeks ago
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love a gang bang with hand picked men we've doner a few over the years were easeir to organise back then now its alot harder to do as so many guys think gang bangs dont need attraction ...
no chance ill ever do a gang bang where i dont select who in and whos out i only play with guys im sexually attracted to and hopefully them to be so yes love a pre selective gang bang  |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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Only had 2 gang bangs and although it can be tricky getting in on the action i think its the caveman in me that when its my turn with the woman that i have to give her something the others havent (yes i know we are all giving her cock lol ) but as you women know theres ways to give a woman cock . I tried to get deeper (i was the biggest there) or try and get her in a position or angle thats different for her and of course the seed competition is there for most of us i think even if we aren’t consciously thinking about it .
Thats just me anyway , hope it helps OP  |
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By *JandCMCouple 48 weeks ago
cardiff |
We have only had MFM meets as a couple, but I have met another woman as a single M n I perfure the MFM meets.
I just love to see another man satisfying my wife n hearing her moan as he is inside her. |
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We've done a couple of gangbangs, one with 4 and one with 7 guys. They were both organised and we didn't meet or even talk to any of the guys before the event. We love the being fucked by a random stranger scenario because unlike a lot of people we don't need any kind of connection to play in group situations. As the male half of the couple I get off on watching katie have fun and being her cameraman . Although the 7 guy gangbang was so hot that I dropped the camera and joined in so I guess that makes it a 8 guy gangbang
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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From a very ’blokey’ point of view, there’s something very animalistic about more than one guy fucking a female.. I get the whole sperm competition thing.
But for me it’s the intensity of a submissive woman being at the mercy of horned up men. And it’s a rarity for something like this to happen, so that also adds to the dirty energy of it all! |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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For me it’s about satisfying a woman.
I will cum more than once but with another guy you can extend the play time, try different aspects, DP, DVP, spit roast.
Happy being around other guys, and yes I think it’s a huge turn on, the level of testosterone rising in the room, and the sex is more intense. |
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The thing that I love about GB is the visual of seeing a lovely lady use and be serviced by a group of men.
I prefer bareback GB so that you get the chance to fuck a cum filled pussy and if there are enough of you the chance of recovery and being able to fuck the lady more than once..... |
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As a woman I obviously enjoy them. However, I did ask my other half just now, and he tells me that he isn't attracted to other men, but gets off from me being used like a slut and shared. I can't complain, I do enjoy group sex. |
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"I’m curious what men enjoy about gangbangs given it goes against your apparent evolutionary, primal nature to ensure your seed impregnates egg and all that jazz? I’m not judging I love gangbangs and can obviously understand why women love being the centre of attention but would like to know why men enjoy it instead of having a woman to yourself?
Also curious about whether it makes a difference whether the F is your partner or a stranger and how this interest differs between bulls and cuck and what they get out of it ?"
Personally I'm a stag so like to see a women shared/used if that's her preference, also love to join in cum sluts are my kink and get off so much on them, it's much better if they kiss too .... yum yum |
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By *rispyDuckMan 48 weeks ago
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Interesting thread & im very curious to the answers aswell. Im not into gangbangs & the thought of being in a room with a bunch of strange dudes jerking their dicks waiting for a turn  has never been appealing to me.
But each to their own & all that jazz lol  |
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"I’m curious what men enjoy about gangbangs given it goes against your apparent evolutionary, primal nature to ensure your seed impregnates egg and all that jazz? I’m not judging I love gangbangs and can obviously understand why women love being the centre of attention but would like to know why men enjoy it instead of having a woman to yourself?
Also curious about whether it makes a difference whether the F is your partner or a stranger and how this interest differs between bulls and cuck and what they get out of it ?"
