In my experience of the kink scene, humiliation isn't as common a kink for women as it is for men.
Cuckolding is ultimately a form of humiliation play, so it follows that fewer women are into it than men, on the whole.
As for why more men are into humiliation play than women? You'd have to ask a psychologist about that one.
It has certainly become more fashionable over the years. It used to be a pretty niche kink. Although when I talk to couples these days they often say they're into cuck (which is 100% not my thing), but it turns out that they're not really into cuck, that's just the word they thought described opening their relationship up to others and having threesomes. |
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It has certainly become more fashionable over the years. It used to be a pretty niche kink. Although when I talk to couples these days they often say they're into cuck (which is 100% not my thing), but it turns out that they're not really into cuck, that's just the word they thought described opening their relationship up to others and having threesomes
Yes I think you nailed it on the head their.. cuckold has morphed.. it use to be shame/humiliation stuff but I think there’s many flavours of it now.. |
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By *oxy jWoman 48 weeks ago
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"Any insights on why it’s become so fashionable to watch the Mrs fuck other guys..?
Way more than cuckoldress "
cuckolding is not about watching the mrs fuck its alot lot more than that and normal swingers who meet just men (and thats alot) watch there wives getting fucked ? are they all cucks not in a zillion years
the cuckold label is wrongly used by so many
cuckolding is split in two fantasy/ roleplay 90% probably based on porn and bucket list stuff that as far away from real cuckolding and then real cuckolding is a lifestyle mostly based on a real reason to cuckold its not a game its real life cucks are cucks for real life reasons ..small cock ...limp cock... cums to quick ..man alot older ..or just cant please your wife in bed but the relationship is rock solid consent/truth is always there ...
cuckold is mostly mindful there none of this reclaim reclaim what?? im aready his he knows that at all times just im free to do as i please sexually and he knows why i keep nothing from him hes needs to know why too all part of the mental side that we love..
there no right or wrong but one thing to pretend and another to not
there seems a trend at the mo and when things are trendy they all go for it ...i remember 30 years ago trend was bi guys they were gold dust untill guys realise that sucking a little cock got you a wet pussy and look at it now sing;e bi guy moaning they are getting nowhere .... really cant wait for the cuckold bubble to bust just look at the amount of wannabe cucks whom most dont have a clue |
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By *iganpairCouple 48 weeks ago
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Well said
"Any insights on why it’s become so fashionable to watch the Mrs fuck other guys..?
Way more than cuckoldress
cuckolding is not about watching the mrs fuck its alot lot more than that and normal swingers who meet just men (and thats alot) watch there wives getting fucked ? are they all cucks not in a zillion years
the cuckold label is wrongly used by so many
cuckolding is split in two fantasy/ roleplay 90% probably based on porn and bucket list stuff that as far away from real cuckolding and then real cuckolding is a lifestyle mostly based on a real reason to cuckold its not a game its real life cucks are cucks for real life reasons ..small cock ...limp cock... cums to quick ..man alot older ..or just cant please your wife in bed but the relationship is rock solid consent/truth is always there ...
cuckold is mostly mindful there none of this reclaim reclaim what?? im aready his he knows that at all times just im free to do as i please sexually and he knows why i keep nothing from him hes needs to know why too all part of the mental side that we love..
there no right or wrong but one thing to pretend and another to not
there seems a trend at the mo and when things are trendy they all go for it ...i remember 30 years ago trend was bi guys they were gold dust untill guys realise that sucking a little cock got you a wet pussy and look at it now sing;e bi guy moaning they are getting nowhere .... really cant wait for the cuckold bubble to bust just look at the amount of wannabe cucks whom most dont have a clue"
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"It has certainly become more fashionable over the years. It used to be a pretty niche kink. Although when I talk to couples these days they often say they're into cuck (which is 100% not my thing), but it turns out that they're not really into cuck, that's just the word they thought described opening their relationship up to others and having threesomes
Yes I think you nailed it on the head their.. cuckold has morphed.. it use to be shame/humiliation stuff but I think there’s many flavours of it now.. "
It's never been one aspect, it's always been a many facetted thing as individual as couples themselves are..
Think porn has like many different areas of this aspect indeed sexual likes etc has played a part/influenced some and not always in a positive way..
Plus what Foxy says which as usual is very much spot on.. |
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"Any insights on why it’s become so fashionable to watch the Mrs fuck other guys..?
Way more than cuckoldress
cuckolding is not about watching the mrs fuck its alot lot more than that and normal swingers who meet just men (and thats alot) watch there wives getting fucked ? are they all cucks not in a zillion years
the cuckold label is wrongly used by so many
cuckolding is split in two fantasy/ roleplay 90% probably based on porn and bucket list stuff that as far away from real cuckolding and then real cuckolding is a lifestyle mostly based on a real reason to cuckold its not a game its real life cucks are cucks for real life reasons ..small cock ...limp cock... cums to quick ..man alot older ..or just cant please your wife in bed but the relationship is rock solid consent/truth is always there ...
cuckold is mostly mindful there none of this reclaim reclaim what?? im aready his he knows that at all times just im free to do as i please sexually and he knows why i keep nothing from him hes needs to know why too all part of the mental side that we love..
there no right or wrong but one thing to pretend and another to not
there seems a trend at the mo and when things are trendy they all go for it ...i remember 30 years ago trend was bi guys they were gold dust untill guys realise that sucking a little cock got you a wet pussy and look at it now sing;e bi guy moaning they are getting nowhere .... really cant wait for the cuckold bubble to bust just look at the amount of wannabe cucks whom most dont have a clue"
Thanks for the insight.. I wasn’t assuming that cuckold roles were just one way or another and of course it’s many different varieties.. interesting you mention bi and I think there is a leaning for some cuckold play to have it’s roots in bi or bi curiosity.. it’s not my thing but different strokes for folks etc… |
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"Well said
Any insights on why it’s become so fashionable to watch the Mrs fuck other guys..?
Way more than cuckoldress
cuckolding is not about watching the mrs fuck its alot lot more than that and normal swingers who meet just men (and thats alot) watch there wives getting fucked ? are they all cucks not in a zillion years
the cuckold label is wrongly used by so many
cuckolding is split in two fantasy/ roleplay 90% probably based on porn and bucket list stuff that as far away from real cuckolding and then real cuckolding is a lifestyle mostly based on a real reason to cuckold its not a game its real life cucks are cucks for real life reasons ..small cock ...limp cock... cums to quick ..man alot older ..or just cant please your wife in bed but the relationship is rock solid consent/truth is always there ...
cuckold is mostly mindful there none of this reclaim reclaim what?? im aready his he knows that at all times just im free to do as i please sexually and he knows why i keep nothing from him hes needs to know why too all part of the mental side that we love..
there no right or wrong but one thing to pretend and another to not
there seems a trend at the mo and when things are trendy they all go for it ...i remember 30 years ago trend was bi guys they were gold dust untill guys realise that sucking a little cock got you a wet pussy and look at it now sing;e bi guy moaning they are getting nowhere .... really cant wait for the cuckold bubble to bust just look at the amount of wannabe cucks whom most dont have a clue"
I agree fully - I have met with a lot of couples where the lazy tag could be to label them as cuckold - but each one has had their individual and personal reasons for wanting another guy to join them
I've always found it great to be invited for a brief time into a relationship for some fun ( which is what it should always be) and then to let them enjoy the occasion - as i do |
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