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"It's way more comfortable for both with lube."
I find it OK both with and without lube, definitely slides in easier with lube but when a woman is very turned on also great without it and lovely and tight. |
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"I don't really understand why you'd want to increase your risk of injury and infection. Just wait until you get somewhere with lube."
Of course if it was uncomfortable you would stop immediately, but if it works and as long as both people are enjoying themselves it can work just fine. |
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"I don't really understand why you'd want to increase your risk of injury and infection. Just wait until you get somewhere with lube."
risk of discomfort and/or injury for the receiver; lovely and tight for the giver... sounds like a fair trade 
I get weirdly turned on by men who put my well-being and comfort above their own enjoyment...
OP would you receive anal if there was no lube to hand? |
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"I don't really understand why you'd want to increase your risk of injury and infection. Just wait until you get somewhere with lube."
You don't need lube as the juices from the female and a bit of spit if needed is adequate. Nobody mentioned going in dry. |
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"I don't really understand why you'd want to increase your risk of injury and infection. Just wait until you get somewhere with lube.
risk of discomfort and/or injury for the receiver; lovely and tight for the giver... sounds like a fair trade
I get weirdly turned on by men who put my well-being and comfort above their own enjoyment...
OP would you receive anal if there was no lube to hand? "
See Bluebells reply, not advocating dry, just using natural lube and the woman wants it. Comfort and well being is absolutely a priority. As I said earlier, if there was any discomfort it would be an immediate stop. |
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"I don't really understand why you'd want to increase your risk of injury and infection. Just wait until you get somewhere with lube.
You don't need lube as the juices from the female and a bit of spit if needed is adequate. Nobody mentioned going in dry."
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"I don't really understand why you'd want to increase your risk of injury and infection. Just wait until you get somewhere with lube.
Of course if it was uncomfortable you would stop immediately, but if it works and as long as both people are enjoying themselves it can work just fine."
The problem is that you can be (and probably are) causing micro tears to the receiver without even realizing.
Not a kind way to treat a partner. |
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"I don't really understand why you'd want to increase your risk of injury and infection. Just wait until you get somewhere with lube.
You don't need lube as the juices from the female and a bit of spit if needed is adequate. Nobody mentioned going in dry.
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The anal passage doesnt self lubricate so I wouldnt be looking for *adequate* I get ridiculously wet... but nothing beats scientifically formulated lube made especially for the purpose.
each to their own but it would not be for me...
you didnt answer my question though op - would you receive anal with just a bit of spit?
Genuine question.
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"I don't really understand why you'd want to increase your risk of injury and infection. Just wait until you get somewhere with lube.
Of course if it was uncomfortable you would stop immediately, but if it works and as long as both people are enjoying themselves it can work just fine.
The problem is that you can be (and probably are) causing micro tears to the receiver without even realizing.
Not a kind way to treat a partner."
It's not for you, I get it, but as some of the comments on here show others have enjoyed it. |
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"Spit as lube is just gross frankly, not to mention that it is slightly acid in order to aid digestion of food so can irritate ...
Not a fan of spit in a sexual context at all"
So you never kiss or have/give oral?. Afterall spit is saliva.
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"I don't really understand why you'd want to increase your risk of injury and infection. Just wait until you get somewhere with lube.
Of course if it was uncomfortable you would stop immediately, but if it works and as long as both people are enjoying themselves it can work just fine.
The problem is that you can be (and probably are) causing micro tears to the receiver without even realizing.
Not a kind way to treat a partner.
It's not for you, I get it, but as some of the comments on here show others have enjoyed it."
That’s the thing - it 100% would be for me. It’s super sexy. The idea of a partner just having to have you now and not being able to wait? I love
It. Nothing sexier.
The reality? Microtears in my anus and rectum that increase the risk of the man passing an STI to me or causing other lasting damage.
I would suggest it’s mostly men who enjoy this fantasy, as they are not the ones at risk. You can buy sachets of lube that you can keep in your wallet alongside a condom. |
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"Spit as lube is just gross frankly, not to mention that it is slightly acid in order to aid digestion of food so can irritate ...
Not a fan of spit in a sexual context at all
So you never kiss or have/give oral?. Afterall spit is saliva.
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Definitely kiss and give oral, just don't enjoy actually spitting or being spat on if that makes sense. |
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The wife.
She doesn't like lube so refuses every time. I've seen her take some absolutely monster sized dick like that though I suppose you can count the bit of lube on condoms. Toys and me though, completely raw |
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"The wife.
She doesn't like lube so refuses every time. I've seen her take some absolutely monster sized dick like that though I suppose you can count the bit of lube on condoms. Toys and me though, completely raw "
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By *ister_EMan 48 weeks ago
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Without "lube" yes. Without lubrication no. My cock is a bit girthy so even with lubrication I have to be carefulto avoidhurtingor even tearing my partners. You don't always have "lube to hand when the opportunity for some impromptu anal fun comes up. But there's always something you can use.... Spit, cum, pussy juices, coconut oil, hair conditioner body creams or lotions etc. You just need to be careful about choosing something that wont irritate the sensitive skin.... |
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"I don't really understand why you'd want to increase your risk of injury and infection. Just wait until you get somewhere with lube.
You don't need lube as the juices from the female and a bit of spit if needed is adequate. Nobody mentioned going in dry.
The anal passage doesnt self lubricate so I wouldnt be looking for *adequate* I get ridiculously wet... but nothing beats scientifically formulated lube made especially for the purpose.
each to their own but it would not be for me...
you didnt answer my question though op - would you receive anal with just a bit of spit?
Genuine question.
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I've known people where , with some stimulation , there is definitely some form of lubrication going on.
I've no idea what but it is very definitely there. |
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