An interesting thought though there is a theory that the shape of the penis has evolved to displace rival male's semen, when females would mate with multiple male's to increase the chances of continuing the species. This can still be seen in the natural world today with other species. If this theory is correct, perhaps the gangbang scenario taps into primal ways of those times. (I often think that we haven't evolved much over the millenia, in some respects - take a Friday night out for young adults. The females typically accentuate feminine characteristics, boobs, bums, hips, etc. The guys want to be buff and display strength, as well as wanting to be top guy / alpha male and have fights to prove that they're the strongest, protect their female against competition, etc - exactly what happens in the animal world.). |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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Its an interesting point about the natural element even the "fertilizing with our seed" aspect as I have never seen gangbangs in a "reproductive" light. Especially as every single one I've been involved with we have played safe. I have never attended a bareback one. So of course, as the question asks, sex is really for procreation but acts like a gangbang, to me anyway, are simply pure hedonism. Its all about the pleasure. Particularly the woman's. Again, to me at least, its paramount the she enjoys herself the most. The men, by default, will also do so. But that's a secondary, albeit still an important one. However, I will add here that in many of the gangbangs I've been to I have seen other men obviously not comfortable being there once the fun started. Seen stage fright strike as well as nerves, awkwardness, whatever else. But I have never seen the lady, once the fun starts, back out. Maybe that's just pot luck on my part? But I have said in other posts on here and read others make this point too: Gangbangs are a "niche" thing. They have a selective fanbase and are certainly not for everyone. As echoed in other comments on this very thread. And that's fine. Vive La Difference!
But again, in an attempt, to fully answer Kaytie0's question, the thing I like best is the woman enjoying her herself being satisfied by a horde of guys. There is that primal, testosterone fuelled dynamic of her being almost at the mercy when cornered by the "pack" yet she is still the "one". The "Big Kahuna" for a more lighthearted analogy. The centre of attention. The "goddess" even??? Use what term works best for you.
Also realised from attending gangbangs I'm indeed a voyeur. I do like to watch. And watching a woman with multiple men I find more alluring and erotic. Does it make a difference if the woman is a stranger? Yes, a little bit it does. If the lady is "mine" as in say a partner (my ex-wife and I attended a few gangbangs together) then I maybe enjoy the watching that little bit more. We never did the cuck dynamic though so I'm not able to offer insight into that aspect.
In a nutshell a gangbang to me is just a group of like minded people indulging in mutually satisfying, hopefully mind blowing, sexual pleasure. |
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"I’m curious what men enjoy about gangbangs given it goes against your apparent evolutionary, primal nature to ensure your seed impregnates egg and all that jazz? I’m not judging I love gangbangs and can obviously understand why women love being the centre of attention but would like to know why men enjoy it instead of having a woman to yourself?
Also curious about whether it makes a difference whether the F is your partner or a stranger and how this interest differs between bulls and cuck and what they get out of it ?"
One of my biggest turn ons is to see a woman in pleasure, even more so if I’m involved, so I’m not sure what that says about me and evolution or the sexual imperative or whatever…
I just enjoy it  |
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"evolutionary primal nature" I think that's very much the emotional part of the brain, if and when swinging that's part of the equation its a recipe for disaster.
For me at least swinging is about mutual pleasure an mmf or gangbang brings both the direct sexual pleasure and also the voyeurism that could be associated with porn. Most if not all men on here would admit to watching porn so it's full emersive porn and reality combined.
I have had several threesome always with the lady being my partner. Although that's not really a gang bang.
Did attend an organised gang bang some years ago, three ladies and about 20 guys in a very nice house complete with games room, gym and swimming pool, they put on food and drink, there were bowels with condoms in and a bowl with kamagra jelly. And most to my surprise once in the bedroom a professional set up with several cameras I think it was either webcast or I'm on x hamster somewhere.
Was a lot of fun and a great evening was had by all |
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"Been in a few parties and GB's. Much less "rutting" than you think. Respect given to the female at all times, it can get sore don't you know."
Very valid point. I've often found some people's perceptions of what they think a GB is actually like is very different from reality. |
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"Its an interesting point about the natural element even the "fertilizing with our seed" aspect as I have never seen gangbangs in a "reproductive" light. Especially as every single one I've been involved with we have played safe. I have never attended a bareback one. So of course, as the question asks, sex is really for procreation but acts like a gangbang, to me anyway, are simply pure hedonism. Its all about the pleasure. Particularly the woman's. Again, to me at least, its paramount the she enjoys herself the most. The men, by default, will also do so. But that's a secondary, albeit still an important one. However, I will add here that in many of the gangbangs I've been to I have seen other men obviously not comfortable being there once the fun started. Seen stage fright strike as well as nerves, awkwardness, whatever else. But I have never seen the lady, once the fun starts, back out. Maybe that's just pot luck on my part? But I have said in other posts on here and read others make this point too: Gangbangs are a "niche" thing. They have a selective fanbase and are certainly not for everyone. As echoed in other comments on this very thread. And that's fine. Vive La Difference!
