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They're not really your friends
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I wonder why people seem to get so "knickers in a bunch" about "friending" someone on fab. Unless you've become friends in REAL life, the click of a button only really expresses a general interest, so if they don't speak to you daily, or, don't drop everything to chat to you it's not personal! Stop reading so much into it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wonder why people seem to get so "knickers in a bunch" about "friending" someone on fab. Unless you've become friends in REAL life, the click of a button only really expresses a general interest, so if they don't speak to you daily, or, don't drop everything to chat to you it's not personal! Stop reading so much into it!"
I wouldn't let it wind you up they only want to look at your pictures.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"And you're so right op!
Although there are other methods of initiating contact"
Absolutely but at the end of the day it's an electronic communication not a personal one to start with. |
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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago
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"And you're so right op!
Although there are other methods of initiating contact
Absolutely but at the end of the day it's an electronic communication not a personal one to start with."
Yea I see where you're coming from but personally I'd like to chat a get a feel about somebody before I let them see my private friends only pics (not they're anything special). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only use/invite/accept "Friends Invites" after i have met people; where thats sexual or just as CB's
Cynically; i feel those who hit the "friends invite" button without this are just pic collectors or just wanting to see your full profile pic n veri so they can collect or contact...ok that is cynical view...but im sure some can empathize with that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wonder why people seem to get so "knickers in a bunch" about "friending" someone on fab. Unless you've become friends in REAL life, the click of a button only really expresses a general interest, so if they don't speak to you daily, or, don't drop everything to chat to you it's not personal! Stop reading so much into it!"
Oooh can we be friends?  |
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"I wonder why people seem to get so "knickers in a bunch" about "friending" someone on fab. Unless you've become friends in REAL life, the click of a button only really expresses a general interest, so if they don't speak to you daily, or, don't drop everything to chat to you it's not personal! Stop reading so much into it!"
everyone uses the tools available on the site differently and understands it differently, why have they got to feel a certain way because you say ao? |
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"I wonder why people seem to get so "knickers in a bunch" about "friending" someone on fab. Unless you've become friends in REAL life, the click of a button only really expresses a general interest, so if they don't speak to you daily, or, don't drop everything to chat to you it's not personal! Stop reading so much into it!"
^ This (that's twice in 30 seconds now lol). No, I really don't get it either 
It's like the 'having a friends list edit' announcement people make on their Fab status or on Facebook - never inderstood it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I wonder why people seem to get so "knickers in a bunch" about "friending" someone on fab. Unless you've become friends in REAL life, the click of a button only really expresses a general interest, so if they don't speak to you daily, or, don't drop everything to chat to you it's not personal! Stop reading so much into it!
everyone uses the tools available on the site differently and understands it differently, why have they got to feel a certain way because you say ao?"
Well that's obvious. It's because I'm brilliant . I'm sure people do use this site differently, but, if you read the sheer amount of whining about blocking/friends/winks/messages etc then sometimes people need a reality check. People on here aren't your friends because they've clicked a button on their pc saying so. |
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"I wonder why people seem to get so "knickers in a bunch" about "friending" someone on fab. Unless you've become friends in REAL life, the click of a button only really expresses a general interest, so if they don't speak to you daily, or, don't drop everything to chat to you it's not personal! Stop reading so much into it!
everyone uses the tools available on the site differently and understands it differently, why have they got to feel a certain way because you say ao?
Well that's obvious. It's because I'm brilliant . I'm sure people do use this site differently, but, if you read the sheer amount of whining about blocking/friends/winks/messages etc then sometimes people need a reality check. People on here aren't your friends because they've clicked a button on their pc saying so. "
I fully understand that, which must surely mean that I am almost as brilliant as you are.
I see all the posts that you see too but like death and taxes they will always be with us  |
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Thats why I set no importance for being someones 'friend' see no point in it personally. Most guys just want to see the fotos but rarely have anything I want to see.
To me its more important to see on cam if I were interested at all . |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"I wonder why people seem to get so "knickers in a bunch" about "friending" someone on fab. Unless you've become friends in REAL life, the click of a button only really expresses a general interest, so if they don't speak to you daily, or, don't drop everything to chat to you it's not personal! Stop reading so much into it!"
the only people on my friends list are people who i have actually met or are people that i do speak to....
if someone wants to look at my private pics... they have to get to know me first... simple as...
don't like it... tough.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wonder why people seem to get so "knickers in a bunch" about "friending" someone on fab. Unless you've become friends in REAL life, the click of a button only really expresses a general interest, so if they don't speak to you daily, or, don't drop everything to chat to you it's not personal! Stop reading so much into it!
the only people on my friends list are people who i have actually met or are people that i do speak to....
if someone wants to look at my private pics... they have to get to know me first... simple as...
don't like it... tough.... "
Our friends list are people we potentially will meet/have met or chat to, we have a private folder for a reason, we don't want the pics on public display, if we did they would be in the public folder lol
Although I do find it funny that its called a friends list ( same as Facebook) a better name would be people we've "spoken to list " ( I guess it's long winded though) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I wonder why people seem to get so "knickers in a bunch" about "friending" someone on fab. Unless you've become friends in REAL life, the click of a button only really expresses a general interest, so if they don't speak to you daily, or, don't drop everything to chat to you it's not personal! Stop reading so much into it!
everyone uses the tools available on the site differently and understands it differently, why have they got to feel a certain way because you say ao?
Well that's obvious. It's because I'm brilliant . I'm sure people do use this site differently, but, if you read the sheer amount of whining about blocking/friends/winks/messages etc then sometimes people need a reality check. People on here aren't your friends because they've clicked a button on their pc saying so.
I fully understand that, which must surely mean that I am almost as brilliant as you are.
I see all the posts that you see too but like death and taxes they will always be with us "
Very true (apart from the bit about being nearly as brilliant as me) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wonder why people seem to get so "knickers in a bunch" about "friending" someone on fab. Unless you've become friends in REAL life, the click of a button only really expresses a general interest, so if they don't speak to you daily, or, don't drop everything to chat to you it's not personal! Stop reading so much into it!"
I agree why do people get their kickers in a twist (bunch?) over it and post in the forums, its similar to those that go on about webcammers not being real swingers and being timewasters, just a waste of time bringing it up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thing for me us when I have all my pics set to private and none as friends only, I never get friend requests. When there are friend only pics I get inundated with requests, I just like to have exchanged messages with someone before accepting em. I also don't keep anyone I haven't met or talk to regularly on my friends list for more then a week. How I use it is up to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thing for me us when I have all my pics set to private and none as friends only, I never get friend requests. When there are friend only pics I get inundated with requests, I just like to have exchanged messages with someone before accepting em. I also don't keep anyone I haven't met or talk to regularly on my friends list for more then a week. How I use it is up to me."
Pretty much the same, we won't friend with people who are unverified either..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wonder why people seem to get so "knickers in a bunch" about "friending" someone on fab. Unless you've become friends in REAL life, the click of a button only really expresses a general interest, so if they don't speak to you daily, or, don't drop everything to chat to you it's not personal! Stop reading so much into it!"
its probabley cos they dont want just anyone to see their only friends private pics |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"I only use/invite/accept "Friends Invites" after i have met people; where thats sexual or just as CB's
Cynically; i feel those who hit the "friends invite" button without this are just pic collectors or just wanting to see your full profile pic n veri so they can collect or contact...ok that is cynical view...but im sure some can empathize with that "
So glad to see somebody else d that. I only accept invites now when I have met people. Works for me. |
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