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By (user no longer on site) OP 51 weeks ago
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So this one's obviously for all the couples out there... How do you feel about meeting a guy who's never had a MMF before? Would the lack of experience put you off or would you be excited to introduce him to something new?
I've been with quite a lot of girls and a few guys but never both, so does anyone have any advice for those who haven't yet? Or what kind of couples to look for and how to find them?  |
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"For us verifications are the most important thing, if someone hasn’t experienced a threesome that’s fine, but knowing they are genuine and verified is the most important thing."
Ok maybe u are right but is I m not verand having issue how can I meet
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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I’m yet to experience this and would / will treat it like the start of anything else with conversations and friendship, getting to know both is essential for me. |
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Our first mfm was also the guys first threesome. I enjoyed the build up chatting with him and setting boundaries. It all went perfect and we all had an exciting very horny time which we repeated several times with him before enjoying another guy.
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By *aturasqCouple 51 weeks ago
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"For us verifications are the most important thing, if someone hasn’t experienced a threesome that’s fine, but knowing they are genuine and verified is the most important thing."
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"Would the lack of experience put you off"
No.
"or would you be excited to introduce him to something new?"
No, we get excited about meeting with people. We are swingers, not apprenticeship coordinators.
"I've been with quite a lot of girls and a few guys but never both, so does anyone have any advice for those who haven't yet? Or what kind of couples to look for and how to find them? "
Finding them is easy if you use the site's tools or attend clubs and socials. Remember they are probably looking too, so all you have to do is find one another.
When it comes to messaging, on Fab it tends to be the male half that filters the messages and then the female half see the few that have not been discounted. This might not always be the case, but assume the male half will read the message first.
When it comes to meeting, include both people in the conversation, don't just fixate on her, because he'll soon get annoyed and the meet could come to a rapid end. Also, don't assume anything, they will let you know when they are ready to play.
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"So this one's obviously for all the couples out there... How do you feel about meeting a guy who's never had a MMF before? Would the lack of experience put you off or would you be excited to introduce him to something new?
I've been with quite a lot of girls and a few guys but never both, so does anyone have any advice for those who haven't yet? Or what kind of couples to look for and how to find them? "
Don't think too much about it,be yourself,have a chat and a drink first and I'm sure it will flow naturally. Don't put too much pressure on yourself and just enjoy it. |
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Can't speak for guys but we've met women who have never met with a couple before, it's never been an issue for us or them as long as all sides are respectful, obviously there's 1st time nerves to consider
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By *eachcplCouple 51 weeks ago
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We have met guys who don't have any verifications and have taken a chance on them. We all have to start somewhere. Generally we have not had any problems, athough after some meets we have decided not to meet them again.
On the other hand we would never consider meeting anyone who had a lengthy list of verifications. That would not be the type of person we would ever meet. Someone who is putting it about all over the place.
It's down to individual choice. Only you can make your decision. |
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"We have met guys who don't have any verifications and have taken a chance on them. We all have to start somewhere. Generally we have not had any problems, athough after some meets we have decided not to meet them again.
On the other hand we would never consider meeting anyone who had a lengthy list of verifications. That would not be the type of person we would ever meet. Someone who is putting it about all over the place.
It's down to individual choice. Only you can make your decision. "
I think it is important to consider verifications to check compatibility, but reflect on where these are from. We have many, but lots of these are from socials. They prove we are genuine and friendly! Mrs SW
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