But again, in an attempt, to fully answer Kaytie0's question, the thing I like best is the woman enjoying her herself being satisfied by a horde of guys. There is that primal, testosterone fuelled dynamic of her being almost at the mercy when cornered by the "pack" yet she is still the "one". The "Big Kahuna" for a more lighthearted analogy. The centre of attention. The "goddess" even??? Use what term works best for you.
Also realised from attending gangbangs I'm indeed a voyeur. I do like to watch. And watching a woman with multiple men I find more alluring and erotic. Does it make a difference if the woman is a stranger? Yes, a little bit it does. If the lady is "mine" as in say a partner (my ex-wife and I attended a few gangbangs together) then I maybe enjoy the watching that little bit more. We never did the cuck dynamic though so I'm not able to offer insight into that aspect.
In a nutshell a gangbang to me is just a group of like minded people indulging in mutually satisfying, hopefully mind blowing, sexual pleasure. "
Fully agree, think you pretty much hit the nail on the head here. |
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"I’m curious what men enjoy about gangbangs given it goes against your apparent evolutionary, primal nature to ensure your seed impregnates egg and all that jazz? I’m not judging I love gangbangs and can obviously understand why women love being the centre of attention but would like to know why men enjoy it instead of having a woman to yourself?
Also curious about whether it makes a difference whether the F is your partner or a stranger and how this interest differs between bulls and cuck and what they get out of it ?"
I won’t lie being in the midle we’re u have a guy in side u and ur face down between a woman’s legs and then a woman ridding u while he has his cock in ur mouth are. Both just hot and feels great |
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"Mmf sometimes gives me chance to have a rest haha
Hahahah typical man answer! "
I think part of the turn on for the guys is fucking another guys wife and filling her with your cum while he’s there watching her get pleasured
It’s also nice to watch the lady take multiple cocks at once it’s a live porn show
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For me, I love the sexual energy! It’s like watching live porn. Also, it takes some of the pressure of me from having to please the woman. Not saying that I don’t want her to have a good time, I just know that in the situation of a gangbang, it’s not all on me. |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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Do you have to build up to it?
That is, have a 3some first, then a foursome, then a 5some...and up to a football team..
For men and women?
Or do you jump in at the deep end? |
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By *ister_EMan 47 weeks ago
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I'm Bi and I get off on my partners pleasure. So mmf is perfect for me! I get to play with cock and pussy and being able to pleasure two partners is even so much hotter!
But even MFM 3sums are amazing. Not only is watching her pleasure an amazing aphrodisiac, but it's incredibly liberating for the guys. It removes a lot of self imposed pressure and performance anxiety for us. You can just let loose completely and enjoy your own pleasure knowing that you can just fuck her as hard, and fast, and deep as you like then pull out before you cum and the other guy is ready to slip into her and carry on... it means that her pleasure is uninterrupted and you can take a break to cool down before taking another turn...
And if I do cum before her it's OK because I still have him as backup and watching them fuck makes me so horny and ready for another round.
It's especially good with couple's where I know I'm going to lick his creampie out of her swollen and freshly fucked pussy.
Knowing Im going to be plunging plunging my cock inside her for sloppy seconds is guaranteed to make me rock hard again instantly.
That's why in a really hot mmf session the guys can both cum multiple times times |
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For me there’s just something incredibly sexy about a woman who wants all that sex. Something about her being insatiable that turns me on.
And there’s sexiness in a big pile of naked bodies all going at it together, but that’s more group sex than gangbang really. |
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I think MMMMMF works best, not only is the woman hopefully receiving the attention she enjoys, there’s always someone spare to put the kettle on and make some tea.
All that sexy business is thirsty work!
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"There are two aspects to it for me.
I enjoy the voyeuristic side of watching people together.
I also enjoy the primal side of it."
Agree with this, it’s great to watch a woman who enjoys multiple guys get into it and enjoy it, fascinating to watch but also so immensely horny when in the thick of the action |
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We love group fun, being in the center of fun with another woman or a mf couple is very horny, seeing guys wank their hard cocks or enjoy sharing them together and have them cum on me is a thrill, as long as the guys are respectful and not a knobhead wanker it can be a great way to spend a couple of hours  |
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"I’m curious what men enjoy about gangbangs given it goes against your apparent evolutionary, primal nature to ensure your seed impregnates egg and all that jazz? I’m not judging I love gangbangs and can obviously understand why women love being the centre of attention but would like to know why men enjoy it instead of having a woman to yourself?
