I do always have input, and tomorrow I'm spending some time with a Domme.
You choosing to ignore the many people who've tried to help you's input on how to achieve your goals doesn't mean the input is bad or that it doesn't get results when actually followed
It one of those Fantasies that you need to be careful for what you wish for, especially as some femdoms link it to money, but I'd love to submit and please a Mistress.