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What made you realise you wanted to see your wife with another man?
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For us, I had a dream that she gave someone a blow job. I was incredibly turned on but when I mentioned it she said she didnt fancy being with another man, just another woman, which was fine with me although I was surprised at how horney the dream was. Fast forward a few months and she's snogging this beautiful red head woman in a club. I was behind her playing with her. Afterwards she said the red head had asked her if she would wank her husband off. She said no at the time. After a bit of thought I said "maybe you should have done". She agreed! That's when we both decided it was time to take our naughtiness to then next level  |
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Other way around for us I always had a fantasy of seeing him with another woman, similar to you I had a dream about him giving oral to another woman & that was hot, since then we've enjoyed some great experiences with other women.
As for other men it's me (Mrs) that isn't entirely sure I think I'm off cock
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Ha ha it was the same for us! Mrs loved watching me with another female (and her enjoying the female too) but totally unsure about another cock! It was odd that i was the one that was instigating it but maybe that's normal afterall! |
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By *bflirtyCouple 51 weeks ago
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A long time ago at a BBQ someone I’d never met before talked about Torture Garden and then a week or so later invited us (ex wife now). Ended up playing and never looked back. When I met Alicia I told her after a short time what I was into and took her to TG - she loved it. That was 24 years ago… |
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"For us, I had a dream that she gave someone a blow job. I was incredibly turned on but when I mentioned it she said she didnt fancy being with another man, just another woman, which was fine with me although I was surprised at how horney the dream was. Fast forward a few months and she's snogging this beautiful red head woman in a club. I was behind her playing with her. Afterwards she said the red head had asked her if she would wank her husband off. She said no at the time. After a bit of thought I said "maybe you should have done". She agreed! That's when we both decided it was time to take our naughtiness to then next level "
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When me and ex wife started swinging we met maybe 5 cples, we realised we both got very turned on with just a guy, she loved to suck, wank, kiss and fuxk him as I watched. And I loved to wank and watch and join in |
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For us it was when a work colleague made a pass at Wifey at a works Christmas party. They had a little kiss but that was all. She put a stop to it and tearfully confessed when she got home. But what shocked us both was how turned on I got and we had great sex. We chatted afterwards and I said if she wanted to take it further I wouldn’t mind. That opened the door to us swinging and all the fun we’ve enjoyed since. As regards the guy at her work, nothing happened for several years but then when he handed his notice in and he made another pass at her she responded and they fucked a couple of times |
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By (user no longer on site) 50 weeks ago
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We are always talking about it. It turns us both on loads at the thought but at the moment she won't take the next step.I'm not pressuring her, what will be, will be |
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By *CBoyTV/TS 50 weeks ago
Tonypandy |
"We watched a lot of porn together in our early days together, that put thoughts in our head that we spoke about and eventually decided to try"
Similar for me. I noticed she was prticulary getting turned on by photos of women with two guys. After some gentle coaxing she admitted that it had always been a fantasy of hers ..so we did embark on a number of threesomes. It was fantastic seeing her enjoying two cocks and it felt so loving knowing I'd helped her to enjoy her sexuality that way. |
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Very early on in our (what was then a vanilla) relationship we started talking about fantasies as you do. Ruth eventually confessed to wanting to have two guys at the same time. My reply was “I can make that happen” (having been on the scene a little bit before). Silence from Ruth for a few minutes then a whispered “go on then”.
It was an amazing first time for her and the rest as they say is history. |
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My ex got me into it when we started dating she confessed she felt bad after a date she went and sucked her ex off I said don’t worry it turns me on we had lots of fun together she met him a few times and another ex and a few others amazing times |
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For me it's less of a 'want her to be with other guys' and more 'want to be with her whilst we play with others'.
I'd watched alot of threesomes and group sex in porn, and love seeing and hearing Mrs orgasm and be pleasured etc so it's seemed natural to want to see her experience that.
I would sometimes imagine having a other guy if she was sucking me on all 4s, or sucking a guy if we were in doggy. I just wanted her to experience being spoiled by others.
Plus I got very turned on by the prospect of couple swapping and seeing her play with a guy while I fucked someone new too
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First realised when discussing sex and always wanted to see us with other people involved as turn on thinking of sucking another man’s cock and seeing them slide inside her and luckily for me Lucy was thinking same and wanted others involved and have multiple cocks and pussies xx |
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Had very clear dreams of her taking other cocks after watching her using toys in front of me . My best mate had her on his lap and his hand was up her skirt playing with her pussy after a boozy nite out . I could even hear how wet she was. Fucked her on way home and again when in doors , incredible time
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The Mrs used to swing with her ex and was open about it in our first date, I had zero problem with it as love and sez are two vastly different things. I love seeing her enjoying herself and she loves being a slut. |
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We were out one night and the Mrs told someone she liked the look of them, and instead of being annoyed like I thought I should have been, I was a bit turned on by the thought. Think it stayed in my mind after because I had a few vivid dreams of her playing with other men and woke up hornier than I’ve ever been. Told her all of this, discussed it and luckily I got to experience what I’d been fantasying about for a year in real life … was class to be fair |
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"We talk about it a lot more lately, have plenty of role play with the idea…I don’t know what’s stopping us really, we both want it to happen it’s just taking that first step"
May be try a club. Go for the atmosphere and chillax. You don't have enough play huy you get the chance to dress up and feel sexy. The worse that can happen is you have a great night together. |
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By *aloo42Couple 50 weeks ago
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One summer evening we were playing pool at a local pub, she was dressed for the weather and some lads made a few comments about her legs, arse, tits. Nothing happened but we had an interesting chat after. Saw a strange advert for a club in Blackpool and took the plunge. Haven't looked back and made some good friends in the process |
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By (user no longer on site) 50 weeks ago
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Mines a bit odd. Me my wife and brother went out for a meal and all got a bit d*unk. Went back to oirs and I was showing him how my IPTV system worked. It just happened that it had quite a comprehensive selection of porn channels and films which we started watching. Wife was complaining and went to get more drinks. When she got back she sat next to me and I surreptitiously started playing with her. She didn’t stop me so I went for pussy. She didn’t stop me again. One thing led to another and I ended up fuckeing hee in the lounge with my brother watching. I didn’t last long and she wa still horny so I told her my brother will fuck her. He did. It was very horny and we went from there! |
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By (user no longer on site) 50 weeks ago
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We had been chatting about getting involved in the lifestyle. I said that I’d love to see her with another bloke. Turned out that she got very turned on with the thought of me with a bloke. We organised a meet. Both ended up sucking his cock together and she watched me on my own with him and vice versa.
Here’s to more hot meets. |
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With ex we often video our selves watched it back . Also loved hearing her talk about past sex life . We talked about fatazises etc. Also back before we lived together had lot car sex we got Court one night by some lads in a car we found it more a turn on than embarrassed |
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watching porn saw f2f i said love to see you with a woman , cpl weeks later we booked 1 night at a bnb club just to watch test the water. got bit d*unk she ended up in a ffff little orgy. few years later we booked a hotel to meet a fem , as they were playing they got me to join in, after the session the female left i told her to put on blindfold as i had a suprize ,she did i had a man come to room .
he done what was asked giving her oral till she cum them fucked her hard, lots of emotions flying thru my head .soon as they were finished i fucked her harder than ever.
now even though we play with cpls and fems i love to watch her getting fucked hard ,have a few dvds also great to watch back when horny. |
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