Also curious about whether it makes a difference whether the F is your partner or a stranger and how this interest differs between bulls and cuck and what they get out of it ?"
I loved it seeing a girl play with more cocks the better that's so hot
I think it's better with someone you no as seeing them in action is also very hot but also been involved in a GB with people I didn't no and still is good fun |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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Don’t enjoy gangbangs Been to 2. Felt it was a bit like waiting for the check out to open at lidls. Do you move to the short queue for the left hand or wait it out |
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"I’m curious what men enjoy about gangbangs given it goes against your apparent evolutionary, primal nature to ensure your seed impregnates egg and all that jazz? I’m not judging I love gangbangs and can obviously understand why women love being the centre of attention but would like to know why men enjoy it instead of having a woman to yourself?
Also curious about whether it makes a difference whether the F is your partner or a stranger and how this interest differs between bulls and cuck and what they get out of it ?"
I've never taken part in one. What is it you enjoy about them, OP? |
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Hi Katie..thought you were from Seaham not Bradford! I love to see a woman being pleasured by a group of men. Turns me on playing with a stranger who enjoys sex...quite simple really. Been to several with the same woman and her hubby watching on when i first joined several years ago. Would love to find a local woman in to this for weekday daytime. |
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We’ve not done a GB but C has played with 3 guys and it’s hot to see her so insatiable. All 3 of us building the heat and C getting all the attention. The hotter the experience the filthier she becomes and that just increases the heat.
I also enjoy watching her be covered in cum - C has a bit of a fetish about it
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have been involved in all male gangbangs involving bottoms and tops .also as you might say a gangbang with a female.
for me it is the visual sight of the sexy situation of both sexes .but i do enjoy seeing the hard cocks waiting there turn |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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"I’m curious what men enjoy about gangbangs given it goes against your apparent evolutionary, primal nature to ensure your seed impregnates egg and all that jazz? I’m not judging I love gangbangs and can obviously understand why women love being the centre of attention but would like to know why men enjoy it instead of having a woman to yourself?
Also curious about whether it makes a difference whether the F is your partner or a stranger and how this interest differs between bulls and cuck and what they get out of it ?"
I've not had a gangbang yet, but I just love the fact that everyone is getting involved with the woman and she's taking all the guys and especially hot if she enjoy's being cummed inside. So as you fuck her you can feel the other guys cum and using it as lube. Idk, it's just hot. |
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By *batMan 39 weeks ago
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In essence, most blokes like fucking and we like watching other people fuck. I especially like watching women get really hot and horny, a GB being a great example of this.
It takes a bit of performance pressure off us too, as we are "sharing the load" so to speak.
Not all men are happy in close proximity to other men's cocks, but for quite a few of us, it's no big deal or even adds to the enjoyment.
What's your take on it?
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I did quite a few gangbangs in my earlier swinging days (in my early 30s). I loved the pure hedonism of them and when it was my ‘turn’ I loved other guys watching me fuck the woman. I enjoyed their attention as much as I enjoyed the sex. I’ve done fewer as I’ve got older, wary maybe that my performance wouldn’t match that of younger guys (though I’d love to put that to the test! Reckon I’d do fine). Main reason I think is that I’ve just grown to enjoy more intimate fun with couples or singles. |
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By *batMan 39 weeks ago
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"It's like real sex and porn all rolled into one. Especially sexy if the woman at the centre of attention is your partner watching her having huge amounts of pleasure is definitely a big plus"
I watched a previous longterm GF getting banged by two guys. It was extremely hot and did a lot for both our sex lives!
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I used to love watching my ex gf either gangbanged or fucked one after another when we went dogging and the main turn on for me was seeing her eyes roll in pure ecstasy as she lost complete control over any of her bodily functions whilst screaming and squirting
The sex was unbelievable however the actual relationship was shit! |
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Been accidentally part of a blowbang at a club - i was minding my own business just watching a woman jump on every cock in sight - id seen her on cam in here before and she has serious skills - anyway i got up to walk to another area of the club and she grabbed my hand and pulled me over - So .. i surrendered myself… met her a few times after on a 1-1 and I do prefer that or MFM ( Not MMF) the turn on in the group was watching her devour everyone and how turned on she was with the attention.  |
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