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Sending a dick pic in the first message
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I wish guys wouldn't do this.
I have now seen the penis of a contractor that I use at work.
I didn't want to see his penis.
And now I have to see him next week on a job, and he has no idea that I know what he looks like naked.
It might even be weird enough for me that I find a different contractor for future jobs.
Just don't do it guys. Not until you're asked for one. |
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"For us it usually gets the message deleted immediately or if I’m in a bad mood then it’s a block"
This time it's a bit more than a delete or a block, it might have lost him about £18k of work per year! |
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" We tend to block anyone who has just dick pics or insists on sending us one and far more interested in what it's attached to ....but it is a weird way to try to kick off a conversation though !  "
I don’t randomly send dick pics but I do have a lot on my profile so you’d probably block me straight away x |
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"Is it ok to have a dick pic only on your profile but then to send a face photo when contacting anyone ? "
I have no problem with dick pics on profiles.
I'd personally they weren't avatar photos because, quite frankly, I don't want penis shoved in my face every time I browse the site or forums. |
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By *TinRedCouple
over a year ago
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"Is it ok to have a dick pic only on your profile but then to send a face photo when contacting anyone ? "
Why would you have a dick pic as your profile pic? We genuinely don't understand why guys do this? |
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"I dunno why people don’t send a message like hi I like your profile etc would you like to see my dick? "
Because on some level they know the answer will be, 100% of the time, "No."
But then, they know that the answer to anything else they ask will also be "no." Most single men, even if they do arrive with the misconception that they will get sex on here, quickly learn that just like in real life, nobody's interested in them or their dicks.
For these guys, showing their unwanted penises to unsuspecting women is the closest thing they'll get to sexual contact, and websites like these are basically the one remaining place they can get away with it. |
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I don't know why they think it works, I wonder if they would flash some randomer in the street (and bollocks to this is a sex site excuse)
Yes you have a cock well done you, no I don't wanna see it.
I just ignore them or rate them if im feeling that way inclined, it's never a good rating.
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"I wish guys wouldn't do this.
I have now seen the penis of a contractor that I use at work.
I didn't want to see his penis.
And now I have to see him next week on a job, and he has no idea that I know what he looks like naked.
It might even be weird enough for me that I find a different contractor for future jobs.
Just don't do it guys. Not until you're asked for one."
always immediately block and delete if a cock photo appears first message .I don't think men know ladies are not bothered by cock photos |
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I don’t see the point, also why I don’t have one set as my profile. Everyone knows I’ve got a male profile so chances are if they go on it and look they’ll see them pics if they wanted to see them  |
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"We all know what we're here for...no need at all. Same with sending filthy chat to someone you've never met. Grinds my gears.  "
No filthy chat from me and definitely not as a first message. I’m more interested in finding out more about the person before making any assumptions. The filthy chat can be kept for more appropriate occasions. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Is it ok to have a dick pic only on your profile but then to send a face photo when contacting anyone ?
I have no problem with dick pics on profiles.
I'd personally they weren't avatar photos because, quite frankly, I don't want penis shoved in my face every time I browse the site or forums."
This. 
It's the same for men and women tbh.
Have one (or a couple) in your profile gallery, but FFS don't set your profile photo as a close up crotch shot and don't send in messages unless requested.
Simples really, yet so many assume that because Fab is a a sex/swinging site it's necessary to shove your crotch virtually in someone's face.  |
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